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  • DreamP346
    • Oct 2011
    • 2053

    Originally posted by atskitty2
    I may agree with you there sp, but I'd say I'm not directly influenced by porn & just prefer a cleaner area. I have moods, sometimes I like it clean-shaven, but usually just trimmed up & shapely, like the rest of me I think it's like anything else - it's more attractive not to have the hair on our heads, or our eye brows flying all over the place, unruly & frizzy. Same with the pubes
    I'm curious tho sp, do you shave your legs & pits?
    I do shave my legs and pits. I am not a radical non-conformist. There are many things that I do follow the trend with.

    Attractiveness is a matter of opinion. Hair does not have to be cut and styled to be attractive. It can be clean and combed. But sometimes that shaggy dog, unkempt hair look also is very attractive. And to me, natural has a very strong appear. To me, a woman who hasn't done too much to her appearance (no dyed hair, no waxed eyebrows, no makeup) who only look so so is much more beautiful that somebody who got the full work done and looks drop dead gorgeous. That artificially derived beauty to me looks fake.

    Hey, not saying I don't follow some of those artificial beauty tips, but to me natural beauty is more appealing than the made up one.

    And public hair has such a strong connection to sex which is such a primal instinct. To me it makes more sense for it to remain primal and unrefined.
    Freedom is just another word for nothing left to lose - Kris Kristofferson and Fred Foster (sung by Janis Joplin)

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    • jen1447
      Veteran Member
      • Oct 2013
      • 2380

      I don't really agree with the porn point either, at least inasmuch as the women in my life are concerned. I don't know that many of us are basing our looks on porn actresses, or I haven't heard any of my girls claim that anyway and I'm certainly not. It seems to me much more just a matter of basic personal upkeep, just as you like your hair or clothes looking nice when you go out, etc..

      That said, I'll admit there's a certain appeal to a beautiful woman taking an eff-you attitude toward the conventions ....surprisingly appealing.

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      • atskitty2
        Assistant Admin
        • Aug 2013
        • 4467

        I do agree with that sp, attractiveness is in the eye of the beholder, and what we feel good about in our own appearance also. As we've all discussed, it's confidence that shines through.

        And, not to harp on it, but I think it's a cultural thing as well, and an issue of what the buzz is in our particular social groupings.

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        • effy2014
          Veteran Member
          • Apr 2014
          • 1777

          My SO prefers to be cleanly waxed, but it has no relationship to porn. She never watches it. It's about cleanliness to her. As for me, since I am a fan of cunilingus, I prefer trimmed so there are not too many loose hairs for me to gag on.
          "The only consistent feature of all of your dissatisfying relationships is you." Despair.com "Dysfunction"

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          • bootsie
            Senior Member
            • May 2013
            • 154

            Originally posted by Natalie1962
            I've had intimate relations with both a shaved vagina and a very bushy one and I much prefer the hairy one to being clean shaven. It actually makes intercourse feel better for me. I've Even had more men comment favorable on my hairy pubic regions than the other way around. What do the men think (and women too)? By the way when I say hairy I mean I have a very bushy nether region.
            I also prefer women having hair down there.I truely think it looks more sexier and attractive to me,but not only that it looks sexier,it's a really turnon for me.For some reason seeing women who is completely shaved down there just don't look right to me.I guess seeing women with no hair down there,just reminds me how a baby and a young girl who hasn't fully started developing into a womanhood looks. Also if I am right.The hair down there is what help brings out a woman's sex scent .

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            • Something_Awesome
              Veteran Member
              • Apr 2014
              • 1219

              I am OK with just about anything. Sometimes it's just a mood thing. Sometimes I like it when the GF has no hair, and sometimes I want hair. To be honest, I tried to convince my GF to let it go "out of control" but she wouldn't budge on the grooming. I wanted to try putting my face in a really hairy bush at least once, and it has something to do with that "eff you" attitude (though I didn't tell the GF that lol).

              Lucky for the GF she does not have to shave her legs because she does not grow hair on them. Not even white hair.
              "Are you serious? You're bleeping THAT girl?" - jen1447

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              • Elena_EvilEye
                Veteran Member
                • Jun 2014
                • 372

                Originally posted by Something_Awesome
                I am OK with just about anything. Sometimes it's just a mood thing. Sometimes I like it when the GF has no hair, and sometimes I want hair. To be honest, I tried to convince my GF to let it go "out of control" but she wouldn't budge on the grooming. I wanted to try putting my face in a really hairy bush at least once, and it has something to do with that "eff you" attitude (though I didn't tell the GF that lol).

                Lucky for the GF she does not have to shave her legs because she does not grow hair on them. Not even white hair.
                When I go hairless hubby wants me to my hand over it and pose like a woman in those Renaissance paintings like Rafael etc I find this odd and funny. Your GF is lucky with her legs. I don't have to shave them as well but I do have a little white hair.
                It's all fun and games until you mess with a Portuguese girl.

                -

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                • Magnetism
                  Veteran Member
                  • Jan 2009
                  • 1060

                  I like some hair. Trimmed is best. Completely shaven irritates my skin.
                  "Dating is like slow dancing. Let the man lead, or you will fall all over your feet"

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                  • JonDoe
                    Veteran Member
                    • Sep 2010
                    • 444

                    My preference for a woman is hair above the bean and none below.

                    However, I will take neatly trimmed over prickly stubble any day of the week.

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                    • Motorguy
                      Veteran Member
                      • Mar 2014
                      • 3921

                      Originally posted by JonDoe
                      My preference for a woman is hair above the bean and none below.

                      However, I will take neatly trimmed over prickly stubble any day of the week.
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                      So you like the soul patch then or the land strip they call it as well.
                      When out driving always turn left. Then, should you become lost, you can find your way home by reversing the procedure and always turning right.

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