[atskitty2]

Muffin, I believe that they've been friends for many years, outside the sexual relationship, so no, wasn't surprising to me either.

[atskitty2]

I've maintained friendships with many old boyfriends for years. Some I still keep in touch with.
I think that's fairly common.

[Texasred]

I have too - old girlfriends, that is... :-)
I can even have civil conversations with the ex-wife.

[WaveRider]

I wouldn't care were I married to a woman who has remained friends with boyfriends and/or ex-husbands. If I couldn't trust her, I'd of been a fool to marry her.

Many years ago, while I was dating my ex-g/f, we saw one of her many former boyfriends. They dated in high school, and they were very sexually active. I had no respect for him after he walked right by us and lacked courtesy of saying hi to her. He acted as though he didn't know her. My ex-g/f blew it off. And yes, he knew who she was.

Jealously can destroy an otherwise excellent relationship. The way I see it, when a woman talks boyfriend, I'd be safe to assume she'd had sex with him. What or whom she's done before she's in a committed and exclusive relationship with me is none of my business. Besides, women never cop to true numbers. Double what she tells you and add a few more that she's assuredly forgotten. Who cares? Don't revisit the past. Look toward the future. That's where happiness is found.

I know my ex-g/f better than anyone, maybe better than she knows herself. I've listened to her fantasies. She has never once mentioned doing a former boyfriend; anyone from her past, for that matter. However, she does have a very pronounced fantasy for huge-packaged black dudes. I wouldn't be surprised to learn that her next b/f is a handsome, studly black dude. I do know that he'll be extremely happy.