[WildChild]

Getting too wet does cause problems. There have been plenty of times the guy I was with couldn't finish and sometimes by that point I can't feel much of anything no matter what he does cause everything is far too soft and squishy inside me. There's no friction at all. There's just... goo.... Go hump a bucket of water and let me know if you get anywhere There has to be some friction and it's harder for him to apply pressure I can feel if everything is soft and sliding around. Most of the time it's only an issue with my current relationship when we try to have sex multiple times in the same night. Usually neither one of us can find a way to finish.

The only thing I can think of to try are those creams or lotions sold to make the vagina feel tighter. Overall they seem to get good reviews. At minimum they aren't harmful. You can find them lots of places usually with some name relating to something asian or virgins.

Instead of creams and goo, get healthy PC muscles by doing kegels with a kegel master or vaginal weights. Then you can be tight, wet and even more orgasmic.

[AussieYank]

*sigh*

Last partner I had was the best sex of my life.
Short live whirl wind type thing...
Too bad he had to leave to go back to the US.

He didn't have aaaaaany trouble at all
But now, ok we had a good physical connection... but it was what it was I guess... though, I do tend to shy away from dates of late mainly cause of the subject at hand. *sigh* too bad the man had to get back on a ship for work eh?

Any ideas on how to get over that... um fear?

[Guest]

Wow...this is a blessing not a problem.

Seeing a woman wet makes me go nuts. It's sexy knowing she's aroused. Haha, when she's giving me a BJ, she'll stand up to take her undies off and it starts dripping out, sticking to her....that's freaking awesome.

Then you have the time of the month when the lubrication is thicker and white....almost like conditioner and it congregates on the base of me.

Then you have the times when she's on top doing her thing and you can hear the squishing sounds as she moves.

A freaking turn on if you ask me. Wow.

[Ahryin]

Instead of creams and goo, get healthy PC muscles by doing kegels with a kegel master or vaginal weights. Then you can be tight, wet and even more orgasmic.

What are vaginal weights? I should be ordering my kegel master this week where is the best site to get it from..there are a lot of copies out there. I have no problem getting wet unless I drink a lot of alcohol..which I want to know if that is normal? I have never met a man that didn't enjoy that extra wetness..the sound is something like ...swkwishsh wkshkisssshh ...LOL

[WildChild]

I've looked into a distributorship of kegel master and found they are pretty much just online. At one time they sold in adult shops but then they redesigned to create a "slimmer" product and recieved FDA (I think) approval as a medical device. The prohibit distributors from placing product in adult shops. I think they missed a bet there and should have maintained two similar product lines, one for the "medical" market and the other for the "adult" market. The product does both, it essentially eliminated my problems with sudden urge and incontinence but it also enhances sexual response and performance. If you do an online search, you'll find several sites you can order from. I'll email you the place I got mine but I'm sure it would be the same product from others.

You can do a search on vaginal weights, they come in several types. I haven't tried them myself but we did have a lady post about what she's been able to do with them and they certainly sounded effective.

[Ahryin]

You do realize that in my mind i'm picturing my girl (referring to vagina) getting all buff talking down to the Mr. (talking about SO's private part) saying "What you go! You got nothing on this! Who's is it! YeA! YEa! YEa!" in a deep manly voice" umm...yeah I have issues

[LanaBear]

Wow...this is a blessing not a problem.

Seeing a woman wet makes me go nuts. It's sexy knowing she's aroused. Haha, when she's giving me a BJ, she'll stand up to take her undies off and it starts dripping out, sticking to her....that's freaking awesome.

Then you have the time of the month when the lubrication is thicker and white....almost like conditioner and it congregates on the base of me.

Then you have the times when she's on top doing her thing and you can hear the squishing sounds as she moves.

A freaking turn on if you ask me. Wow.

HAHA - my DH feels the same way. Sometimes, I feel it is too wet, but he says no way.

What are vaginal weights?

I guess Ben Wa balls could be considered vaginal weights. I have a set. I can't really tell a difference, but DH says he can. I think a lot of people buy them for the wrong purpose, thinking they can orgasm with them in. That's hardly the case, if you buy them for kegal exercise purposes, you shouldn't be disappointed.

[AussieYank]

*well*

Wow...this is a blessing not a problem.

Seeing a woman wet makes me go nuts. It's sexy knowing she's aroused. Haha, when she's giving me a BJ, she'll stand up to take her undies off and it starts dripping out, sticking to her....that's freaking awesome.

Then you have the time of the month when the lubrication is thicker and white....almost like conditioner and it congregates on the base of me.

Then you have the times when she's on top doing her thing and you can hear the squishing sounds as she moves.

A freaking turn on if you ask me. Wow.

Guess I'm in the wrong country then... lol
Aussie guys get a little freaked out.
But my experience with guys from other countries has been more than encouraging.

Ok so who wants to help me with accomodation in the US? lol
my.... ahhhhh - oh I know - my "cool, smooth & wet" tour
a name only for those who are members on this site
xx

PS. Am a vocalist just incase you were wondering lmao

[Guest]

Guess I'm in the wrong country then... lol
Aussie guys get a little freaked out.
But my experience with guys from other countries has been more than encouraging.

Ok so who wants to help me with accomodation in the US? lol
my.... ahhhhh - oh I know - my "cool, smooth & wet" tour
a name only for those who are members on this site
xx

PS. Am a vocalist just incase you were wondering lmao

I thought Aussie guys were used to spending time in the "bush".

[AussieYank]

I thought Aussie guys were used to spending time in the "bush".

Not when it's slippery when wet conditions...
*shrugs*
I dunno.....