[SorridLives]

i must admit that we had sex once two weeks ago, but i feel that doesn't even count! it is so frustrating!i bought my first dirty magazine ever last week! even though i have my "alone time" i want to feel needed... that's pretty much how i feel. he holds me close when we sleep, he does all the chores, cooks me dinner, packs my lunch, etc... so i know that he loves me (obviously) but i want to feel needed so i can satisfy him (and myself) i also want to feel close in that sense that you get when you make love to one another.

i have a tendency for depression, and guess what always makes me happy?! i know that if i'm in a bad mood its cause i need to get some, but its not happening now. so i guess i gotta deal... i am tired of pursuing b/c when you keep getting turned down, you feel what's the point? so i wait, and wait, and wait for a miracle to happen and it never does....well for now. i have a couple ways to entice him, but i'm not sure it'll even work. i'll keep ya'll updated i guess...

Well, here comes a sort of silly question: Have you tried talking to him at all about it? If there is something bothering him that therapy might help?
I am glad at least you get a cuddle at night....though it is not enough.
Good for you buying the sex magazine. I know a good free porn site, if you need it. Don't give up....keep us/me posted!

[misskitty3]

Yes, i've tried talking to him about it. at first i would bring it up almost every day and that led to fights, probably cause he is embarrassed and doesn't want to talk about it. so i've backed off, again.

feel free to PM me that site!

i have a feeling that tonight may go well. last night was a little mixed up so i'll try again tonight....

[SorridLives]

Yes, i've tried talking to him about it. at first i would bring it up almost every day and that led to fights, probably cause he is embarrassed and doesn't want to talk about it. so i've backed off, again.

feel free to PM me that site!

i have a feeling that tonight may go well. last night was a little mixed up so i'll try again tonight....

Good luck! I'd PM you but you have no PM listed! Talk to you later....

[SorridLives]

Miss Kitty, I have listed my IM, if you want to IM me sometime.

[anonymouswhitefemale]

You know, if you want to download porn, just use BitTorrent technology - google it.

Um, in terms of a disclaimer - don't download anything you haven't already purchased... Otherwise it's illegal.... <_<

[Mom of5]

Well my Hubby is into the hardcore porn where they tie the women up like pigs and force them to do horrible things..I was against it at first believeing that I wasn't good enough for him (been together 15yrs and 5 kids) I'm 34 and I wasn't happy at the looking but honey that's all he's doing!! I get the benefits from him watching it!! The only thing that bothered me was he touched himself watching it but men will tell you they have no choice!! Ask ur hubby if he would mind u looking at other men naked and see what he says. Mine says he dosen't like the thought and he has slowed down on the watching! Give it a Try!!

[ChelseaRenee]

Well my Hubby is into the hardcore porn where they tie the women up like pigs and force them to do horrible things..I was against it at first believeing that I wasn't good enough for him (been together 15yrs and 5 kids) I'm 34 and I wasn't happy at the looking but honey that's all he's doing!! I get the benefits from him watching it!! The only thing that bothered me was he touched himself watching it but men will tell you they have no choice!! Ask ur hubby if he would mind u looking at other men naked and see what he says. Mine says he dosen't like the thought and he has slowed down on the watching! Give it a Try!!

It doesn't kind of scare/bother you that he's turned on by something SO...wrong? In your own words you said they were being hog tied and forced to do horrible things. I can't IMAGINE being okay with my boyfriend enjoying seeing women being abused, even if it is "just looking" and not acting on it. I know people always say "it's just fantasy, i don't REALLY wanna act it out", but that's enough to send me running for the hills. Why don't you mind? Just curious.

[anonymouswhitefemale]

You know, S&M is one fantasy that many women are into as well as men, many women crave to be dominated in the bedroom. Is it SICK? Well, I don't think so. If it's what both people want to do how can it be sick?

[ChelseaRenee]

You know, S&M is one fantasy that many women are into as well as men, many women crave to be dominated in the bedroom. Is it SICK? Well, I don't think so. If it's what both people want to do how can it be sick?

Uh, did I SAY it was sick? I basically echoed back what she said, then asked how if that was her opinion, she was okay with it. Don't know where you got off on that little tangent.

[anonymouswhitefemale]

Uh, did I SAY it was sick? I basically echoed back what she said, then asked how if that was her opinion, she was okay with it. Don't know where you got off on that little tangent.

It doesn't kind of scare/bother you that he's turned on by something SO...wrong?

I can't IMAGINE being okay with my boyfriend enjoying seeing women being abused

that's enough to send me running for the hills.

Why don't you mind?

Gee, I wonder where I got the idea you hated it... I admit the word "sick" got plucked from the air though.