[CHANDLERS WISH]

Defining each part of sexual foreplay, who does what, when is also bad sex i think.

It should be equality of what both want...

CW

[Mourningman]

Chandler are you in Austrailia? Or am I imagining this from somewhere.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Nope, not your imagination this time, ....

I am in Australia, born and bread.....

CW

[Fallen1]

Defining each part of sexual foreplay, who does what, when is also bad sex i think.

It should be equality of what both want...

CW

I think I understand what you are saying ..... maybe .........

If you sit down and say I need this, this and this, and your partner says I need this, this and this, in foreplay it's like you come up with this list of things that need to be done. If you follow that list each and every time it becomes predictable, then it becomes boring. There has to be variations, spontaneity.

Did I understand you? If not, well ...... this is my thoughts anyway.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

No you got it right... on one level of my "thoughts" which therefore means that they are yours to, and that is that you are correct, you can not, say this is "how it is done", how monotinous, ( how ever you spell it).

Simuarlily though, you can't say, i expect this amount of attention each time, but i won't give that back, i'll do that when i want? WT?

There it is about equality..

So the understanding that you should both be free, treated equality, who knows what will happen when, it could be "horney" mode, so just over the couch thanks and be quick..... lol... Or it could be he wants to pleasure and you take him by suprise.

So yep, you got it ...

I just read lots of :- Well i love him to do this, so he does but oh no, i won't do that, or that's reserved for special times, but he has to do this and ahhhh......

Don't think so...

CW

[Highlighter]

Bad sex happens when the girl isn't wet enough! OUCH!

[CHANDLERS WISH]

OUCH! read up more here, there's some juicy advice on how to over come that, and then some, including how to work towards her wanting to "own" your parts...

CW

[rcoreyus]

Well IMHO good sex is when each partner does everything they can to please the other. Bad sex is when they do everything they can to please themselves.

[Mourningman]

I asked you if you lived in Austrailia because one of my favorite 80's band are from there. The Hoodoo Gurus.They never really were big here in the states but I saw them every chance I got. Listened to them over the weekend as a matter of fact.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

I have head of them Mourningman most definately but can't say i recall the music. Us Aussies do try to break through into America!!! We have a few but i guess they were the Actors..... And i think you lot think we have wierd accents, or is it the other way around? lol.

I like Australia but I'd probably like everyone love to travel and see more of the world.

CW