[beethovengenius]

Hello I'm a guy in his late twenties. I've spoken to many women over the years about what makes a good penis in bed for them. And I always assumed that penis size would be the most important aspect of the penis, however what I was repeatedly told was actually how hard the guy's erection got, that was the most important aspect of the penis during sex. I was wondering what you guys think of this?

[Motorguy]

Well I can't speak for every women what they would say. But many would say is how you use your penis the motion of the ocean. Most of the women's feeling are within the first couple inches of there vagina. So having 8,9 or 10 inches penis some would women love that. But many don't care to have there cervix pounded into there uterus with long penis. But they will enjoy a good girth size penis to be stretch a little to feel filled up. So guys who are 5 inches inches being that's the avg size of a man penis of 5.3 inches.So many men can satisfied a women of what they have, just knowing how to use it will be complete and fulfilling pleasure for the women they are with.

[effy2014]

Hello I'm a guy in his late twenties. I've spoken to many women over the years about what makes a good penis in bed for them. And I always assumed that penis size would be the most important aspect of the penis, however what I was repeatedly told was actually how hard the guy's erection got, that was the most important aspect of the penis during sex. I was wondering what you guys think of this?

What makes a "good penis" is the guy that it is attached to. An attentive giving lover, willing to please over being pleased and who can satisfy his partner in and out of the bedroom will get the highest marks, no matter how long, hard or virile he is.

[beethovengenius]

What makes a "good penis" is the guy that it is attached to. An attentive giving lover, willing to please over being pleased and who can satisfy his partner in and out of the bedroom will get the highest marks, no matter how long, hard or virile he is.

Of course, a giving lover is a good lover no qualms there. But I am talking about a very specific aspect of the erect penis. Primarily how hard is the erection. From all the ladies I've had relations with they all tend to say the same thing, and that is both density and hardness of the erect penis is the number one predictor of them having an orgasm provided that he who is attached to the penis is also good at foreplay. That's just what I've been personally told by a few women that I've asked. I don't know if that is accurate of most women though, which is why asked the question here.

[jns]

Hello I'm a guy in his late twenties. I've spoken to many women over the years about what makes a good penis in bed for them. And I always assumed that penis size would be the most important aspect of the penis, however what I was repeatedly told was actually how hard the guy's erection got, that was the most important aspect of the penis during sex. I was wondering what you guys think of this?

Having a very stiff erection is a secondary characteristic of the guy being really excited. If it was just a very stiff penis without the guy around, then it would a dildo made of stiff materials. Of course, the guy getting very excited usually rubs off and the lady gets excited from his excitement. She gets excited and then has a much better time. That could also explain why she would be more likely to orgasm from such a situation.

[Stillness]

My wife has made similar comments to me. I've also seen them from the women on this site. Of course technique and the relationship matter, but from a strictly physical perspective stiffness is fairly important to a lot of women, from what I've seen. Definitely more so than size as far as sensation during sex.

[muffin70]

yes - it's quality over quantity.... I have a small penis but my wife doesn't complain, because I always make sure she is satisfied in one way or another....

Some of the womwen who slept with porn star John Holmes said they didn't enjoy it because he was never fully erect

[atskitty2]

I'm thinking w/jns here. I think I'm the first female to chime in too.
Knowing that he's very aroused, turned on either by me, or whatever I'm doing, as indicated by his rock-hard penis is a big turn on & encouraging for me to continue.

[DreamP346]

Yeah, harder does feel better. The penis is unique in that it can feel rock hard and soft at the same time. If the erection isn't super hard, it doesn't feel as good.

[M694V80]

Im in a long term relationship now but before ive have had plenty of casual sex encounter and since most have been women i will not see again or every now and then i had asked them about what do they prefer.
Most of them have said what motorguys states.....thicker is better.
But well maybe they have been saying that because im far above average in thickness and im not that long as i am thick so maybe they have been being nice to me lol.
Anyway makes sense that thicker makes them feel "full" and of course some dont tolerate much cervix banging.
On some i have had touched there cervix on a on others i sometimes had depends on the position but touching there cervix is also related on there arousal. Some times you start feeling it and later on after 10 minutes or so you cant feel it anymore.

in my case erection firmness has to do with the type of sex you are having if its a quicky will be 100% hard until cumming but if its long marathonic sex i can go from 100% erect to 70% erect and 100% on an off.
Position also has to do with this if its doggy is as hard as possible if she is riding me for a long while i think its not as hard as in doggy.

Im happy with what i got in every sense thats what matters, if your worrying about performance they can tell and it not good.

Dont be that worried on firmness and size just have fun and make them orgasm by all means necessary...they will appreciate it and give you a good time.