[jns]

The worst thing is that... I don't know how to masturbate to satisfy myself. I guess it has to do with my up bringing, I have long nails and never have successfully try to satisfy myself, even with a tool. Maybe I just didn't try hard enough to practice or find out how.

Masturbation for a woman is best done on the clitoris and the clitoral hood to get a clitoral orgasm. The best way to do this is to use the fingertips (where fingerprints are taken from). It can be done even with long fingernails. Long fingernails may be problematic for penetration, but they should not be a problem with clitoral masturbation.

[Jnc]

I have checked the Internet for what and why a woman's sex drive would be too high and all I find are ways to increase your sex drive...I suppose this must be uncommon or just not spoken about.

I go through phases where I could have sex all day over and over again. I become so aroused I can think of nothing else and often masturbate at work.

Is there something wrong with me or are there other women out there who experience this uncontrollable desire in "spurts" or "phases" as well?

Any info/feedback is appreciated as I cannot seem to find anything and am not inclined to go to my doctor and tell him how "turned on" I get.

I definitely feel like I have too much sex drive as well.. Me and my boyfriend have great sex but I dont see him very often, or we dont get the chance to have sex as often. Sometimes we exchange dirty texts or skype but its not the same. I feel very weird talking to him about it because there are times during the day where all i can think about is sex..which im aware is very normal. but i have so many fantasies i want to live out and though i masturbate too to relieve the tension, its not the same. should i express how intense my sex drive is to him or just ignore it? I have exactly what you have.. i just wonder if there is something i can do about it

[WWYD]

Nope not alone. I'm the same way, especially if it's been a while since actual intercourse.

[mtsc12]

It gives me small comfort to read all the other posts from you ladies out there struggling with the same issues. Here's my story, for anyone wanting a long read:

When me and my husband first met, we could never get enough of each other. I was a virgin and very hesitant, but we kept pushing the boundaries until we couldn't take it anymore about 3 months in. We were so adventurous too, we'd do it anywhere, anytime. There's no doubt we were madly in love, and we had the passion to match it. But, in the 3 years we have been together (got married a month ago) I have noticed a steady decline in his sex drive. I'm not saying I'm in a sexless relationship now, but it has dwindled down to once every week sometimes every other week. I feel like I NEED it at least twice a week to be satisfied and worry that it will keep going down to where I will have to wait months to get any real sex from him. Don't get me wrong though, my very presence still gives him a rock hard boner, but one that he hides from me and doesn't even want me to touch. He tells me I'm very sexy all the time, ogles me, but it has been hard believing it since he doesn't do anything about it. I still get the cuddles and deep kisses, but that just makes me even more frustrated and distant after it's all said and done. But I'm starting to realize its NOT me and that I need to stop blaming myself. I start to wonder what giving up would mean. For me, it would mean even less sex I think. We have talked it to death and the only compromise we have come to is he "helps" me even if he doesn't want to participate. That way, we can still have that human connection. I'm awake at nights, because of my graveyard shift, so I have plenty of opportunity to masturbate, but it just isn't the same, and leaves me feeling more empty. My vibrator sits collecting dust. I crave the connection we once shared, the passion that used to burn so hot. But, my appearance hasn't changed, and I'm the one making the effort to spice things up with roleplay, etc. so it must simply be that his sex drive has just changed. I can't help thinking that he has gotten "bored" of the sex, but maybe if we have another productive talk he will see a doctor and at least rule out physical reasons. I hope to God it's not emotional reasons, like a power struggle, because he has told me before he's stubborn and actually tends to do the opposite of what people ask of him. But I know he dislikes his job and isn't treated well there too, so in this case I'm praying it's just unresolved stress as he is never one to actually talk about his "feelings". Our honeymoon was amazing, it was like we were back to our crazy, beginning selves, but we go back to our routine and then **poof! its gone again. So it's probably lack of sleep,stress, and a huge difference in our work schedules. I work weekends and he works M-F so i guess that killed our sex life too. He wants to change careers soon, I hope that will cheer him up when that day finally comes.

[joyj990]

I'm sooo happy I found this thread! I stay horny!! It drives me crazy. My husband & I are very active, but I do masturbate very often. Sometimes several times a day. It is 80% of my thoughts!

[Noluthando]

i dont think you are alone dear,its been a question that we have been discussing at workas ladies and the concern hasbeen that one actually feels abnormal in a way because you would want to be with your man so many times.

For me the most difficult part is that i am in a long distance relationship and most times am aroused so I call him, most times so that i can get an imaginery time with him or phone sex for that matter.

Sometimes he says that I amvery naughty and that annoys me morethen anything...I am also scared because it feels like I am a psycho.

All I needed to say is that you are not alone and im greatful that there are other ladies who feel the same.

[Noluthando]

oh my you are just like me girl as ive said in my previous post, im in a long distance relationship so we have phone sex and so on but its just hard because he tells me he never knew that women also crave for sex until he met me. but when we were leaving not far apart i used to call him whilst at work and ask him to please come over or I would drive to his place just so we can shag, and that would happen more then times a week. am confused also.

[zitlalie90]

not alone seems like a lot of us feel the same way and I thought I was the only one its good to know we are not alone

[SamanthaM]

I would say I to have a high sex drive. It's not wild but if I could I would have sex every day. I don't like to masterbate so sex is my only outlet to get off. At times my boyfriend cant keep up but he will find a way to get me off. I am his first and only sex partner and he scored himself a sex-a-holic. I say he lucked out.

[baby123]

My Sex Drive is Too High!

you are not alone... really.. im a lady who will turns 29 soon.. I start actively masturbate when i was 15 and start having my first period when I was 12.

Since my optimum age is around the corner you can't imagine how active my sexual drive is now, I feel horny almost everyday especially before and after having my period. If my boyfriend is around it would be great, we almost do it everyday but if he is not around I just imagine and start masturbating with or without watching porn.

The worst thing is I simply get wet so easily.. to an extend while washing myself after peeing that would even turn me on.. I simply cant touch myself down there.. so you can imagine how easy it is to turn me on once my boyfriend is around