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  • Raina
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    • Aug 2010
    • 111

    Originally posted by Tex
    I should mention that even a tongue or a finger back there can do wonders for a woman if done right. As long as she is healthy and hygienic and he isn't squeamish, it can make for a great experience. Yeah, it doesn't do as much for the man physically as having his penis there, but sometimes it just should be "ladies first."
    Hes great with his tongue and his fingers, so maybe I'll just tell him I've designated a day to getting me off as much as I want with as fast, or slow, as I want. :3

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    • WildChild
      Banned
      • Sep 2008
      • 14142

      A piece of saran wrap work as a fast inexpensive barrier if needed.

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      • Texinator
        Veteran Member
        • Sep 2009
        • 5556

        Originally posted by Raina
        Hes great with his tongue and his fingers, so maybe I'll just tell him I've designated a day to getting me off as much as I want with as fast, or slow, as I want. :3
        Haha, your avatar is so appropriate for the subject. NOM NOM NOM

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        • WildChild
          Banned
          • Sep 2008
          • 14142

          Oh dear what spelling!

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          • hizenberg
            Senior Member
            • Aug 2010
            • 120

            knock first and enter slowly lol its all about you being horney first and him going over that area and making you relax then its all good take it slow and once the uncomfortable feeling is gone you can enjoy,both of it.it is a personal and intimate sexual experiance for you 2 to share.

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            • hizenberg
              Senior Member
              • Aug 2010
              • 120

              it all depends on his size too, and him getting you open and horney once that happens it can be a realy pleasurable experiance.

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              • btifulfrefly08
                Member
                • Sep 2010
                • 31

                See my issue with anal sex is that I always get scared of all the pain it causes me. My boyfriend and I have tried everything. We've try foreplay before, using tons of lube, I usually put some lube on my finger and slide it in, but nothing works. I can't seem to get past the pain. How can I overcome that? I want everything to be able to go smoothly because it's one of his favorite sexual activities to do.

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                • WildChild
                  Banned
                  • Sep 2008
                  • 14142

                  I have no idea, I don't find it painful at all.

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                  • Raina
                    Banned
                    • Aug 2010
                    • 111

                    Originally posted by Tex
                    Haha, your avatar is so appropriate for the subject. NOM NOM NOM
                    >:] My lil avatar fits so well in this thread! Hehehe.

                    btifulfrefly08: You sound like me, I've tried letting my fiance have it before and it hurt SO bad. I understand now though that its something, that some people, have to work up to in order to do. I have some bedroom plans that I intend to exercise so that I can make myself a little more comfortable with him knocking on my back door.

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                    • Texinator
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                      • Sep 2009
                      • 5556

                      Make sure you're relaxed enough. If you get anal while trying to do anal and you pucker up, the extra tightness can cause pain while he's trying to enter you.

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