[C]

Thank you hon, as far as im concerned ive ended things, but ive done it in such as roundabout way..that now, im in even more trouble...i mean, what if he leaves his wife?? Shall i now tell him that i dont want him to leave his wife...not that ive said i want him to...oh god, what a pickle!

Honey, just remember that what he has done to her, he would probably do to you....He is a player....You are far too classy of a woman for that....xox, Caroline

[C]

I must add though, and Caroline, you will understand....the experience (as bad as it is) has opened me up like a flower - i believe im quoting you there

The next single, non-commited man that i set my eye on, had better watch out!!

Yes, you are quoting me on this....Now bloom all your life and never forget it....Go get him when this new guy shows, and have the time of your life...That's what guy's are made for..... Honey, all my love to you....You have a spirit like someone I used to know when she was young.....Ah, I remember it well...TC, C

[CHANDLERS WISH]

I agree with you Richard , it is a "fight.... of NO........and dislike of rejection"... I can think of many women whom text their heart away as well, when a guy doesn't seem to respond a few times and then give up...

But 300 text messages? Well, must be that woman intuition thing, or that i love Crime reading?

I don't know......

So Miffed23, not adding fear here, I thought about that after i left that post, so please don't get me wrong but nothing wrong with being aware on all levels....

CW

[Hystorm]

Just tell him your decided to do the sweet thing and forward all his text messages to his wife to assist in the break-up! Ahh, yes, that would be such a sweet and loving gesture...what, no...

[miffed23]

Thank you all.

I read through a lot of the old threads on affairs and being the mistress (hate that term) last night and all the feelings that were conveyed by other people, just made me realise that its not worth the hassle. There were ladies that had been 'the other woman' for over 3 years and it seemed such a waste...why should you share yourself with someone elses man?

CW, i will be aware of the situation getting out of hand, thank you for bringing that to my attention.

Caroline - what? "i remind you of the young lady you used to be" - you are still that young lady at heart!! Age is just a number, it means nothing unless you let it! I spent a lot of time on your website last night, loved it! Keep up the good work.

As a side note- i read on an old thread a post from 'the wife', she said she wished that the other woman had told her and it was totally demoralising that she didnt have any idea....should i tell his wife? Hes bound to do it again once he has forgotten about me.
Miffed.xxx

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Thank you all.

I read through a lot of the old threads on affairs and being the mistress (hate that term) last night and all the feelings that were conveyed by other people, just made me realise that its not worth the hassle. There were ladies that had been 'the other woman' for over 3 years and it seemed such a waste...why should you share yourself with someone elses man?

CW, i will be aware of the situation getting out of hand, thank you for bringing that to my attention.

Caroline - what? "i remind you of the young lady you used to be" - you are still that young lady at heart!! Age is just a number, it means nothing unless you let it! I spent a lot of time on your website last night, loved it! Keep up the good work.

As a side note- i read on an old thread a post from 'the wife', she said she wished that the other woman had told her and it was totally demoralising that she didnt have any idea....should i tell his wife? Hes bound to do it again once he has forgotten about me.
Miffed.xxx

That's a hard call Miffed23... In one way you want to warn her, as so that she can work through what she needs to do, in the other, what can you do to help, i mean will she believe you? Will she deny you that you didn't call you names assume you did? etc, etc, etc.

You have a heart, but no i would leave it alone, if this is a venture that he thinks he can do again, he will do it again and he will get caught out.

If he does stalk you, then i guess i loved Hystorm's cheeky response because at the same time you are protecting yourself and that is what matters most....

Always protect you, you are the one whom is important....

CW