[ahayes4784]

Me too!

I think about sex all the time too and have to act on it. I constantly want my boyfriend in addition to other men. I love my boyfriend but I find that I get bored quickly even though he is amazing and has got me doing things I have never done before. I give him everything sexually but he won't give me oral or have sex with me when I'm on my period. It really annoys me when I think about it. The playing field is not even in that sense.

Two weeks ago, a friend of mine that's in the military stationed in Iraq came through town and we ended up together for the night. He's a freak like me and so GIVING therefore I couldn't help myself.

I often wonder what is wrong with me. The more I get, the more I want!

[bootyliciousmona]

I think I am a nymphomaniac and I am proud of it.I have a very high sex drive. I am turned on 24/7 and thank God I can easily find the outlet to release my sexual insatiablity.If am not having regular sex I will be masturbating and I am used to it now.I do have regular sex with husband three or four times a month but I do have sex with other guys at least 4 or 5 times a week with my husband's permission of course.
So be proud of your sexuality and enjoy it.

[Moni306]

Confused??



I am soo glad I found this site...as some people say when you look for women with high sex drives you get sites on how to boost it...I certainly don't need mine boosted. I have been remarried for about 5 1/2yrs and my sex drive has gone off the charts in the past two years..when I hit 38. I LOVE it!! I am able to take care of myself at least once a day all the way up to four times in a day. My issue is my husband tells me his drive is not as high but he goes onto porn web sites daily and masturbates (tries to hide it but I know) then when it comes to me he just isn't there sexually and tries to tell me it is his age..he is 9yrs older than me. I found out a couple of years ago he was looking at porn when our sex life took a dip...now I'm willing to go onto sites and watch it with him...heck we even have a couples profile on one site and it seems he only goes on under us when he is there to check up on me. Does anyone have any ideas on how I can reel him back in? I would think any guy would love to have a women who would have sex daily and horny all the time :0) I'm not totally over weight but do have a little love handle and pooch. I go to the gym 3X per week. The women he looks at are always lesbian teens. I even went as far as to even trying to add another women in the mix to spice it up (except the woman wasn't to touch him and he could not her)..he had the fantasy of me and another gal. Came close to happening but didn't but always wonder if that is a receipe for disaster anyway! I would love to hear some ideas...I'm tired of taking care of myself all the time..he buys me tones of sex toys but feel like I'm going to get addicted if I continue my daily use of them! It's frustrating to me to have this high sex drive and no man to share it with! HELP

[Texasred]

Your husband may have a medical problem, but it's not normal to have a low sex drive at his age. I'm quite a bit older than him, and my new friend and I have been having sex every day for the past week.
And she's every bit as responsive as you are.

[Moni306]

But I think his sex drive would be fine if he is able to masturbate on almost a daily basis? Someone once said maybe he has done it soo much maybe he is too used to using his hand and the visions of porno that it is his easy way of satisfying himself...but then that leaves a very horny wife wanting to be taken care of. But maybe you could be right...thanks!

[Texasred]

Someone once said maybe he has done it soo much maybe he is too used to using his hand and the visions of porno that it is his easy way of satisfying himself...but then that leaves a very horny wife wanting to be taken care of.

I'm sure that's true - he'll get too used to the way he does it himself - but it *can* work both ways: a woman can also get so accustomed to pleasing herself that no ordinary man will be able to satisfy her.

I'm just trying to imagine a man who'd rather look at porn when he has a very horny wife in the house... Is he crazy???

[WildChild]

Moni, you're not the only one in this boat - join the crowd! I get the occasional bs monolog about "women, don't like/want this or that" and am just staring at him, wondering who he thinks he talking to? He talks the talks but sure isn't interested in taking the walk. We had a little chat about this a while back and things sort of improved for a little while and then he pulled away again. We don't live together but he knows I want him all the time. I think he's gotten so good at taking "care" of himself that he doesn't even really think about me sexually most of the time.

It's frustrating when someone really worked a building a connection and then just disreguards it. You have to wonder why he put in so much effort if he didn't want to maintain it? You are married and in the same house so it seems that you should have more of an opportunity to turn it around.

[Texinator]

I'm just trying to imagine a man who'd rather look at porn when he has a very horny wife in the house... Is he crazy???

I wonder.

It's certainly been an eye opening experience reading this forum and seeing how many women there are with high sex drives. And how many of their men would rather just pull their pud than enjoy those high sex drives.

[Goodgirl93]

Idk if its because I'm just young but geeze the littlest things make me hott. Lol and I masturbate quite a lot.but ehh who cares.to each their own right!?

[Moni306]

It is very frustrating! At night he is too tired and what he does is in the morning he waits till I leave (I leave 45 min before him) and about 5 min after I leave the bedroom door closes (we have kids) and he goes to town with his porn and himself. He doesn't think it is a problem looking at porn EVERY day..not one day passes he does not at least look at it...I'm here...I'm ready and willing to go at it. I just don't understand it! If any guys our there have any ideas....or women who have been through this and changed it around I would love to know how. This is my second marriage and sure don't want to do this all over again! First marriage I had some but NOT as much as I do now...I'm always horny :0) Wish my guy would take advantage of it...I tell him he is a lucky SOB as I'm sure most guys would love for their woman to be at their beck and call! Thanks for helping me talk this through. I've been dealing with this for over a year and this is the first place I have found women with high sex drives that are genuine!