Hello everyone,I hope you all are doing good. I am new to here and also a new to World of sex and pleasure. I am Virgin guy and never had sex to anyone just do the masturbation whenever feels so. I have an issue that when I see any hot things like video or image I do have some ejaculation happened without even touching anything.I do not rub and do not touch but still it happened and it's very quickly. Is that any issue or it is just normal thing? Would it create any problem in sexual pleasure with partner? Your suggestions would be highly appreciated. Thank you.
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I'm sorry I'm not an expert but it sounds like premature ejaculation. If you're worried about it maybe go and see a doctor, don't be embarrassed to tell them, that's what they are there for. But they'll probably tell you not to worry about it.Originally posted by summer21031985 View Post
Maybe you need to masturbate more regularly? My husband is in his 40s and still masturbates every day, sometimes twice a day. If he didn't, maybe he'd be like you and ejaculate very easily. You are probably much younger so you produce even more semen, it needs to go somewhere. Just masturbate more often and let it out, then I bet you won't have those little "accidents".
Also make sure you don't confuse ejaculation with precum. If all that's happening is a few clear (not white) drops leaking out, then it's not proper ejaculation. My husband produces large quantities of precum when he's aroused, it's totally normal. If you're actually shooting out white stuff, then it's definitely semen and you're ejaculating prematurely. -
Dear jane86 thank you for your suggestions. When I do masturbate I do ejaculate thick white liquid in lot of quantity and for that I need to rub my penis or have to jerk off. But whenever I am looking at hot image or video it leaks in my underwear which is not that thick white. What is that and how do I overcome it ? If you can help based on your experience with your husband ?
How does do your husband masturbate to ejaculate much ?
I do masturbate by rubbing or my pressuring the penis and shortly it ejaculate white thick liquid. I do it twice in a week. Is there any better techniques do you know ?Last edited by summer21031985; 10-19-2023, 04:05 AM.Comment
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Lol I'm really not an expert in male ejaculation! jns?? I don't know if there are specific techniques, I'd say just do what feels nice!
Anyway from what's you're saying, it sounds like you're just leaking precum. You don't need to overcome it, just let it out. Why does it bother you? It's completely natural. Delicious too btw, much nicer than semen. No bleachy taste, just salty sweet. Try it!Comment
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jane86 Thank you , Yeah I also think that it may be precum as it is clear liquid. Though I didn't test it but yeah it didn't smell at all. No one has give me the feedback that it's test nice as no one tested it yet. My penis got erected too quickly without making much efforts hardly it takes 30 sec or so to get full erection is that the reason for pre ejaculation ? If you observe something similar with your husband ?Comment
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Why do you think 30 seconds is too quick? Sounds pretty normal to me. I really don't sit there with a timer when I'm with my husband or with my lover, but I'm sure it's a similar amount of time.Originally posted by summer21031985 View Post
You're just a normal guy, don't overthink all this stuff and stop worrying. Hopefully you'll find yourself a partner soon who appreciates you getting hard for them, regardless of speed. Maybe they'll even like your precum!
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jane86 Thank you somuch for your kind words but I have all these self doubts because whenever I do masturbate I found that hardly I would be able to survive for 1-2 minute in bed with my partner including foreplay. I see in videos and also heared that men's lasts for 15-30 minutes or so on an average. So I feels that how would I satisfy the partner in those 2-3 minutes.
How long your husband or lover lasts begining from the foreplay to penetrations including cumming out ?Comment
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Dear jane86 you are very good at explaining things in very easy and nice way.First of all I would thank you for that nice thing you are doing. My humble request with you can you be my mentor who could resolve my innocent queries ? I would be greatful to you for that.Comment
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I'm not experienced enough to be anyone's mentor but if you have any questions, please post them here and either myself or other people will help, that's what the public forum is for.Originally posted by summer21031985 View Post
I had written a response to your last post but it's been put under moderation, I'm guessing it's because I mentioned the name of a famous British politician next to the word "naked" so it was filtered as spam. Maybe it will get published, otherwise I'll copy and paste again without that sentence.Comment
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