[Raina]

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I made a promise, which I fully intend to ful-fill, to my fiance about getting anal sex from me. I see no interest in it, I don't understand WHY he would be so happy about that, but he is. It was promised as a birthday gift and he hasn't been able to 'unwrap it' so to speak, because I'm not ready entirely. Can you ladies, and gentlemen, provide me with the information that I need to know about this? Thanks! <3

[WildChild]

Violet Blue has an excellent book on this subject. You may find it very helpful. Do a thread search, we have about done this topic to death. There are dozens of threads about it.

[Texinator]

Tell him to knock first and enter slowly if he wants to use the backdoor, otherwise you might startle and mistake him for an intruder, and then bad things could happen

[WildChild]

Many women find themselves as orgamic or more so with anal sex than with vaginal.

[rcoreyus]

Go slow, lots of lube, make sure you are very aroused before you start.

What is he getting you for YOUR birthday?

[Texinator]

What is he getting you for YOUR birthday?

Good question!

[Raina]

Go slow, lots of lube, make sure you are very aroused before you start.

What is he getting you for YOUR birthday?

I never thought of what he was going to get me for my birthday! I'll have to ask him about that one!

[rcoreyus]

Don't ask - tell him what you want - before he gets his present

[Faerunner]

Go slow, lube, more lube, and more lube. And slow. You might want to start by playing with yourself first (in private, if you're embarrassed) and using your fingers to explore the sensations of anal play before you let him go at it. Always be in charge. Anal should be at your pace, not his... unless he's the one receiving!

(Also ditto to rcoreyus - present him with your list of demands! I'm thinking an hour-long candlelight massage session and some cuddling... a bubble bath where he washes you all over... )

[WildChild]

I never thought of what he was going to get me for my birthday! I'll have to ask him about that one!

How about you get to do him? This is one area where you can both experience very much the same thing.