[Mourningman]

I think this poor guy is in real pickle. His wife has gone bananas and wants a divorce? I yi yi. Maybe she is very insecure about herself and that is not your fault. I must be too liberal about masterbation but I have never sat in front of my computer choking my chicken. But o do have a movie collection.

[C]

I think this poor guy is in real pickle. His wife has gone bananas and wants a divorce? I yi yi. Maybe she is very insecure about herself and that is not your fault. I must be too liberal about masterbation but I have never sat in front of my computer choking my chicken. But o do have a movie collection.

No my friend. She was very secure about herself and has now been destroyed...A woman's pride in herself is something that she works for and makes her walk with the confidence of a Queen....To be capable of being the only woman that he desires and be his lover is what helps take her to bed with the passion that is necessary to perform like a tiger and be a wild woman in bed.....He has torn her house down and it will take a lot to rebuild it....It probably will never be the same....

[AngelicBunny]

Personally, I would be upset because I would feel like I were cheated on. I have only ever been with one man, and I have been the only woman he's been with - and I think if we were to leave each other I wouldn't be able to be with anyone else - even if I wanted to leave him.

She may have felt cheated on because you were looking at another woman in this way, when you should only be looking at her, and looking because you love her (which I know you do). It may have made her feel like she was used or that she wasn't good enough for you, and... I think she may want and not want a divorce at the same time - she seems to love you too, which may be why she feels like she does, betrayed maybe?

I don't know what you can do... maybe try to understand what she is feeling and why, and talk to her - explain why and talk about it... I hope I made sense and have helped in some way (it's hard to write when you're as tired as I am right now)

I hope you two work it out - not just for the two of you, but for the children too (can be upsetting when parents fight and divorce)