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My wife and I have been together 15+ years with a four year old and we are now in our early 40's. We have both only been with each other and I have worked over the years to get her more out of her shell sexually. While we usually have good sex when we are together, although it could be more frequent, I wanted to find ways to spice things up in the bedroom to get my wife to open up more to things we could do during sex. As I hit my late-30's, I began to come into the thinking that if there were things that I wanted my wife to do for me that turned me on, such as go down on me after I ejaculated in her, then I should have no aversion to doing the same for her and going down on her afterwards. A few years ago, I finally got up the nerve to go down on her after I ejaculated in her vagina to clean her up and bring her to orgasm. This has become such a huge turn on for her that it has become a pretty regular part of our love making because she gets more excited, more vocal and I enjoy doing this for her because it's a huge turn on for me to pleasure her, especially since I have always enjoyed orally satisfying her and she loves how good and attentive I am at it. I certainly do not regret adding me cleaning up my juices from her vagina to our sex life and more men should become willing to do this to their women, you would not regret it.
I am not a selfish person when it comes to pleasuring my wife, so I do this, despite the fact that she has allowed me to ejaculate into her mouth on very rare occasions, swallowing only once or twice, and has only gone down on me after I have finished off in her vagina a couple of times over the years (she has built up a mental aversion to the taste of herself and has an easy gag reflex). Despite how rare it is for her to do more things orally to me and how much of a turn on it is for me, I will continue to do whatever I have to do to pleasure her, including cleaning her up after sex, because it is such a turn on for both of us and I am not selfish when it comes to this. She is also finally open to exploring the option of trying anal play, including anal sex (she has allowed my finger and tongue in the past, but it has been a while), so if she does finally open up this option to me, as I stated before, I would be willing to reciprocate and allow her to do anal play on me, including pegging. Unfortunately this is on hold for a while due to her going through a second mastectomy for breast cancer in the last month for the second time in two years and she will have to go through chemotherapy again, although she will not have the side effect of nausea and hair loss this time. No matter what she has gone through with her body, I have been and still am incredibly attracted to her and she gets me as turned on sexually now as when we were in our late-20's.
After telling you of what led up to adding this to our sexual routine and how comfortable I am with this, I know many men have it built up in their mind for many various reasons that they are not willing to do this for their woman. I am curious as to how many men actually clean their juices off of their woman or from their vagina after sex?
I hope both men and women can respond to this because I hope my experiences and pleasures with my wife can open up more men to realize that they should not feel uncomfortable to doing more things in the bedroom that could potentially add to their sex lives......if it's good enough for her, it should be good enough for him too!
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