Here's my take on your query 
I have found that the more you stimulate the sponge-y kinda G-spot the more 'feeling' you get the more sessions you do it. It takes some time though, and it also depends on how thick the G-spot is anyeay, as to how much sensitivity you'll get (I've heard anal can be even better as it's more likely to put pressure on the G-spot but I haven't tried that yet, as I'm concerned about the hygiene, even with condoms and enemas).
Other than that the sensation is nice but nothing particular as such. I found doggy style to be a really good body position, he can enter fully, and I'm forward which puts less pressure around the abdomen.
The only drawback is that you can't look at each other's wonderfully cringey sex-faces, and your knee caps hurt (my knee caps get slight pressure sores, and I found that my legs get very stiff, but then I've had trouble with my knees and back. It's better on the bed but so difficult and painful to do on any type of hard surface, even with putting a pillow under my knees to help).
I used to love being on the bottom but after doing doggy-style frequently, being on the bottom nowadays just doesn't do anything for me (never understood the side sex position, it's such a weird and uncomfortable rhythm.
What about those swanky condoms with the ribbed bumps etc. that could help?
Have you tried stimulating the clit whilst having sex either by hand or by toy? By toy it's easier to hold and puts less muscle stain on your arms when your arms and hand in the same prolonged position.
Or having sex, allowing him to climax however you've both agreed to do so, and then for him to play with your clit until you've climaxed..
I have found that it's better the other way around, I'm not particularly sleepy after sex compared to the few sexual partners I've had.
I guess it's hard for men to deal with the fact their shlong doesn't give you epic feelings, I'd probably be disappointed if any of my partners had told me my vagina wasn't great for them either sensation wise.
Any way, if he's making you feel pants for something you can't physically control then he needs a sit down (and vice versa if it was the other way around).
Sex is about feeling amazing, and being on a very intimate other world with your partner, it's about consent, trust, and care, and can also be about exploration, and understanding each others personal needs too.
So if yourself or he, aren't experiencing what you want to experience, then try some techniques, toys, buy a book, watch some helpful sex idea videos, or watch porn for some ideas (we all know that the plumber arriving early or on time is just a blatant lie though, and oddly enough I've started to pay more attention to the decor and furnishings in porn videos than the porn itself "That's a lovely wooden bedside cabinet!").
I hope you manage to feel better about yourself, and do what feels right, if masterbation is the main thing that does the job and your able (if you want/ if you can) to do something he likes as well, that isn't necessarily penetration than there's nothing wrong with that.
I don't really care if penetration doesn't do much for me, (I like how it makes my partner feel), as I know there are other things I like that's better that I can do with my partner and vice versa.
xxx
I have found that the more you stimulate the sponge-y kinda G-spot the more 'feeling' you get the more sessions you do it. It takes some time though, and it also depends on how thick the G-spot is anyeay, as to how much sensitivity you'll get (I've heard anal can be even better as it's more likely to put pressure on the G-spot but I haven't tried that yet, as I'm concerned about the hygiene, even with condoms and enemas).
Other than that the sensation is nice but nothing particular as such. I found doggy style to be a really good body position, he can enter fully, and I'm forward which puts less pressure around the abdomen.
The only drawback is that you can't look at each other's wonderfully cringey sex-faces, and your knee caps hurt (my knee caps get slight pressure sores, and I found that my legs get very stiff, but then I've had trouble with my knees and back. It's better on the bed but so difficult and painful to do on any type of hard surface, even with putting a pillow under my knees to help).
I used to love being on the bottom but after doing doggy-style frequently, being on the bottom nowadays just doesn't do anything for me (never understood the side sex position, it's such a weird and uncomfortable rhythm.
What about those swanky condoms with the ribbed bumps etc. that could help?
Have you tried stimulating the clit whilst having sex either by hand or by toy? By toy it's easier to hold and puts less muscle stain on your arms when your arms and hand in the same prolonged position.
Or having sex, allowing him to climax however you've both agreed to do so, and then for him to play with your clit until you've climaxed..
I have found that it's better the other way around, I'm not particularly sleepy after sex compared to the few sexual partners I've had.
I guess it's hard for men to deal with the fact their shlong doesn't give you epic feelings, I'd probably be disappointed if any of my partners had told me my vagina wasn't great for them either sensation wise.
Any way, if he's making you feel pants for something you can't physically control then he needs a sit down (and vice versa if it was the other way around).
Sex is about feeling amazing, and being on a very intimate other world with your partner, it's about consent, trust, and care, and can also be about exploration, and understanding each others personal needs too.
So if yourself or he, aren't experiencing what you want to experience, then try some techniques, toys, buy a book, watch some helpful sex idea videos, or watch porn for some ideas (we all know that the plumber arriving early or on time is just a blatant lie though, and oddly enough I've started to pay more attention to the decor and furnishings in porn videos than the porn itself "That's a lovely wooden bedside cabinet!").
I hope you manage to feel better about yourself, and do what feels right, if masterbation is the main thing that does the job and your able (if you want/ if you can) to do something he likes as well, that isn't necessarily penetration than there's nothing wrong with that.
I don't really care if penetration doesn't do much for me, (I like how it makes my partner feel), as I know there are other things I like that's better that I can do with my partner and vice versa.
xxx
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