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  • Magnetism
    Veteran Member
    • Jan 2009
    • 1060

    People that prefer giving oral sex

    An old thread of mine last year got closed, so I figured it would start up again. How many of you like GIVING oral sex better than other sexual acts, or at least derive extreme pleasure from it? I think it's insulting to say that giving oral is only about the receiver, and how the giver doesn't get anything. Giving oral sex is pleasurable, because the mouth gets stimulated. Some people enjoy licking and tasting their partner. Giving oral can also send signals to the breasts and vagina. Your partner or yourself can rub your breasts or your clitoris.
    "Dating is like slow dancing. Let the man lead, or you will fall all over your feet"
  • jen1447
    Veteran Member
    • Oct 2013
    • 2380

    I would say I derive extreme pleasure from it - cunnilingus specifically. Sign me up!

    The way I'd describe it tho is ....lol I thought I had a way to describe it but it's indescribable. Put it this way - it's more of an overall high for me than a nice feeling on my tongue or what have you. When I'm giving oral to a woman, I feel like I'm doing what I was put on earth to do.

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    • Magnetism
      Veteran Member
      • Jan 2009
      • 1060

      I get a high from it too. Ha, being told your great at it helps!
      "Dating is like slow dancing. Let the man lead, or you will fall all over your feet"

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      • Stillness
        WH Poster of the Month April 2017
        • Feb 2012
        • 3679

        I wonder if this is more common with women. I think that women tend to get a lot more pleasure from sexual expression that doesn't end with climax. I sort of get it, but not completely.

        I think that I have brought a woman to orgasm on maybe two occasions in my whole life without getting there myself - and never with my wife. I've been taken there countless times without touching a vagina, though. I definitely don't think this is weird, though - no weirder that female sexuality in general.

        I say, don't worry about other people's disparaging words. Some people think that the world conforms to their views. There are pleanty of men that would appreciate someone who gets pleasure this way.
        "Those sowing seed with tears
        Will reap with a joyful shout." - Psalm 126

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        • effy2014
          Veteran Member
          • Apr 2014
          • 1777

          I love giving (cunilingus and analingus) more than receiving. Like Jen, it is the entire experience. All 5 senses are actively involved -- the scent, taste, her beauty, the feeling of her clitoris on my tongue and her moans of appreciation can be overwhelming. I couldn't be in a relationship with a woman who didn't like it. I will say that SO likes giving as well. Makes for a great relationship.
          "The only consistent feature of all of your dissatisfying relationships is you." Despair.com "Dysfunction"

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          • jns
            Assistant Admin
            • Mar 2010
            • 8398

            Scent is a big turn on for me. The naughtiness of being down there increases the excitement. The views are great and knowing that her thigh muscles are very strong adds to the edginess. Physical tongue contact with the clitoris, the labia, the area around the urethra and the vagina all are great for feedback. The best part however, is getting her to respond, first with heavy breathing, then sighs and then with contracting and trembling stomach muscles and twisting legs. Once you get to the muscles contracting stage, you are in control (unless you kill the mood some way). Then it is up to you to take her over the top.

            Does anyone else like to rest their head on her inner thigh after she has reached orgasm and came down a bit. It's a great place to place your head while you talk and contemplate working on another orgasm for her.
            I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
            ...
            Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

            From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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            • Motorguy
              Veteran Member
              • Mar 2014
              • 3921

              I really enjoy giving my wife oral as she really gets into as well. We will end up giving each other oral till we both have earth shaking orgasms. Sometimes never really having sex we enjoy the good oral we gave each other. But I do love watching the wife pleasure her girl friends orally as well and them her too. I have pick up so good tips but watching and learning as well never to old to learn something new lol.
              When out driving always turn left. Then, should you become lost, you can find your way home by reversing the procedure and always turning right.

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              • MrB
                Member
                • Jan 2013
                • 27

                Originally posted by jen1447
                I would say I derive extreme pleasure from it - cunnilingus specifically. Sign me up!

                The way I'd describe it tho is ....lol I thought I had a way to describe it but it's indescribable. Put it this way - it's more of an overall high for me than a nice feeling on my tongue or what have you. When I'm giving oral to a woman, I feel like I'm doing what I was put on earth to do.
                The words taken from my brain.... Only I'm a man 😜👍

                I do really really enjoy everything about it and I do it often and for long periods. My wife is multi orgasmic. And I can usually get 1 or 3 😋 outta her thus way.
                I always tell her that even with her multi's , I still think I like it more than her...

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                • jen1447
                  Veteran Member
                  • Oct 2013
                  • 2380

                  That's the beauty of it - you like it more or less equally (or you both get extreme pleasure from it). I can say that for certain because I've been on both sides, and while I love my orgasms, I love inducing them just as much. It illustrates the 'unequal equality' principal really well, doesn't it?

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                  • Baboy
                    Veteran Member
                    • Aug 2012
                    • 774

                    Originally posted by jns
                    Does anyone else like to rest their head on her inner thigh after she has reached orgasm and came down a bit. It's a great place to place your head while you talk and contemplate working on another orgasm for her.
                    Definitely! And the pubic mound makes a good pillow while taking a break before Round 2.
                    I do not grow old; if I stop growing, I am old.

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