[Fire(m)]

I know it really doesn't matter much to anyone, but I have a strong preference for a woman with small breasts. It's not that I have anything "against" large breasts, as I've dated women with both large and small. My preference is for small though.

That having been said, the physicality of the woman is much less important to me than the love she's capable of and how much fun she is. If she's loving and plenty fun, she's awesome to me whether she's 80 lbs or 250 lbs and with big breasts or small.

Cheers.

[alicelovesrain]

Personally I don't think size matters at all. I have never measured my mans penis nor do I have the desire to. My boyfriend was rather insecure because after he split up with a girl she made deragatory remarks about his size. Anybody asks about his size I'd tell them the same thing I tell him...he's the perfect size for me. On a side note I think it's messed up to degrade a guys size after you break up with him or whatever...why do some women do that?

OMG seriously. My current boyfriend had a terrible issue with his size. Infact, it affected our sex life so much we came close to breaking up. But I found out his previous girlfriend had done exactly what you're talking about. After breaking up, she told him he was extremely small. It took months of reprogramming for him to understand that size doesn't really matter and that he DOES bring me pleasure. This is something I really think guys shouldn't be insecure about. I think majority of girls don't really care about size. Besides, I have more luck with guys on the smaller end. They hit the spot just righhhhht.

[commonsense]

Amen. I've spent the last several years (yes, years) in a depression because of this problem. I've had 2 different women cheat on me and tell me pretty much to my face that it was because I wasn't big enough. What made it worse is that it's true as I'm smaller than average. Wound up getting on Paxil and having to go through therapy to deal with it. It's amazing how something like that can leave scars as deep as they do.

I'm sorry that you had to experience this. That was a terrible thing they did to you. How could they have told you the truth from their perspective without offending you? Maybe this could help some of us.

Troop.
If my penis fell off, I could still make my lady very happy. Concentrate on what you have that works and works well. Learn a new skill (ie. going downtown). My guess is that if you've been left by two ladies for the same reason, it's probably because you aren't making them happy in other ways that have little to do with your penis size.

Most women I know of, if they're willing to be with you to begin with - will stay with you if you're a good man and you're doing things right in general life as well as in the bed (regardless of your size). HOWEVER: If you're not making her happy AND you have a little woodie, then it's bye-bye Troop.

My advice is to
1) Be a stand-up guy. Treat your lady right and ALWAYS do the right thing by her. Make good sound choices and stand by your lady.
2) Make her very happy in bed. Make her SOOOOooo happy, she's amazed at what an outstanding lover you are.
3) Don't worry about having less than normal down there. You can overcome it. Most women don't orgasm from penetrative sex anyway. Work around the problem.
4) Pull yourself up out of your depression by your boot-straps. In other words, it's time to be a man, stand up proud and admire YOURSELF for what you have to offer, not for one shortcoming. And don't make your self-admiration empty. DO SOMETHING TO BE ADMIRED FOR! (refer to #1 and #2 above).

Cheers.

Well stated and I'm a female.