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  • katiemandy88
    Junior Member
    • Jan 2017
    • 1

    Size or The Motion

    Hey everyone!

    I had a great discussion while out with the girls last night and thought I would bring it to the table here…

    We all have had our small penis experiences lol, but do you think size is actually the issue? I feel that the guys insecurities hinders the great sex (or not great sex) that could come from the little guy. I mean, don’t get me wrong, I’m not a fan of a baby carrot, but there has to be a reason these guys keep coming up in our past experiences lol.

    I was wondering what is everyone’s thoughts?
  • jns
    Assistant Admin
    • Mar 2010
    • 8398

    Welcome to WH!

    Insecurities can even hinder a well endowed guy. We have had posters in the past complain that at 7 inches, they were too small. Logic would not work. Many women have said that they like girth more than length as long as length was around average. Would your friends agree? We have also had women who have told of having great sex with guys that had significantly less than average size. Ultimately, it seems that size makes some difference, but confidence, skill and the right personality make more of a difference.
    I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
    ...
    Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

    From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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    • Ashlee T.
      Veteran Member
      • Dec 2008
      • 6412

      I think it matters, but how it matters is debatable. A man who is too large is NOT comfortable for me (and for most women that I know of). We end up spending most of the time in pain and not capable of fully enjoying ourselves. A man who is too small (in length and in girth) can sometimes leave us feeling unsatisfied. I have been with a man who was so small, there was no way he could "hit the spots" that needed hitting. But generally, with a man who is on the smaller than average side, that isn't the case. I think it takes more of an extreme situation. I have found that a man of average or even smaller than average size can result in some really great sex if he has confidence in himself and there is sufficient chemistry.

      "Be what you're looking for."

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      • sexy brenda
        Member
        • Oct 2013
        • 44

        Originally posted by jns
        Welcome to WH!

        Insecurities can even hinder a well endowed guy. We have had posters in the past complain that at 7 inches, they were too small. Logic would not work. Many women have said that they like girth more than length as long as length was around average. Would your friends agree? We have also had women who have told of having great sex with guys that had significantly less than average size. Ultimately, it seems that size makes some difference, but confidence, skill and the right personality make more of a difference.
        I like girth also rather than length. I like to feel it pressing out when it it inside me.

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        • Romy
          Veteran Member
          • Jan 2014
          • 339

          As much as I hate to say it, size is makes the difference. Just a bit bigger than average is what I like because too big really hurts. Girth over length as well. But that doesn't mean a short fat penis would satisfy me because I want to feel him deep inside me. As I type this though, I think if I'm on top riding him and it's about my clitoris grinding into his pubic bone then size wouldn't matter much in that position. I've never been with a man who had a small penis so I'm probably not in a position to comment.

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          • Melania Foster
            Junior Member
            • Apr 2017
            • 3

            As far as i know (and a bit of own exp) i need to say that size really matters, because he needs to make it fast and with wide amplitude of pushes to make me do it) I would recommend using of vacuum extender cause that thing can make him much bigger if he will succeed full course of therapy.
            Last edited by Alison H.; 08-21-2020, 02:35 PM. Reason: link removal

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            • muffin70
              Veteran Member
              • Aug 2013
              • 384

              I've had this conversation with my wife a few times - as I am on the 'small' side. She said an ex partner had a larger thicker penis than mine but said after a few minutes if would hurt, and she said he took ages to ejaculate and she didn't enjoy it much.
              I think it is all about chemistry and compatibility... I am able to pleasure my wife with my fingers as I suck and caress her nipples and she usually has great orgasms as a result, that way by the time I enter her - she is usually pretty wet and she doesn't need to worry about being able to climax while I'm inside her.
              She said she can feel me inside her and she loves the feeling when I ejaculate inside her....

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              • WaveRider
                Veteran Member
                • Mar 2017
                • 701

                I have women tell me that size matters. One woman has told me that when women say size doesn't matter, they're lying. Too big isn't good either.

                From what women have told me, girth over length as long as length isn't small.

                My g/f has told me that she likes to feel me inside of her, as deeply inside of her as I can, which her completely bent over with her fingertips just above the floor.

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                • a_dub
                  Veteran Member
                  • Dec 2011
                  • 514

                  Yeah the opinions of the women here make sense. I'm only a bit over 5 inches and at that size I have a very difficult time convincing women to have sex with me or even getting them to go out on a date. Somehow I think women know I'm not well hung. Either that or I'm probably even uglier than I thought, lol.

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                  • muffin70
                    Veteran Member
                    • Aug 2013
                    • 384

                    Originally posted by a_dub
                    Yeah the opinions of the women here make sense. I'm only a bit over 5 inches and at that size I have a very difficult time convincing women to have sex with me or even getting them to go out on a date. Somehow I think women know I'm not well hung. Either that or I'm probably even uglier than I thought, lol.
                    Well that shows that some women are very shallow... if all they are after is a man with a large pen!s...... true love is where a man loves a woman and vice versa for the person that they are.... besides 5 inches is over 12cm and that's not what I'd consider small at all - I am smaller than that

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