[jns]

vaidan622 posted what is called spam. Because most of us don't have the right font installed, the wording looks strange. The language is Vietnamese. Following the links and further links a bit indicates that furniture is being advertised by a company in and around Ha Noi in Northern Vietnam. I believe the picture is of a type of filing cabinet.

[Motorguy]

vaidan622 posted what is called spam. Because most of us don't have the right font installed, the wording looks strange. The language is Vietnamese. Following the links and further links a bit indicates that furniture is being advertised by a company in and around Ha Noi in Northern Vietnam. I believe the picture is of a type of filing cabinet.

Oh OK thanks JNS how we suppose to read that. I mean I can read and write and speak German and Italian but not Vietnamese.

[Magnetism]

It's interesting to hear how makes get satisfied from going down on their partner. I wonder how that is perceived, compared to a woman that feels satisfied with giving oral to a man.

[Stillness]

The thing I wonder is about having a complete sexual experience by performing oral sex. Most people who are sexual and not selfish enjoy giving pleasure and get pleasure from it too. I love doing stuff to give my wife pleasure and could enjoy spending a long time doing it.

But at some point I want to have sex. I feel like I'm left hanging if I don't. Even oral or manual manipulation until I climax is just a substitute. You seem to get everything you need just from performing oral sex. I'm curious how common that is.

I'm guessing that a lot of the men talking about how much they love it would feel blue-ballsy if that was the end of it. But that a lot of ladies would be satisfied like you.

This one time my girlfriend was on her period and was crazy horny. We were in the back of my car in broad daylight and so not really in a position to get naked and dirty. She kept having me dry hump her until she climaxed - like 4-5 times. All I got physically was sore privates. But it is one of the most exciting, fulfilling, and memorable experiences I've ever had. So I get it to an extent.

[Magnetism]

Stillness-as I mentioned in another thread, my needs are very specific when it comes to getting me prepared for penetration or receiving oral. There are just some guys that don't seem to get it when I show them, because the other women they were with weren't like me. Not being in love with a man might also be a factor. The only man that was able to prepare me adequately for penetration and could bring me to orgasm was someone that I was in love with, and he was emotionally invested to me. So far, my body has rejected the guys that were wrong for me in the long term.

[jns]

Stillness, your back seat adventure could have ended different. she could have slipped a hand down your pants and given you a hand job. If she didn't use a paper to catch your ejaculate it would have been messy for you. As it was you were OK with making it all about her. For it you got a wonderful memory. I hope she has the same memory.

Trying to even out things in a *** for tat sense is in a way, foolish. If you getting off 3 times and her once is fine for the both of you, then there is no reason to go to numerical equality. If her getting off 5 times to your once works for both of you, why change it? The problem occurs when one partner doesn't attempt to come close to fulfilling their partner's minimum desires.

It's interesting to hear how makes get satisfied from going down on their partner. I wonder how that is perceived, compared to a woman that feels satisfied with giving oral to a man.

I think "makes" is supposed to be "males".

I think that men making it all about their partner and a woman making it all about her man feel much the same way. They feel that they were able to take their partner over the peak and into the throes of ecstasy. They feel fulfilled in doing their part and in being successful. In my case I wouldn't feel fulfilled if the lady just laid there as flat as a board and after a number of minutes said that she had such a good time without betraying any reaction. Her reaction and knowing where she is on the roller coaster is part of the fulfillment. That ties her experience to my own experiences in climaxing.

[Stillness]

Yeah, i remember. So, are you saying that penetration with the right man is the ultimate, but with anybody else, oral is best?

[jns]

I think Magnetism is saying that giving a guy oral is such a blast for her. She is skilled and enthusiastic and can rock the guy's world. On the other hand, finding a guy who can rock her world has been frustrating. The best she has got was when she was emotionally connected to the guy and he was skilful, observant and willing to follow directions (finding a guy who will follow directions is probably difficult). That relationship was sexually fulfilling.

[Stillness]

I'm not saying that every encounter has to be *** (haha) for tat. I'm a big ol' freak, so i like all sorts of sexual expression. Variety is the spice of life. A massage here, some dry humping and kissing there - all good.

But at some point I want my stuff in hers and I want it to go, "boom."

[Magnetism]

Stillness-I still enjoy giving oral more, even when the right man can penetrate me. Come to think of it, there was another partner that was able to successfully penetrate me ONLY after months of developing trust. Some of my female friends can easily open up their legs to anyone with no foreplay or trust. I can't do it. Jns-yes, typo! It was supposed to be males. There were times where I was receiving oral and pretended to like it, The guy still could tell I didn't like it, and then I just felt awkward.