[mymirrose]

The homework I will work on also, I guess we need to "back-burner" the book for now, lol.

[madetolove]

The homework I will work on also, I guess we need to "back-burner" the book for now, lol.

lol...oh yeah...probably might get published soon which would save marriage and relationship.

Actually also not much homework to be done, I would just need to summarized the questions needed. (which I could use the questions on myself too).

But overall, I have realized/finalized some things too. Which is, we could do our part and try to change for the better (for we ourselves and for the relationship/marriage), and if the person/partner does not has the willingness or move after we had changed/act accordingly, then nothing could be done (and we have to be prepared for this), but at least we would grow much more a better person who appreciate/cherish our ownself.

Do you think it would be good for us to have each other's email add?

[mymirrose]

I am aol.com, no problem with e-mails!

[bill thompson]

good for you sophie.

i have been wondering about a woman's libido for the last year.
i always have and believe will continue to enjoy intimacy and sharing.
but it has been tough with a spouse that says she no longer cares for it that much.

can you write this info to my wife,
she used to but doesn't anymore.
what a shame.

[bill thompson]

it isn't just about sex, but that is the conduit for most men to have intimacy.
cause they dont get it talking to a boardroom full of people trying to take them out.

it certainly is not mothers talking at preschool, sharing, maybe having lunch.
guys don't do that. sad but true. maybe not sad.

[WildChild]

Well Bill, women aren't the only ones who lose interest. Plenty of men do too. They just shut it off or at least shut the woman in their life out.

[Ahryin]

I have checked the Internet for what and why a woman's sex drive would be too high and all I find are ways to increase your sex drive...I suppose this must be uncommon or just not spoken about.

I go through phases where I could have sex all day over and over again. I become so aroused I can think of nothing else and often masturbate at work.

Is there something wrong with me or are there other women out there who experience this uncontrollable desire in "spurts" or "phases" as well?

Any info/feedback is appreciated as I cannot seem to find anything and am not inclined to go to my doctor and tell him how "turned on" I get.

LOL do you know how many women would love this problem! I'm the same way and so is a couple of my girlfriends I am master of my own domain a lot because its not possible to be intimate as much as I would like to. My issue is when I AM with my S.O it seems like he can't hang. He is good for the hour but I'm the type that wants to go again and again and he's rolling over ready to go to bed

[GlitterAndStuds]

Wow, I'm glad to hear I'm not the only one who's ever taken care of myself while driving! Haha.

That being said, to the OP, fear not, you're definitely not alone. I swear, I have the libido of a 15-year-old boy. I'll be at work and one little thought related to sex will pop in my head, and I get so turned on that I end up counting down the minutes till I can get my hands on my boyfriend. He has the same sex drive as I do, so we stay pretty busy

As everyone else has said, you should definitely not feel weird about it. It's a great thing. I myself am a very sexual person and would much rather have a sex drive like that than a low one. How boring! :-P

[Theresa]

Masturbating in the car or at work? How can I pull that off. I think that I could use a little help here. There are days that I know that would help me get thru the day.

[GlitterAndStuds]

In the car is tricky and STRONGLY recommended on just backroads or something...not highways...haha. Just takes some meneuvering skills.

It's easy for me at work cause there are bathrooms, but I have my own space. My desk has walls all around it so I'm pretty secluded and rarely have to deal with people face to face.

I also just do it for a quick fix so that makes it easy too.