[Gena G.]

I remember asking my boyfriend in college if he liked the taste when going down on women and he said at first he didn't but after doing it for a while he associates the taste with sex and being aroused so now he likes it. I would imagine it could be similar with your boyfriend? If he never does it, he'll never get used to it. He should at least try because he knows it would make you happy. It seems selfish not to even try imo.

I also think some men have a really old fashioned view of giving head that it's somehow like not a masculine thing to do? (lollll) There's that episode of The Sopranos where everyone finds out this guy likes eating ***** and he's mercilessly teased.

Obviously no one should do something sexual that they're not into but if the roles were reversed I'm sure you would at least try to find a compromise with him and do the thing he wanted to do. Definitely sit him down and explain how this is making you feel. A sexual relationship that is one sided sucks.

[G-Wagon]

To be fair. I do not give blowjobs. I have this fear that i will pick up hpv and get throat cancer or some other disease..I also don't t like it when a guy goes down on me. I over think the whole thing. Like is it smelly, is it aesthetically pleasing to look at. Does it taste nice? I feel like it would be an embarasment so i just don't do it..i also don't enjoy oral sex but i guess it's because of all of the above. I tell a guy from the beginning of a relationship that oral sex is a big no no.

[feministguy]

He says he just doesn't like doing it

You might consider seeing if he will perform oral on you if you have your underwear on.

[MrMr]

I personally love the taste. But doing something your partner enjoys is such a turn on

[G-Wagon]

I personally love the taste. But doing something your partner enjoys is such a turn on

MrMr how would you describe the taste. Especially the juices that come out

[MrMr]

MrMr how would you describe the taste. Especially the juices that come out

It doesn’t taste like anything specific. It’s just a part of the enjoyed sexual experience

[jns]

To be fair. I do not give blowjobs. I have this fear that i will pick up hpv and get throat cancer or some other disease..I also don't t like it when a guy goes down on me. I over think the whole thing. Like is it smelly, is it aesthetically pleasing to look at. Does it taste nice? I feel like it would be an embarasment so i just don't do it..i also don't enjoy oral sex but i guess it's because of all of the above. I tell a guy from the beginning of a relationship that oral sex is a big no no.

MrMr how would you describe the taste. Especially the juices that come out

Most taste and scent is from the past. If a women has cleaned properly, there is very little scent and taste. It is so much that way that I prefer a slightly less clean version so that there is some scent and taste. I don't like a soapy scent or taste. Sometimes I find a sticky liquid, clear to white and almost gel. It is also tasteless and odorless by itself. Ingestion doesn't cause any problems. Hair can trap some scent. Again, properly cleaned, it is no problem for me.

Personally I find a woman's private parts aesthetically pleasing. The smoothness of the legs and buttocks transition into that region. There are a lot of parts that add to the mystery.

G-Wagon, since you don't like receiving oral, have you ever had a man use his fingers very gently to bring you to an orgasm?

[MrMr]

I’ve never seen a vagina i wasn’t massively turned on by

[G-Wagon]

jns . Yes. Many times. I do not mind fingers at all.