–I’ve never owned a vibrator, that feels quite strange, everyone seems to have one these days! If you’re concerned about your partners m’bating, don’t panic, think it through, and try it yourself! (/more) -
Regarding the point about women who get upset by their bf/husbands masturbating.. I think it is easy to understand why a man masturbates if you do it yourself, the same as anything really, hey, it was something I enjoyed long before I started having sex so why should a sex-life stop me doing it? Therefore I am completely comfortable with my bf masturbating whenever he likes. Also, it’s the only way I’m guaranteed an orgasm so nothings stopping me
–I’ve never owned a vibrator, that feels quite strange, everyone seems to have one these days! If you’re concerned about your partners m’bating, don’t panic, think it through, and try it yourself! (/more) >> -
even with an active and good sex life i often masturbate , especially to fill my time when bored etc i also find it helps calm me down however after years of heavy masturbation it seems boring , a friend of mine suggested i try finding away to improve it by doing it in public (the though of getting court) , so behind my desk at work in a room of 30/40 people i masturbate and i have 2 dildos in my drawComment
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In all my years of marriage, and we all know that is a lot of years, I probably masturbated at the most 100 to 150 times...Reason being I let him bring me to orgasm with his tongue or fingers...At the time I was not aware of my g-spot or my true capabilities as a sexual woman....I can't even say I had only just begun.....because I was just a seed...
Three years ago this May was my epiphany....With that came a desire to learn and write...Don't ask me why because I just don't know...It was during July that I found Porn on the Internet....After October came vibrators with my first sexual board....I knew nothing but I learned well...In November or December I received my first vibrator...Now I have Eric the Eroscillator. Just awesome...Maybe the reason that I am as hot of a woman as I am is because my clit has never been abused....Maybe I am so alive because these are all such wonderful places that my husband has found that I explode with the passion of sex and always will....But one thing I do know.....A woman who masturbates too much takes something away from her husband or partner if they are going to have sex.....She is not as sexually alive if she has been her own lover that same day...I feel this same thing is true with a man......If he has become his own lover, how can a woman compete???.....TC, CComment
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Yes! with a vibrator. how many times? depends on what time of the day and how i am feeling.
now being preg, it is a little more harder, but i can say at least once a week. more if there is no action for DH.Comment
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I usually do it daily after my DH goes to sleep.
He doesnt usually offer to help me orgasm so I wait until he is asleep and do it myself.
I dont use toys as I find my finger on my clit works fast.
When he is out of town I can do it up to 20 or 30 times in a day!!
He doesnt like me doing it, so I have to hide when I do.Comment
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I most definately masterbate! The man that I am with likes to watch me so sometimes I do it with him watching. Sometimes I use a toy, sometimes without. If you are looking for a good one, I say get one that has the beads in the middle that spin around, usually that have bunny ears to clitorial stimulation too. I firmly believe that there is no way that someone can please you until you know how to please yourself. I joke around with friends saying I taught my kids: Sex can wait, masterbate!Comment
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I masturbate now more than I ever have. Well you must consider that I just started this about two years and three months ago...I was a very slow learner
This was when I first used the machine...My husband talked about this today and he now realizes that this is necessary with some women...I think sometimes that the man is jealous of any type of equipment that goes near a woman that he loves...But it is teaching him to accept this and get it through his thick head that was the challenge...Now I have made it like it is his idea....Sometimes I cannot believe I am so smart......Must be the age....
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