[sungoddesschelsy]

My boyfriend is... 10 and a half years older than me. He works from home, part time, so I can't see how he'd be that busy when he wants things like 1000 peice puzzles to do in his free time... The other guy was 5 years older than me.

Thank you all for your replies I'll try and find out more about his first experiences. It's really not even that I want to just sit and make out I'd just like for him to kiss me during sex, or slip me some tongue now and then for a surprise you know LOL!! When he kisses me for just no reason or wants to be close it makes me feel sexy

[sourpuss]

My boyfriend hates kissing too.
He gives me tons of pecks throughout the day but anything beyond that he hates. He says he has spacial issues and he feels like he's suffocating if a kiss lasts more than a second.
So, sadly, no make out sessions. Boooooo

[WildChild]

Oh yeah, I got the kissing cut off 4 months into it and it was a killer. Talk about feeling undesirable. It's moved way up the list now. Problem is these guy will really pour it on until they have your feelings secured and then cut it off - "I just don't like it". Funny how you are supposed to keep liking putting your mouth and tongue to other uses on their behalf.

[WildChild]

Perhaps you should forget what will make anything more enjoyable for him and focus on helping him learn what will make things more enjoyable for you? I think in the long run this will serve you both better.

[sourpuss]

That's my one big complaint about dating. Guys always feel they have to be or do things that the don't like in order to get the girl and then once they are comfortable it changes. It's the ol bait and switch I always say.
I wish they just felt they could be themselves and let us choose whether or not we want to be with them instead of pretending to be the guy we want just to get us.

Next time he says he feels like the room is filling up with water and he can't breathe because I'm kissing him too long, I'm going to point out what it feels like for me when I give him a bj. Talk about not being able to breathe!

[WildChild]

Oh but you're just supposed to suck it up and do it. After all it pleasures him, isn't that what you are there for? Then you can go handle your own needs yourself cus he'll be too tired to.

[sungoddesschelsy]

dont even get me started on that!!! he didn't even touch me last night and he got a wake up BJ yesterday morning.... totally rude not to even think about me all day and night

[WildChild]

Oh sure he thought about you. He thought about when he's going to get the next one.

[sungoddesschelsy]

lol! well thanks for that... seems like he'll want it 3 times a day one day and then for the next 3 days he wants nothing...

[Olympia]

Kissing to me... anyway..
Is passion, like WC, it brings me to O-Town...(LOL).. But, then i am wired that way. I approach it, with that frame of mind.
Like it is the tastiest fruit on the vine. My lips gently carress it, tongue glides across ever so carefully as to not bruise. The taste buds awakened.. I explore eyes open or closed, depending on mood, taking in my love, the scent of him, his breath upon my upper lip.. OH... my... !!