Wow.. For a moment, I thought I was really young for this topic, myself! A couple of days ago I posted something else similar to this, and it just made me feel so very young.. I'm eighteen [about to be nineteen], lost it several months ago, to my boyfriend, whom I've been dating for a little over two years already. [We both wanted to wait till marriage to have sex, but I guess after two years of dating with tons of communication, hardly any arguments and many wonderful dates, the right moment finally came]. Him, I can actually tell ANYTHING to. [Actually, he is THE ONLY person I can tell anything and everything to] Even if it's personal problems. When I tell him, yeah I get really shy about it, [as you may recall in my last post], but we talk, and we communicate, and believe it or not ladies [and the couple of men who read this], we've actually talked about marriage a couple of times!! 
Just not anytime soon though. It's not like "I love you so much, let's have sex and get married ASAP." No. It's more like "We've been together long enough to know almost everything there is to know about eachother, but let's still wait several years before even proposing, so we can both be more mature, be 1000% sure about it, and so we can both finish college successfully and live a great life after that." [[I don't know.. Am I making any sense?]]
POINT IS.. If, I, myself, feel that I lost it at such a young age [although apparently older than most people these days..], You are definitely TOO young. At least get through high school first. Please. High school is when you start growing, maturing, understanding your body, and understanding friends and relationships. I'm not trying to sound harsh or mean in any way, but in HS, you will get hurt by boys and perhaps even your close friends. I'm sorry, but I'm peaking from experience. I just finished it last year. I LIVED through present-day high school. I KNOW what it's like these days. An older person can tell you so many things about high school, but things are WAY different now than what they were back then. Heh, I remember my first boyfriend. I thought we were in so much love, I actually believed I'd marry the guy.. But.. You know.. Things happen, and at that age any little sense of flirty affection makes anyone feel like they're "in love". I don't want you to do something you're later gonna regret, especially if it's just because "everybody's doing it" or if it's "the cool thing to do". Now I am not stopping you from doing whatever you want, but just so you know [I'm studying law], sex is illegal for anyone under 17. Even with consent from both people. Again, I truly apologize if I sounded mean, harsh, or even rude or anything, but like I said, I don't want you to regret your first time like most people I know.. [I'm one of few people (that I know) that love to remember the first time without bad thoughts or regrets] If I had actually had sex with my first boyfriend whom I thought I was in love with.. Man I'd be regretting it SO MUCH right now! Thank God I didn't. Anyway.. I'm still not stopping you [nobody can stop you], I'm just warning you of all the consequences that can come with it. I want you [like me] to always remember your first time and smile about it, not cry. So.. Just be careful, sweetie. Haha, and yeah, yeah, I know I, myself am also "too young" to be giving this kind of advice, but hey.. You all know it's true.
...right?
I hope mine, along with everyone else's posts have helped.
The best of luck to you;
-MissGoddess
Just not anytime soon though. It's not like "I love you so much, let's have sex and get married ASAP." No. It's more like "We've been together long enough to know almost everything there is to know about eachother, but let's still wait several years before even proposing, so we can both be more mature, be 1000% sure about it, and so we can both finish college successfully and live a great life after that." [[I don't know.. Am I making any sense?]]POINT IS.. If, I, myself, feel that I lost it at such a young age [although apparently older than most people these days..], You are definitely TOO young. At least get through high school first. Please. High school is when you start growing, maturing, understanding your body, and understanding friends and relationships. I'm not trying to sound harsh or mean in any way, but in HS, you will get hurt by boys and perhaps even your close friends. I'm sorry, but I'm peaking from experience. I just finished it last year. I LIVED through present-day high school. I KNOW what it's like these days. An older person can tell you so many things about high school, but things are WAY different now than what they were back then. Heh, I remember my first boyfriend. I thought we were in so much love, I actually believed I'd marry the guy.. But.. You know.. Things happen, and at that age any little sense of flirty affection makes anyone feel like they're "in love". I don't want you to do something you're later gonna regret, especially if it's just because "everybody's doing it" or if it's "the cool thing to do". Now I am not stopping you from doing whatever you want, but just so you know [I'm studying law], sex is illegal for anyone under 17. Even with consent from both people. Again, I truly apologize if I sounded mean, harsh, or even rude or anything, but like I said, I don't want you to regret your first time like most people I know.. [I'm one of few people (that I know) that love to remember the first time without bad thoughts or regrets] If I had actually had sex with my first boyfriend whom I thought I was in love with.. Man I'd be regretting it SO MUCH right now! Thank God I didn't. Anyway.. I'm still not stopping you [nobody can stop you], I'm just warning you of all the consequences that can come with it. I want you [like me] to always remember your first time and smile about it, not cry. So.. Just be careful, sweetie. Haha, and yeah, yeah, I know I, myself am also "too young" to be giving this kind of advice, but hey.. You all know it's true.
...right?
I hope mine, along with everyone else's posts have helped.
The best of luck to you;
-MissGoddess
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