[Richard S]

CW,

We have all gotten burned in triangular situations. It's practically a universal human experience.

At yet, we choose to open Pandora's box anyway. We step through the looking glass.

There is often an eroticism present in these situations that is undeniable. It's disingenuous to say otherwise.

As the rapper said back in the 90's, if you're gonna do it, do it well and make sure that it counts. Go downtown with a discount...

Live for the moment, protect your heart.

As Joesph Campbell said, often times regret is just illumination come too late. So, would you rather have regret for what you did or what you didn't do?

It's a choice we all get to make for ourselves.

At the moment the other surrenders, that is their choice.

And besides, didn't you love "Bridges of Madison County" ??? The part with Meryl Streep and the car door handle? Do you think she would have done anything differently if she had it do over?

I mean, it's just life.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

CW,

We have all gotten burned in triangular situations. It's practically a universal human experience.

At yet, we choose to open Pandora's box anyway. We step through the looking glass.

There is often an eroticism present in these situations that is undeniable. It's disingenuous to say otherwise.

As the rapper said back in the 90's, if you're gonna do it, do it well and make sure that it counts. Go downtown with a discount...

Live for the moment, protect your heart.

As Joesph Campbell said, often times regret is just illumination come too late. So, would you rather have regret for what you did or what you didn't do?

It's a choice we all get to make for ourselves.

At the moment the other surrenders, that is their choice.

And besides, didn't you love "Bridges of Madison County" ??? The part with Meryl Streep and the car door handle? Do you think she would have done anything differently if she had it do over?

I mean, it's just life.

You know i am one of the most opened minded persons truthfully, and i have a very bad, she devil inside that has no "boundries", and has learnt to have no inhibitions, so i agree why not regret, than regret what you didn't do. I am embarking on areas that i know i won't regret but would have had i not experienced them.

Being also a bit of a romantic, i am a woman, it would be wicked if that type of extacy could be found without being "naughty" yet, and play it out a bit, i know there is an excitement and stigma about it, something about the "un-attainable" makes you desire it even more...Didn't see that movie but will.

And, because i have all of these "errotic" thoughts and experiences of long.... intimacy where time sweeps away and an hour or so goes by, with a single man, over the past 3 months, i only want that for other single women.. Now that makes sense

I think most women think, it's not attainable in the same errotic fashion but having been with a married man, all be it only a short period, as he actually left his wife and i was aware as was she before we entered into it,we were together 4 years, i remember the thrill of it, up against the wall in the restaurant, etc....

Yes, and everyone should do what ever it is they "desire" to do, been reading as i said, to many pain stories over it, over the last two weeks i think.

I'm not a believer either way, as i said, i am too open minded. It would have been better for me to have just posed the question, sure you want to go down that path...

On your reply, we all know how to do that, and most of it is in the way that he reacts, but i have also been doing some reading etc, to make it better and "best", so i agree on that note.

Now i'll look at your link.....

[MissGoddess]

I don't have much advice on this, other than be careful, but I'll add something too. GOOD LUCK WITH EVERYTHING!!

I added the luck :]

[miffed23]

I agree completely with and respect everyones comments.

It is a tricky situation, that i have noone to blame but myself for. Chandlers wish - i think itll be a **** good idea to wait until he ends things with his wife, however, she is not going to be easy to shake off. Plus, shamefully, the affair side of things adds to the excitement. Dont get me wrong, if he was happily married and she was a kind person, i would never have gotten involved!

Richard - thank you for the bj advice!

All that remains now, is for me to decide whether i am actually going to take things further or not...and unfortunately time isnt on my side as im seeing him in 2 days.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

I agree completely with and respect everyones comments.

It is a tricky situation, that i have noone to blame but myself for. Chandlers wish - i think itll be a **** good idea to wait until he ends things with his wife, however, she is not going to be easy to shake off. Plus, shamefully, the affair side of things adds to the excitement. Dont get me wrong, if he was happily married and she was a kind person, i would never have gotten involved!

Richard - thank you for the bj advice!

All that remains now, is for me to decide whether i am actually going to take things further or not...and unfortunately time isnt on my side as im seeing him in 2 days.

You will know. Funny thing... You go with logic with the brain and you go with jump him with feelings, as they are created in a different place, lol... Well they are where sex is involved.

I would say one thing, do you know all of that regarding the wife, personally, or only by his words...

That may help you decide which way to go and i know, the thrill is the thrill.

But, some men are great at being the "great", pretender know what your dealing with. Real or not.

Plus, how long do you want this to last for.... Do you "feel" that this will constumate a new relationship with him that will turn to be yours or will it just be a lustful adventure. Because, either way once you go there, your in lust!!! 10 fold..... Feelings for him will be stronger and stronger, if he is not ready to go any further other than the adventure after a while, will you hold some form of love? And, can you walk from that without to much damage or drama to your self...

If you know these things perhaps you can condition yourself with out expectations therefore...

Good luck either way...

[C]

I saw it

.

And besides, didn't you love "Bridges of Madison County" ??? The part with Meryl Streep and the car door handle? Do you think she would have done anything differently if she had it do over?

I have seen this movie many times...It is one of our favorite movies.....Actually that is the love story of how my husband and I are...That hot...I cannot explain it any other way...

If I was her I would have stayed with him and enjoyed that wonderful lust and love and died in the arms of my beloved...She never had a moment's peace after that and loved him with her whole heart and soul...And he, her......It is a beautiful story and my husband loves it as much as I do.....If it wasn't for the affair, maybe we wrote it....TC, C

[Fallen1]

I would say one thing, do you know all of that regarding the wife, personally, or only by his words...

That may help you decide which way to go and i know, the thrill is the thrill.

But, some men are great at being the "great", pretender know what your dealing with. Real or not.

I second this!


Whatever you decision, good luck.