[Magnetism]

Magnetism,
I wasn't disappointed because she wasn't able to take it.I was hurt because the way she said it and that she didn't even give it a try.I'm the type of guy that if I am with a woman and we are trying something and then she say to me"Stop that it's not going to work" then I bag off and respect what she is telling me,They if I get disappointed because of the,then that would be on me and show that I don't respect her at all.I am the type of guy who doesn't at alltry and forest or push something on a woman that she doesn't want to do.
To be honest with you,I am more sensitive to a woman's needs than my own.I TOTAL!! Respect a woman in every way.

Hi Bootsie-Sorry, I didn't mean to come off as that I was implying that you were doing that. I was sharing my own personal experience.

[Elena_EvilEye]

I shouldv'e clarified more I felt sorry for him because he was getting upset at the time basically hating on his penis. I wasn't doing it in a patronizing way it was genuine. I guess I wouldn't want to be with a 3 incher but maybe I'm a spoiled brat with my hubby's 7.5 incher. Don't get me wrong it you're happy with a 3 incher good on you and that's fine.

Maybe it's true he think that of me in that case blame my husband because I had sex with the 3 incher after my hubs and I seperated for a bit before we got married. btw I am a little insecure with my breasts as well but my hubby sees past that and loves all of me and I do the same for him.

[Baboy]

Thanks for clarification, Elena.

Unfortunately, many guys with a penis in the 3-inch range would feel inadequate. And for some women, that would be true. But, as suggested in the other thread to which I referred, some women will be quite satisfied with a man like that, provided, I am sure, that he is caring, attentive, all the things that make a good bf or husband. The "small" man might have to conduct a more diligent search for a good match, but it's there to be found.

I have absolutely no doubt that your husband is being sincere when he says he loves you with what you have, including what you might see as your small breasts. For those of us in long-term relationships, there's no excuse for not setting aside our insecurities about body parts. In almost all cases (leaving aside something like an arranged marriage, with no sex before the marriage), our partners are with us in the long term, obviously quite happy with who we are. It has been said many times on this forum, if someone really sees their partner as inadequate in some way, they are unlikely to stay involved with that person for long.

[Stillness]

I have to wonder whether this thread can possibly add any insights or perspective to the more than fulsome airing the topic received here:

https://www.womens-health.com/boards/sex/32128-final-word-breast-size-penis.html

That thread is outdated because it lacked a certain conclusiveness (as indicated by the title of this thread):

https://www.womens-health.com/boards/sex/58573-final-final-final-penis-size.html

This thread is not as big, but it's longer than average and that should get you there. Enjoy your further reading about penises!



P.S. I'm a bit uncomfortable bearing more bad news, but that last title was a tad overstated as the 17 pages, thick with phallic obsession, here make clear:

https://www.womens-health.com/boards/sex/61531-another-thread-about-penis-size.html

I promise that this is it.






P. P. S. Technically, the promise I made was true, because the 22-page thread to follow was a sort of addendum to the previous 17-page thread:

https://www.womens-health.com/boards/sex/61697-further-discussion-penis-size.html

I think that some members swore a solemn oath during this time to never engage in another penis length discussion. For some reason, the site was just flooded with them during a weird period last year.

[Little]

My favorite previous threads about penis size have been the ones with participants in the truly far-below-average micropenis camp. It is one thing to tell a man who is 5"+ that he is just fine the way he is made and that anybody who says otherwise is a big ole jerk, that any insecurity he has about it is his own doing, while it is quite another to face your own political correctness and shining optimism to see that there ARE sizes that may not be acceptable to a large percentage of partners and for which the insecurity can't really be helped.

The 2013 threads are mostly started by men with average (or even above-average!) penises simply worrying about how they could ever live up to the sizes of their partner's previous partners. Less thought-provoking IMO.

[Baboy]

Thanks (perhaps), for that bit of input, Stillness. Looks like I have more reading to do to be fully au courant.

I don't suppose you'd care to pull of of this together and publish something like "The Complete Guide to Penis Size". Then perhaps, like Encyclopedia Britannica used to do, it could be updated by means of an annual yearbook until the printing of the next edition. Or, it could be titled law book style, such as "Stillness on Penises", or "Corpus Penis Secundum".

[bootsie]

Hi Bootsie-Sorry, I didn't mean to come off as that I was implying that you were doing that. I was sharing my own personal experience.

No worries,I knew what you meant.I was just letting you know that I am not that type of guy.Can I PM you?

[Baboy]

I don't suppose you'd care to pull of of this together.

The above should read: I don't suppose you'd care to pull all of this together....

[bootsie]

I agree with the other posters who say that it really only makes a difference if the penis is really really big, or really really small.

My husband and I have an open marriage, and I actually have a boyfriend. My husband is about 7.5 inches and the boyfriend is more like 6. But I can tell you that the boyfriend really knows what to do with it... I definitely feel everything during sex with him. And frankly, in some ways, it's even better than it is with my husband... who has a slightly overinflated opinion of his talents anyway. LOL

The other good thing about a slightly smaller penis is that it's easier to give a good blow job.

What I am told that I am more like 8.5 to 9 and REALLY! thick in girth,like in 3 fingers in thickness.I was measured on today by a very close female friend,because we were on the topic today.

[Romy]

My apologies for posting a topic that's already been done to death....having only joined WHF in January of this year I'm missed the previous threads on penis size. But regardless, some topics are going to come up again and again when new people join.

Whilst some men can possibly feel insecure about the size of their penis the same can be said for some women. Some women can feel their vagina is either too loose or too small and the same applies to the size of their breasts.

Anyway the bottom line for me is that I do prefer an average to above average size penis both in length and width. I would never ever embarrass a man by saying his penis is inadequate. Thankfully to date I've never come across a penis I didn't like. Also thankfully I'm very very happy with my vagina and breasts so no insecurities whatsoever with me.