[Motorguy]

Hi! I'm 19 and I lost my virginity last year to my boyfriend at the time. It was pretty painful but after that it wasn't as bad but it never felt very good. We had sex a total of 3 times. I started dating a new guy who was a decent amount bigger than the first guy I had sex with. We tried to have sex but it hurt when he put it in so I made him stop it felt really tight and uncomfortable. I hadn't had sex for about 9 months so is it normal for me to have some pain again? Do you have any tips to make this less painful? I have lube now and I hope that will help.

Well Lucalfa maybe get your self a little vibrator have the boy friend used that on you to get you warm up. Then let your natural lubrication to help with boy friend size.Plus you can get some KY or other lubes to help if you don't produce enough natural wetness to handle the BF sizes.

[Little_Man_in_the_Boat]

The biggest problem is most guy don't spend enough time on foreplay.

In other words not getting you aroused enough that you get wet.

Unless your dripping wet your going to get sore I would imagine.

If a man is considerate and careful your not going to get sore but if hes too eager to get into you and rough then of course problems occur.

Single problem is the guy is just too eager to please himself this is not the way to please a women.

You as a man must take your time and get the women highly aroused so Bartholins glands are working over time to lubricate you naturally.

Then and only then should you penetrate and not before.

L.M.I.T.B