[Joe77]

Don't worry you are not alone and there definitely isn't anything wrong with you. I'm the same way.

Too bad you can't bottle up excess libido and sell it, so I can slip it into my wife's coffee.

[huggy55]

My wife is like you women, thank god!!!!!

Any woman with a wonderful sex drive is one of the luckiest women in the world. What she has other women look for...I do not believe that Persistant Sexual Arousal exists. This is, in my opinion, is just a term made up for too much sex drive. Bringing your kegal muscles into operation, can work wonders with a woman's vaginal orgasms..But some women find this annoying and so a new phrase is brought up out of the blue...I could masturbate more than I do but I learn to control it....Actually I love the way I feel....

There is nothing wrong with masturbation for a woman. Do it daily if she wants to. Keeps her alive. If more married women would have done this earlier in their marriage to keep them alive they would not be disappearing with so many headaches when their husband's need them....Masturbate as long as it does not interfere with your sex life or if the two of you do it. I have enough sex drive for three people and adore it....Of course this is part of my being the happiest woman in the world...

My wife is just like you, thank god. That makes me the luckiest man in the world. If you love to have sex and orgasms that is only natural. It is wrong for the churches and society to make women think differently. My wife is from a Catholic country that makes women think that sex for enjoyment is dirty and should only be done to make babies for the Catholic church............. I have taught her what comes naturally and liberated her from all that ****. She is a very happy little nymphomaniac now thank God!!!!!!! I just wish all of you women could find a man like me that knows you have absolutely nothing to feel guilty about being a natural erotic sexy woman. I don't personally like a woman in love with her vibrator or pulsating showerhead, but if you don't have a good man yet, you need to do what you need to do.............

[Mcskittles]

I know the feeling sometimes I am so turned on by things I don't think straight and make bad decisions. And I try to get sex from my husband but sometimes he is overwhelmed then I feel like ****

[JonDoe]

Like some of the other posters, I wish you could bottle it and sell it. I for one would pay a small fortune. My wife told me "recently" that she has been really, really horny lately. That was February and we had sex 3 times since -- almost once per month, or as many times as all of 2011 or any one of the last 5 years. Today is Mother's Day, she was a moody witch all day, until the late afternoon, when we gave her flowers, cards and gifts, and treated to a very nice dinner. She has incredible orgasms when we are together, which somehow is all she needs for another 3-4 months, but it is killing me slowly. I envy your significant other.

[Sienna82]

I have the same problem... I need sex constantly. We usually have sex twice a day, but when he doesn't want to, I feel rejected. I know that it's not that he isn't attracted to me- I am a very attractive woman and we have great sex. I wish I only wanted it exactly as much as he does. He is worried that if he doesn't provide what I need, that I will go looking elsewhere, but that will never happen. What can I do?

[Little_Man_in_the_Boat]

I think if one has too high a libido it can and does become a problem.

My ex lost two high profile jobs simply because we were letting the sex get out of control.

So in some ways YES it can be a problem.

[Texasred]

I am extremely fortunate to have a gf who has the same "problem" as the OP; we do our best to relieve her symptoms often...

It doesn't distress me in the least to know she masturbates frequently - though not often when I am around! And she feels no guilt whatsoever about waking me in the night if she needs to.
Being in the medical profession, she thinks her desires are driven in part by hormonal factors, but then from things she has told me, she has always been very open about sex and has always had a very active sex life.

[Stereohearts]

love this!!

[brightceci]

You are not alone, I have the same problem, I wouldn't say to you 'don't worry' because it does bother me a lot and effecting my work, my business, and my relationship with my husband. I can tell you one thing for sure, it is the hormones... at least it is for me, because I have put myself on the pills and my libido is from one extreme to the next. I would rather not on any pills, I feel a bit cranky all the time while I am on the pills but I don't feel horny ALL the time. I can't concentrate on work.

The worst thing is that... I don't know how to masturbate to satisfy myself. I guess it has to do with my up bringing, I have long nails and never have successfully try to satisfy myself, even with a tool. Maybe I just didn't try hard enough to practice or find out how. The worst thing...I felt so rejected by my no-libido husband, and when guys come along who show interests some time I would give in. But after that I would feel guilty about it, felt used and disrespected, low self-esteem, and I really don't want people to think I am a **** although nobody has ever said so.

Go to the doctor and see what he/she says. The pills work for me but working too good with other side effect like making me feel like an old cranky woman, at least I don't need to worry about getting pregnant. I wish I have a husband who have the same high sex drive.

[brightceci]

i also have a high sex drive. I could quite happily make love every day. In fact in the end it was the result of my marriage breakdown. My husband never seemed interested in me at all. We could go for months without doing it. I tried everything to get him interested just to be turned down. It wrecked my confidence, self esteem and I felt very unattractive. I asked him so many times to try to change things but he never did. In 15 years I can't remember a time when he instigated sex with me. It wasn't just sex thou, he never gave me any form of affection - no cuddles or kisses nothing. I tried hard to except that was just the way he was and live with it because he was and is a good person but in the end you need to feel desired. It made me so unhappy that I put on weight and felt even worse. I have spent the last 3 years loosing weight and gaining my confidence back. I thought that obviously i didn't feel attractive so why would he find me attractive but even now when I feel the best I have ever felt he still didn't desire me. So I ended my marriage, some would say a bit stupidly but I feel there must be more out there for me. When it ended he did say to me that he was glad it was finally over that he had never been in love with me (he's not capable of that feeling - in his words) but he did care for me and would have stayed till the children were grown up !!! Just as well I did it now then.
I guess what I'm trying to say is that everybody deserves to be desired and made to feel like they are someones everything. You only get one life so enjoy it and make the most of it.

I cry when I read your post! That's exactly what I have been thinking for the last while now... leaving my husband Well... my husband I guess is a little bit better because he would still kiss me good night, kiss me go bye before I go to work, stuff like that. But that's about it.. we don't have kids. It is like a relationship with a brother I confronted him about how I feel that he is not attracted to me and that I am not attractive and not desirable. He didn't say anything... as usual. He is a good man, just not in love with me I guess