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  • tinyclitt
    Member
    • Feb 2011
    • 70

    Originally posted by Stillness
    LOL! I think there are studies of improved moods for women that receive semen....orally, if I'm not mistaken.
    I've always thought the improved mood thing was funny because my mood really does improve after swallowing, but I seriously don't think it's the cum doing it. I think it's more probably the enthusiasm and excitement of the event that carries over into the rest of my day or at least the rest of the morning.

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    • calibri~
      Veteran Member
      • May 2014
      • 484

      I choose not to swallow. Usually a bit manages to catch me unawares but I really dislike the texture...its like swallowing a ball of snot...I also get an unpleasant tingling / burning sensation in my mouth in reaction to cum....this rather suggests to me that my body won't thank me for ingesting it. I'm also a vegetarian and find the thought of eating human cells a bit jarring for me...those cells are still alive...the ones that you may otherwise exchange (skin, mouth etc) will be dead cells that have been shed.
      “...choose to believe in your own myth
      your own glamour
      your own spell
      a young woman who does this
      (even if she is just pretending)
      has everything....”
      ― Francesca Lia Block, How to (Un)cage a Girl

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      • Romy
        Veteran Member
        • Jan 2014
        • 339

        I am being so grossed out right now.....I wish I'd never read this thread I was happy living in ignorant bliss on this topic. I still have no problem with sperm in or on me but the next time I get ready to swallow or lick it up I think I'm going to find it hard. I'm going to need some serious mind over matter. Can't believe this has affected me so much.

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        • Motorguy
          Veteran Member
          • Mar 2014
          • 3921

          Originally posted by Romy
          I am being so grossed out right now.....I wish I'd never read this thread I was happy living in ignorant bliss on this topic. I still have no problem with sperm in or on me but the next time I get ready to swallow or lick it up I think I'm going to find it hard. I'm going to need some serious mind over matter. Can't believe this has affected me so much.
          Wow Romy, what is really the different from before nothing has change. That going to make husband sad you won't do that for him again. I really think you letting something creep you out that shouldn't at all. My wife doesn't let things like this bug her she loves the taste so will continue to swallow for me and herself.
          When out driving always turn left. Then, should you become lost, you can find your way home by reversing the procedure and always turning right.

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          • calibri~
            Veteran Member
            • May 2014
            • 484

            Oh dear Romy, you should be more faithful to your opinions and not sway to other people's! I'm not saying it's gross, it's just not for me. Someone can say it's the most delicious, intimate, erotic thing in the world, but I'm not likely to rethink any time soon. Why is a negative opinion so much more powerful?
            “...choose to believe in your own myth
            your own glamour
            your own spell
            a young woman who does this
            (even if she is just pretending)
            has everything....”
            ― Francesca Lia Block, How to (Un)cage a Girl

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            • Motorguy
              Veteran Member
              • Mar 2014
              • 3921

              Very well said Calibri, and so true but it happens all the time. My wife would never let some one convince it's bad to swallow sperm. She enjoys it and would never stop because someone doesn't like it for them self it's like foods. Some like this type of food some don't it's how it works out. I like sushi my wife can't stand it so go figure on that one.
              When out driving always turn left. Then, should you become lost, you can find your way home by reversing the procedure and always turning right.

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              • Romy
                Veteran Member
                • Jan 2014
                • 339

                Oh I don't think it's bad to swallow sperm and I still will but it's going to take a while to not think of all the yucky things people have said about it and I can see their points and totally get why they don't want to swallow it. I'm easily grossed out unfortunately which sounds like such a contradiction when yesterday, prior to reading this thread I would have happily devoured my SO sperm into my mouth loving every second of it which is a gross thing for me to love in the eyes of some people so I feel a bit foolish but I can't help the way my mind works.

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                • jilljames8184
                  Member
                  • Jun 2014
                  • 85

                  I especially like the look on my husband and boyfriend faces when I swallow. They both tell me it makes their climax even greater knowing the blowjob I am giving is something I want to do as opposed to something I feel like I have to do. Good investment for me. The better my guys feel about the blowjob; the longer they will last for rounds two and three.

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                  • effy2014
                    Veteran Member
                    • Apr 2014
                    • 1777

                    Originally posted by Romy
                    Oh I don't think it's bad to swallow sperm and I still will but it's going to take a while to not think of all the yucky things people have said about it and I can see their points and totally get why they don't want to swallow it. I'm easily grossed out unfortunately which sounds like such a contradiction when yesterday, prior to reading this thread I would have happily devoured my SO sperm into my mouth loving every second of it which is a gross thing for me to love in the eyes of some people so I feel a bit foolish but I can't help the way my mind works.
                    There is nothing wrong with the way your mind works. Your eagerness is due to how you feel about your SO and the closeness of your relationship. There is nothing harmful about sperm and swallowing it is no more "gross" than a man enjoying his partners juices during cunilingus. We ingest living cells all of the time -- and these come from a person you love. Both you and Mag have described the rush of feelings arising from giving in this manner. Don't stop because other dislike it.

                    I completely understand Dream's and Calibri's issues. I have had GFs who are as eager as Romy (thankfully one is my current SO) and others who have not liked the texture or had gag reflexes that made it uncomfortable. Swallowing is never essential -- there are so many ways to please a man.
                    "The only consistent feature of all of your dissatisfying relationships is you." Despair.com "Dysfunction"

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                    • Magnetism
                      Veteran Member
                      • Jan 2009
                      • 1060

                      Romy-The stuff posted here doesn't make me change my opinion on swallowing, and I'm notorious for allowing other people's opinions to sway me. The way how I see it is:

                      1) I enjoy it and get turned on by it
                      2) It doesn't harm me
                      "Dating is like slow dancing. Let the man lead, or you will fall all over your feet"

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