[FeelingWeird]

Cleanliness is required. One thing I have noted is that the woman's butts that I have been around have a pleasant natural odor after being thouroughly cleaned and having a little time pass. Maybe there are sweat glands or other glands that provide some natural fragrance. After I noted this with one lover, she also noticed this with me. Maybe not so strange when you understand how secretions of the civet are used in perfumes.

Yes, obviously there would have to be come thorough cleaning before hand because of E. coli and such. I think the scent probably is because of sweat glands and other lubricant glands.

[jns]

But that's just the thing: I DO want to do this. And after being told this was a fairly mainstream, it feels like all I am finding everywhere I go on the Internet is a lot of disgust. And all I really want to know is that other people feel the same way I do, about this and other things. It's not like I have some weird kink where I want to know other people's sex fantasies for some kind of titillation. I just want to know I am not alone. But I think I am alone. No matter what, who I am always manages to **** other people off. I have been struggling with overly intense and "unusual" sex fantasies ever since I was 11. And now I am 30 and I keep thinking I will find people like me and realize it was all in my head, but nope, I think I just am that abnormal.

I don't think that you are abnormal. I don't think you are alone. Is it mainstream, no. Oral sex wasn't mainstream 50 or 60 years ago, so mainstream is just what is the current normal. I find the butts on my lovers to be visual exciting and exciting to my sense of touch. I would expect some others to feel the same. Exploring the clean butt with a tongue to see if the lover gets any excitement from it seems reasonably normal.

[EmpyNester]

But that's just the thing: I DO want to do this. And after being told this was a fairly mainstream, it feels like all I am finding everywhere I go on the Internet is a lot of disgust.

If you are okay with it and your BF wants it, then who cares what others think!

[FeelingWeird]

I don't think that you are abnormal. I don't think you are alone. Is it mainstream, no. Oral sex wasn't mainstream 50 or 60 years ago, so mainstream is just what is the current normal. I find the butts on my lovers to be visual exciting and exciting to my sense of touch. I would expect some others to feel the same. Exploring the clean butt with a tongue to see if the lover gets any excitement from it seems reasonably normal.

Thanks. I also love butts, but men's butts. They are beautiful and I also love to admire them and caress them. But the *** eating isn't even really my "thing," just something new I am playing with and so far enjoying. I could go on and on on this site about all the strange things I am into.

[JonnyR]

FeelingWeird You are definitely NOT alone! As a male, I absolutely love anything oral-sex-related.

I have performed analingus on many partners, and they love it -- provided all the above has been taken care of in terms of cleanliness, etc.

Maybe I'm a more adventurous guy than most, I dunno, but I love butt play -- insertion of my tongue, fingers, and sexually as well.

I've also had analingus performed on me and I also like it. There are lots of nerve endings in the anus (which is why we enjoy going to the bathroom!), and it's no different than any other crevice or opening -- so long as it's clean and hygienic, and you're comfortable and like it or want to try it, it's freaking great!

There is nothing more erotic to me than mutual butt play, and a woman who likes or isn't afraid of that in the same way that I'm not!

You're not weird -- fetishes and kinks are here to stay. Embrace it, because there are plenty of others that share the same tastes you do too!

[FeelingWeird]

FeelingWeird You are definitely NOT alone! As a male, I absolutely love anything oral-sex-related.

I have performed analingus on many partners, and they love it -- provided all the above has been taken care of in terms of cleanliness, etc.

Maybe I'm a more adventurous guy than most, I dunno, but I love butt play -- insertion of my tongue, fingers, and sexually as well.

I've also had analingus performed on me and I also like it. There are lots of nerve endings in the anus (which is why we enjoy going to the bathroom!), and it's no different than any other crevice or opening -- so long as it's clean and hygienic, and you're comfortable and like it or want to try it, it's freaking great!

There is nothing more erotic to me than mutual butt play, and a woman who likes or isn't afraid of that in the same way that I'm not!

You're not weird -- fetishes and kinks are here to stay. Embrace it, because there are plenty of others that share the same tastes you do too!

Thanks for this! I am not huge on sticking things in there LOL, but I love external butt play, both giving and receiving. It feels so amazing, and I am obsessed with men's butts LOL.

I don't know if I really "enjoy" going to the bathroom LOL. I mean, it feels great to get out whatever needs to come out LOL, but sometimes it is painful and my anus gets stretched too far, even though I eat a really healthy diet.

[FeelingWeird]

So my last post in this thread says unapproved and I think it popped up something about it getting flagged as potential spam when I posted it last night. Not sure why that would be, maybe I used too many LOLs because I was tired? Anyway, I don't know how to get hold of an admin to get this fixed. Can someone help?

[atskitty2]

FeelingWeird had you posted a link? I don't know why it flagged as spam either, but it seems to be fine. No worries.

I don't think you're weird, or abnormal, at all. Everyone has different things they find appealing sexually, and none of them are out of bounds, as long as it's consented to and not harmful for anyone involved, unless they want it to be Yeah, some people are into pain intermingled with their sexual encounters. It's what heightens their experience...

[FeelingWeird]

FeelingWeird had you posted a link? I don't know why it flagged as spam either, but it seems to be fine. No worries.

I don't think you're weird, or abnormal, at all. Everyone has different things they find appealing sexually, and none of them are out of bounds, as long as it's consented to and not harmful for anyone involved, unless they want it to be Yeah, some people are into pain intermingled with their sexual encounters. It's what heightens their experience...

Thanks! It was approved when I woke up this morning; not sure what had been going on. Thanks for the support. I get what you mean about pain; I guess it just isn't my thing. To me it just feels like someone trying to hurt me, and why would I want someone I care about to hurt me? I have had too much of that in my life already. But I can understand why others may be into it and I certainly don't think it is "weird" either.

[ggep]

Speaking as a woman, I have never eaten a man's *** and I can't say that I want to. I'm sure there are a lot of women who really like it but most of my friends who have done it did it to please their partner, not because it they were dying to get in there. My biggest objection is that men don't have the best track record with personal hygiene and also the hair is too much for me!