[Elena_EvilEye]

Thanks for clarification, Elena.

Unfortunately, many guys with a penis in the 3-inch range would feel inadequate. And for some women, that would be true. But, as suggested in the other thread to which I referred, some women will be quite satisfied with a man like that, provided, I am sure, that he is caring, attentive, all the things that make a good bf or husband. The "small" man might have to conduct a more diligent search for a good match, but it's there to be found.

I have absolutely no doubt that your husband is being sincere when he says he loves you with what you have, including what you might see as your small breasts. For those of us in long-term relationships, there's no excuse for not setting aside our insecurities about body parts. In almost all cases (leaving aside something like an arranged marriage, with no sex before the marriage), our partners are with us in the long term, obviously quite happy with who we are. It has been said many times on this forum, if someone really sees their partner as inadequate in some way, they are unlikely to stay involved with that person for long.

My insecurity of my breasts is an irrational one and I don't obsess over it you can notice it I used to be insecure about my height but I've gotten over it now I am happy with the way I am now. I know he's sincere when he says he loves me I've been married to him for 8 years and been with him for 15 years (since we were 14) aside from a 7 month seperation period when we were 17, our love runs deep so me being irrationally insecure about my body is not going to shake our marriage we love each other too much for that. I married my hubby for life and I intend to keep it that way since we're doing so well.

[Baboy]

My apologies for posting a topic that's already been done to death....having only joined WHF in January of this year I'm missed the previous threads on penis size. But regardless, some topics are going to come up again and again when new people join.

You are right about that, Romy. This is one of those topics that will never run out of steam. You actually took a bit of a different tack, asking women for their frank views. No need to apologize.

More often than not, the topic gets raised by a guy, who will post something like: "I have a 9-inch penis, with the girth of a beer can. I know there are 12-inchers out there, with the girth of a 3-quart soda bottle. Will women find me inadequate? Should I give up? Should I shoot myself?" Usually a mod will step in and politely suggest using the "search" feature to find threads started by all those under-endowed misfits who have come before. Said mod will probably, at the same time, dash off a pm, saying "Yes, you pitiful creature, shoot yourself. A large-calibre, high-velocity round should be selected for the job. Messy but quick."

All the king's horses and all the king's men, could not stop penis threads from starting again.

[effy2014]

The 2013 threads are mostly started by men with average (or even above-average!) penises simply worrying about how they could ever live up to the sizes of their partner's previous partners. Less thought-provoking IMO.

I am not sure, Little. I think those men need more help. It probably has nothing to do with penis size -- just a general feeling of inadequacy in their own comparison between them and their current partners previous lovers. Men often superimpose their own shallow choice making criteria (golly jeepers I am finally dating a woman with huge breasts) on their new partners (but will my penis size be enough for her since her last guy was huge). Perhaps he was right if she broke out the ruler on the second date.

In the end, I can only conceive of one answer: In a vacuum, we all have personal preferences about our hypothetical partner's height, weight, penis size, breast size, wallet size, pubic hair status etc. Those certainly make for interesting discussions because people have such varied preferences. However, those things pale as "partner criteria" in real life to those that make a difference to our happiness 98% of the time. For example, Elena has nothing to worry about because she is loved for who she is and what she brought to the relationship; her husband loves everything about her (even if, in some cosmopolitan quiz he answered that he likes big breasts). Life is scant on absolute perfection but full of perfect for me partners.

BB -- I might vote for "Corpus Penis Ad Nausium"

[Sarahlee26]

Personally for me the bigger the better. My SO is pretty well endowed and seeing my SO hard is such a turn on. I love to suck him and feel his **** in my mouth and inside me mmhmm. I love my SO with all my heart. Everything he does turns me on.

[sweetsaltyruchi]

Hie friends....If its thread about large size and small size than size realy does matter for me...as perfect size makes me completely filled inside...but i think there is little disadvantages in too small and too big sizes..as they cant make the session enjoyable...not during sex nor during oral...

[Motorguy]

Well the problem is that many men think that big is better not true. Not for all women it's really all how the guys uses there penis. The old rule is it's the motion of the ocean that really matters for most women. Some women will take girth over length any day. Most women do not like the cervix pounded it hurts them being most of the nerve endings are within a couple inches of there vagina.

[Sarahlee26]

For me I prefer the bigger a guy is the better. Personally for me anything smaller than 4.8 hard is unacceptable for me. Knowing a guy is endowed and while bigger while hard is a HUGE turn on. Also myself like jilljames8184 said long and straight as a steel rod. Of course as Susan Sweetlove mentioned it all depends my mood, the person i am with etc. For instance my current partner I am with is very well endowed. Of course when he gets hard it turns me on even more. Not only is it satisfying to me he fills me up and it's also how he uses it. Also the fact that we're in love and enjoy pleasing each other helps too.

[shyguy86]

I used to think size mattered, but now I know its not important. I'm only 5.25 inches long and 5 inches in girth but my lover really enjoys it. Her husband is 7 inches long but slightly thinner than me. She loves both of our penises but has told me my extra girth feels very pleasurable. Also her husband cannot fully penetrate her initially as she has a very small tight vagina but I am able to go balls deep from the first thrust. She also finds me easier to deepthroat. I think it's more important the connection people have. She loves her husband and enjoys the sex greatly and she also appreciates the way I respect her and treat her so she enjoys making love to me also.

[Motorguy]

Well Sarah it looks like you are having fun and pleasure with SO that is all good. But there are a few women just want some guy who can keep it up. Then able to used it correctly as size really not the determining factor for them then.