-
The husband has done all those things: cooking, cleaning, watching the kids, ect. He has been gentle and loving and romantic. He even started a job. But nothing changes her. she says she will try to change but she doesn't. She just doesn't! She has no desire for sx whatsoever. -
It sounds to me as if she is very angry with you. Do you stay at home with the children while she works? Do you take on the household responsibilities, cooking, cleaning, shopping, watching the children, cleaning up? or Is she still expected to do all of this as well?
What do you do to make the thought of sex appealing? The problem may not be all hers, she may just be burnt out at the moment. What can you do to help?Leave a comment:
-
Has he discussed with his wife why she doesn't want sex? It sounds like your life might be a bit difficult if he's not working and this must be a huge stress. A woman who is stressed isn't going to be interested in sex. If his faith prevents him divorcing then his faith would also prevent him finding some 'entertainment' elsewhere - he really has no options apart from talk to her, build intmacy and a feeling of togetherness and appreciation - or making very good friends with his right hand. I totally understand that sex is a very important part of a r/ship and unfortunately it so often causes massive issues. Good luck.Leave a comment:
-
TRAPPED in a sexless marriage!
A man needs help!!! His wife does not like sex! She has no desire for sex! Even when she tries to be nice she doesn't have desire. There have been times if she had a few drinks and he went down on her she liked it very much. But she refuses to admit that!
The husband has a strong sex drive! He's going insane!!! His faith teaches against divorce. Even if he wanted to he couldn't because he has not had a job in years. He has tried to get work. No one will hire him. Besides, he would hate to be away from his kids!
He just got rejected by her again before writing this. He is going crazy! He does not know what to do anymore!!! There is no hope for his wife!!! HELP HIM!!!!!!! please
Get The Newsletter
Latest Activity
-
Acesup, we’ve talked about this quite a bit in your other threads, and one thing I’ve never questioned is how much you want your wife to enjoy sex...
Today, 06:19 PM By JonnyR -
Reply to Men and woman - rejecting someone?
I'll be honest as a guy I have a real pet peeve or sore spot that used to make me really angry about being friend zoned. Still does except I'm married...
10-19-2026, 12:45 PM By Acesup -
Encourage? Hell I wish my wife would encourage me to buy her a vibrator, or anything else to try to make sex more enjoyable for her. I wish my wife would...
10-19-2026, 12:31 PM By Acesup -
Reply to Men and woman - rejecting someone?
Ooo this is a good one!
So many possibilities -- for me, I have to balance being what I call "conscientiously honest" with also...10-15-2026, 08:57 PM By JonnyR -
Out of curiosity, what is the most respectful way you've ever been rejected or "friendzoned." I always feel terrible and like to do it in the...
10-15-2026, 02:44 PM By Birdie_567
Latest Topics
-
Out of curiosity, what is the most respectful way you've ever been rejected or "friendzoned." I always feel terrible and like to do it in the...
10-15-2026, 02:44 PM By Birdie_567 -
How are we all handling birth control now these days? I got the Nexaplanon 5 years ago and its time for a renewal. When I got it there was a huge buzz...
09-15-2026, 12:29 PM By Birdie_567 -
Hello, I’m 40, a cis woman, and I’ve been married for 10 years. We were having sex and I was nearly to climax when it sort of just dissipated. This...
09-08-2026, 08:19 PM By Mermaidsheets
Leave a comment: