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  • Naiwen
    Member
    • Aug 2017
    • 37

    Sex with or without any Protection?


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    So, I'd like to know your gender first and please tell me if you prefer sex with or without protection. Since I didn't do either, I can't know anything about it but I'm wondering because there's so much hearsay and rumors about it that it's overwhelming me with maybe lies. Anyhow, did you do it both ways and did it feel the same to you both ways or have you got a preference for one? If the former, then why? If the later, please also elaborate your reasons. thanks for the info. I was just curious about it.
    Last edited by Alison H.; 11-23-2021, 07:34 PM.
  • PinkSunflower
    Member
    • Aug 2017
    • 11

    Hello! I'm a female. For me, I prefer sex without a condom. It can be quite an inconvinence and sometimes can ruin the males excitement so they rush to get it on. The texture is also different, obviously. We never use to wear a condom because I was on the pill but I came off it recently due to it messing with my hormones so condom it is haha. I've realised we started having less sex and maybe I was pushing him away (at this age, getting pregnant would be my worst nightmare so I get paranoid) because first of all you have to have a condom, then you have to faff about with putting it on and it was just inconvenient so our activity decreased

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    • Little_Man_in_the_Boat
      Veteran Member
      • Dec 2008
      • 227

      Male.

      I prefer sex without a condom because it feels better and I think women would also agree with me.

      I dont think orgasm is possible with a condom because its exciting for a women to get pregnant at the right time when she wants to get pregnant.

      The problem these days is not wanting to get pregnant and the problem with sexually transmitted diseases.

      Ideally we would meet our beloved partner and live happily ever after.

      Sadly thats not how it is in this world today.

      To answer your question yes bareback is better yet condoms are better if you want to reduce the risk of pregnancy and or STDs.

      I think condoms spoil the excitement and passion of making love because biologically she wants to get preggo.



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      • Lexhill
        Senior Member
        • Sep 2014
        • 124

        Male - Condoms just removes much of the feeling. you still get the pressuring sensation but that's pretty much it. And as the others refer to the time it takes to get it on even if it's just a few seconds kinda kills the mood a little.

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        • WaveRider
          Veteran Member
          • Mar 2017
          • 701

          I don't like condoms. Neither does my g/f.

          Last night she was pretty lit and horny. When she's in that condition, she's prone to reminiscing. She told me she has never liked condoms. She has never liked stopping action leading to banging to put one on a dude, and she has never liked putting one on a dude. While she was in college and very sexually active, she went on the pill. It caused her to gain weight, so she dropped that route of birth control because she had a rock solid 10 hard body. She said withdrawal was her primary mode of birth control. She'd either jack off dudes on her or finish them with head. I've told her again how lucky she was. She knew it. She also loved period sex. She was always more horny on her period, and she was always horny when she wasn't. But when she was on her period she could have sex all day for days and not have to worry about becoming knocked up. She said that not one of her boyfriends complained about banging her while she was on her period.

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          • amy40
            Veteran Member
            • Nov 2016
            • 2732

            Originally posted by WaveRider
            But when she was on her period she could have sex all day for days and not have to worry about becoming knocked up.
            does a period protect from diseases?
            I always heard that when you sleep with someone, you are also sleeping with every person that they've slept with

            that's a lot of risk for disease including HIV

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            • jns
              Assistant Admin
              • Mar 2010
              • 8398

              Originally posted by amy40
              I always heard that when you sleep with someone, you are also sleeping with every person that they've slept with

              that's a lot of risk for disease including HIV
              I've heard this, but it is not true in most cases. The cells and fluids a person leaves behind are thrown off or diluted to a point of nonexistence fairly quickly. Things like viruses and bacteria are mostly killed off. Parasites are also mostly killed off. Of the people you have slept with, only a few would have parasites, viruses or bacteria that could make the leap and colonize you. So it is like sleeping with a subset of the people your partner slept with. If your partner had long time monogamous relationships and went to the doctor to take care of medical issues in a timely manner, it might be better than sleeping with a person who only slept with one person but that person was very promiscuous and didn't medically take care of themselves.

              I don't think that there is a good medical reason to only sleep with a person who was a virgin before you and has only slept with you.
              I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
              ...
              Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

              From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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              • amy40
                Veteran Member
                • Nov 2016
                • 2732



                duplicate posting

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                • amy40
                  Veteran Member
                  • Nov 2016
                  • 2732

                  jns from typing in what I've heard, an article popped up that had calculations for it
                  here's the example from article:
                  if the average number of people you’ve slept with is nine, you may have a total of 3,917,918 indirect sexual connections

                  that calculation seems very high?!




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                  • jns
                    Assistant Admin
                    • Mar 2010
                    • 8398

                    Originally posted by amy40
                    jns from typing in what I've heard, an article popped up that had calculations for it
                    here's the example from article:
                    if the average number of people you’ve slept with is nine, you may have a total of 3,917,918 indirect sexual connections

                    that calculation seems very high?!



                    I'm sure with such calculations it would say that a person had indirect sexual connections with the entire living population of humans at this time if they slept with hundreds of people. It just isn't so. Most sexual encounters do not leave any lasting biological material. This sounds like a scare tactic.
                    I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
                    ...
                    Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

                    From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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