[owel1reuel]

She said I'm hitting the spot but not too much pressure compared to using my fingers. I know that when she's about to let it go there's that squeezing. I don't feel it unless I put her on top of the table positioning her in V. We haven't tried this position yet since she learned how to do it. At this position I can feel her g-spot enlarge, I can feel that she's gonna squirt/pee. But other than this position I can't make it, compared to porn videos.

[sonologist]

wel...sometimes..its not just the penis or the finger which is the main source of pleasure...sometimes mind just feels more relax and pleasureful in certain position..certain way...so..maybe..ur wife has this thing in mind that ur finger wud give her more pleasure...not saying u can satisfy while penetrating...just telling u that we all have certain things in mind which we prefer to happen in certain way to satisfy us..so..dont worry..give it time..just dont think specifically about it while having sex..enjoy ur partner..ur time with her and try to feel eachother in passionate way...soon..u both may explore much more about eachother...

[owel1reuel]

Sonologist, thank you! That helps. Should let things happen naturally!

[bubba29]

She said I'm hitting the spot but not too much pressure compared to using my fingers. I know that when she's about to let it go there's that squeezing. I don't feel it unless I put her on top of the table positioning her in V. We haven't tried this position yet since she learned how to do it. At this position I can feel her g-spot enlarge, I can feel that she's gonna squirt/pee. But other than this position I can't make it, compared to porn videos.

how long has she been able to squirt? how long did you have to practice doing it with your fingers before she squirted for the first time?

[CoolBreeze]

It's good that you want to please your wife and are willing to learn the ropes and tricks for this purpose. First thing first, don't be under any performance pressure. Both you and your partner must be mentally relaxed. Anxiety is the biggest killer of any pleasure you might be looking to achieve from physical intimacy. Technically you must have aroused your wife sufficiently for the g-spot to be engorged with blood. Since you know where her spot is you can feel the difference before and after the arousal. Foreplay can include many things, just be imaginative and move according to her responses. Another important thing to note is that squirting does not spontaneously mean that your wife is having a good orgasm. Squirting is a side effect of G-Spot stimulation and simultaneous processes of internal and external orgasmic triggers. Squirting varies from person to person, you might see it gush out in case of one person and it would just trickle out for another. The bottom line is don't use it as a benchmark for your or your wife's performance. No such pressure should exist. I would recommend that you watch or study Nina Hartley's guide to female ejaculation. Good luck and happy experimenting.

Hi there!

This is my first time posting concern since I've read lot of threads about this. I just need tips (if any).Thanks in advance

I was glad when I shared this to with my wife that every woman has the ability to squirt. I searched about it, we've just learnt about it 2 mos ago. We experimented, she participated,fortunately because she also wants to squirt for me. I found her G-spot using my fingers. That day we had the best sex ever. She's always willing squirt for me, and I am extremely turn on everytime she does it.

Here's my problem: She can't squirt unless I use my fingers to stimulate her G-spot. Before she used to pee just ONCE when we have sex on a monoblock chair and while she's sitting in a V position. But she used to pee once. THAT WAS BEFORE until we learnt to do it. I am currently in 6inches. I don't know if it has something to do with the girth. We tried different positions as much as we can think of. ALL the positions possible but still I can't make her squirt using just my penis. I really want to. I feel like my size is not good enough for her to do it. But after several strokes I switch to using my fingers and it DOES WORK! Then switch again. Every now and then she squirts but always using my fingers. So my question is. Am I too small for her? Am I not stroking her G-Spot during sex? She also really wants to squirt on me while I penetrate hers. What should I do? what positions can we try, but then again we tried every possible position. I need tips please. Thank you again!

[owel1reuel]

how long has she been able to squirt? how long did you have to practice doing it with your fingers before she squirted for the first time?

She learned it just this last May or June 2014. She just squirted the day I first knew it.

[owel1reuel]

Coolbreeze, thank you! Yes you are right. For best result of satisfaction I always make sure that my wife is relaxed, not stressed. I use to give her massage sometimes to relax her muscles. We actually have a very healthy sexual relationship. Just like from my previous comments I learned how to read her language, movement what she wants me to do. Right foreplay give blasting orgasms.

[bubba29]

She learned it just this last May or June 2014. She just squirted the day I first knew it.

ok, so it is still a very new feeling to her. it may take time for her to control the squirting more. many women need everything removed from their vagina in order to squirt. many women squirt easily while doing anal. maybe try stimulating her g spot for a bit to warm her up then try anal. could be the combination she needs to squirt while you penetrate her.

[owel1reuel]

many women squirt easily while doing anal. maybe try stimulating her g spot for a bit to warm her up then try anal. could be the combination she needs to squirt while you penetrate her.

Now I know, I had watched several porn vids that squirts when they do anal. Why?
We never did anal. I tried but she doesn't want it. I know she never will. She said it really hurts,feeling gross. Just hopefully. I'll try to talk to her about this.

[Susan Sweetlove]

Now I know, I had watched several porn vids that squirts when they do anal. Why?
We never did anal. I tried but she doesn't want it. I know she never will. She said it really hurts,feeling gross. Just hopefully. I'll try to talk to her about this.

I can squirt easily from anal, especially if I play with my clit during anal. I have really really deep deep orgasms that way and squirt over and over until the sheets are soaked.

I suggest you gently talk to your wife about trying anal. Many women have a real hangup anal about but if you can get her to try it I predict she will like it. Just be gentle, use you fingers and tongue to gently stimulate her anus, then use lots of lube and take your time, going slowly. Once you get your penis past her sphincter her anus will relax and accommodate you. Still go slow at first util she starts to relax. Play with her clit.

It will help her open her anus up to you if she pushes down like she's trying to have a bowel movement. That opens the anus up. And continue to use lots of lube so there's no discomfort for her. If she asks you to stop, listen to her. To many guys have ruined anal sex for the woman by going to fast and not listening to her.

I predict if you do it right she will enjoy it.