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ggep and FeelingWeird -- First off HYGIENE people!
What type of dudes are you guys with that have hairy asses and *******s (no judgments!)? Tell them to groom and manscape!
I take good care of all my parts and provide an excellent and enticing environment for ladies to explore...both hygienically in terms of cleanliness and showering, but also in terms of grooming.
Buy your men a male grooming kit if you ever did want to explore, but I can tell you personally, that if you are new to this type of exploration or play, having hair down there can certainly be a turnoff.
As for cleanliness, I take offense to the statement that men don't have the best track record for keeping themselves clean! I say nonsense and who are these men?
Cause me and the ones that I know, we're sticklers for keeping ourselves in tip-top shape for whatever may come our way! Always be prepared is my motto! ;-)Comment
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I love this. You are a hero.ggep and FeelingWeird -- First off HYGIENE people!
What type of dudes are you guys with that have hairy asses and *******s (no judgments!)? Tell them to groom and manscape!
I take good care of all my parts and provide an excellent and enticing environment for ladies to explore...both hygienically in terms of cleanliness and showering, but also in terms of grooming.
Buy your men a male grooming kit if you ever did want to explore, but I can tell you personally, that if you are new to this type of exploration or play, having hair down there can certainly be a turnoff.
As for cleanliness, I take offense to the statement that men don't have the best track record for keeping themselves clean! I say nonsense and who are these men?
Cause me and the ones that I know, we're sticklers for keeping ourselves in tip-top shape for whatever may come our way! Always be prepared is my motto! ;-)
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JonnyR Maybe I should have mentioned that my type is karaoke DJ in a denim vest who lives in his carpeted van. There are pros and cons to this lifestyle!
But also I loooove hairy men. If anything I would be persuading my partner against the whole manscaping thing because I find body hair really masculine. So I guess if a squeaky clean butt is the sacrifice I have to make that seems fair!Comment
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Not a body hair (or facial hair) fan LOL. But it is still good to see the hairy dudes getting thrown some love!JonnyR Maybe I should have mentioned that my type is karaoke DJ in a denim vest who lives in his carpeted van. There are pros and cons to this lifestyle!
But also I loooove hairy men. If anything I would be persuading my partner against the whole manscaping thing because I find body hair really masculine. So I guess if a squeaky clean butt is the sacrifice I have to make that seems fair!Comment
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ggep Aha! I have a wonderful solution for you!
I once dated someone who loved body hair -- as an athlete and grooming-conscious man, I'd always preferred being clean-shaven and kempt, especially "down there"...she liked hair to be everywhere.
So, here's the compromise: Let the man grow his stuff out everywhere, and simply shave in between his butt crack and ******* and perineum area....
That's what I did! So she had a bush to play with and enjoy up top, but it was nice and clean down below!
See, we can have our karaoke DJs AND clean butts too! ;-) Peace to all.Comment
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Genius.ggep Aha! I have a wonderful solution for you!
I once dated someone who loved body hair -- as an athlete and grooming-conscious man, I'd always preferred being clean-shaven and kempt, especially "down there"...she liked hair to be everywhere.
So, here's the compromise: Let the man grow his stuff out everywhere, and simply shave in between his butt crack and ******* and perineum area....
That's what I did! So she had a bush to play with and enjoy up top, but it was nice and clean down below!
See, we can have our karaoke DJs AND clean butts too! ;-) Peace to all.
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I've eaten *** before and it was pretty fun! Definitely not for everyone, but with the right person it can be super fun and intimate. My philosophy when it comes to sex is to always try what you want to try as long as your consenting with your partner(s). There is nothing better than getting to live out a sexual fantasy with someone you care about.Comment
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I have a story from my days running a bar that might help with your question... It was late one night, almost closing time, when my best friend/head bartender gets a call from some exotic dancers who are leaving the club down the street and want to pay us big money to let them come and drink after hours.
I wasn't going to be the one to tell them no, and we needed to blow off some steam as well. These ladies came to party! We're all taking turns doing body shots off whoever was laying on the bar, and all of a sudden, it's my turn! Peer pressure and a sense of adventure had me excited to jump up there and lay down as my friend pours some peppermint shnapps into my belly button. One of the ladies who had been flirting with me all night jumps up, immediately puts her face into my stomach and sucks out the liquor. We all cheer until she pulls a black hair from her mouth, points to my stomach, and says, "Eww, it's so hairy!"
We have a good laugh, but I can't help but be embarrassed. I mean, what did she expect? I'm not strategically waxed from head to toe like she is.
Therein lies my point. If you want someone knocking on that door, it helps do some serious maintenance to increase curb appeal. You could get started with oral sex, have her concentrate on the balls, then next time the perineum, then lower.. if it's not unpleasant down there, then you're less likely to run into an issue. And always give thanks for going that extra mile!Comment
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Ah, butt play. Hmmm...it's not my go to area to be honest. No particular reason and I applaud those who enjoy it but I'm pretty indifferent. However, when guys have tested the waters by gently putting their finger around the area and slipping it in, I've usually been receptive to it but if I'm not in the mood for that, I'll playfully/politely move their hand away and they get it.
I've been on the receiving end and it just doesn't do anything for me. I do like anal sex though but I'm on hiatus from that because I go through phases and right now I'm good. I've never eaten a guy's *** before and it's not that appealing to me. Again, not because of anything negative or because I think it's disgusting, I'm just like "Meh" about it. Haha. I've never been pressured though and I actually haven't dated anyone who had that as their fetish so I've never been pressured to do it or been given a hard time.
To piggyback off everyone else, it's to each their own. There's nothing abnormal about fetishes, kinks and the like. We all have our own freak flags and what's mainstream or not shouldn't dictate what you do/don't do in the bedroom, no less what you think of yourself. We're happy you're here as part of our online freaky family so rest assured, your kinks are welcome and safe here!Comment
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