[CHANDLERS WISH]

So, I see anything critical of a mod's reply here gets deleted? The least you could do is email me and ask me not to do it again.

Hi, homelesswombat.

Actually i did try to send you a Private Message regarding the deletion of the post, but your mail is set to non-receiving private mail.

I didn't think it would be appropriate to leave a message on your comments section, for all to see.

So, yes, whether you are attacking a mod, or a person, which is the same thing, it is against the rules...to attack someone.

Opinions and Discussions are more than welcome.

Debating also in a polite manner.

Also, i agree it is certainly a "light hearted" thread..one where you can make a joke, such as visualisation try it, in fun.. And, i have enjoyed reading the different comments so far here.


I hope you enjoy the Forum...

[homelesswombat]

Sorry if I sounded like I was attacking someone. I don't recall using any personal insults, just using facts and my opinions to make my argument. If it was perceived that way I apologize. Well, I guess I'll have to be more careful next time I want to respond to somebody specifically.

[owlhunter]

Why do you think I always date women with small hands?

[Livelaughlove]

Reading through this forum I've read quite a few women mention the size of their partner's penis, usually giving a length in inches. The question I have about this is pretty basic: How do you know how big it is? Obviously you saw and/or felt it, but when it comes to metrics, the human eye/hand can be a pretty poor judge. So unless you work with your 'eye' a lot (like a carpenter, artist, graphic designer, draftsperson etc. I work as a product designer so I know that it takes a lot of time and practice to develop an accurate eye), I'm suspicious of a lot of claims.


We're living in an increasingly penis-size-centric culture (you've seen the ads). Usually on this forum I have read women consoling some guy or bragging to each other or whatever, but thats not my point. I'm not trying to call women liars or being defensive about my own size (I've read the statistical data and I'm perfectly happy ), I just think it would be healthy to be aware of the potential inaccuracy of human perception. Also, for both women and men it's a matter of self-awareness of how we can conflate things in the moment and in our memory.

So, for those of you who care to share, did you take a ruler to him?

Who cares?

Even if you somehow change the mind of the Active Members here. What difference do you think it will make IN THE WORLD.

Women talking about penis size should never bother you. Some women will talk about penis sizes in front of you to see if they can get a reaction. Its happen to me more times then i can remember. My standard reply is

Girls: How big is your ?
LLL: Why you want to know your never going to see it...

or

Girls: How big is your ?
LLL: You mean now or 30 minutes from now?

Dont let it bother you and move on...

Hope this helps

Live laugh and love.

[Hystorm]

Yes...we measure with a flex tape. Girth and length from TOP of penis to top of head. Not Bottom of penis to top of head as that will add a few inches.

For the ladies, you can just measure the length of your two middle fingers to the bottom of the palm. Then, use that as a quick reference.

[Muskitos]

Hi,

I am female and have never ever been bothered with length. Quite surprised any woman does actually.

The length of a penis is NO guarantee for good sex: NONE.

The mind of the guy is; absolutely.

When I meet a man, I am interested in the person. I never wondered about his penis?

Maybe an odd question : but you guys out there do you wonder about how big the V of the lady is? see my point?

[shadowrose]

its not the size of the wand...its the magic it does!

Personally I don't think size matters at all. I have never measured my mans penis nor do I have the desire to. My boyfriend was rather insecure because after he split up with a girl she made deragatory remarks about his size. Anybody asks about his size I'd tell them the same thing I tell him...he's the perfect size for me. On a side note I think it's messed up to degrade a guys size after you break up with him or whatever...why do some women do that?

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Personally I don't think size matters at all. I have never measured my mans penis nor do I have the desire to. My boyfriend was rather insecure because after he split up with a girl she made deragatory remarks about his size. Anybody asks about his size I'd tell them the same thing I tell him...he's the perfect size for me. On a side note I think it's messed up to degrade a guys size after you break up with him or whatever...why do some women do that?

Shadowrose, I am with you.

It has nothing to do with size, often the guy is actually lengthy but maybe is insecure of width?

I can't see the hang up... It's about what they do before, the positions they know will do it during, and more importantly the feelings a person has for one, any size, width, length is amazing if ther is a soul conneciton that's my thoughts.

Those whom want the long, thick ahhh it doesn't fit anyway so WT?

Guess i will be crusified and guess i don't give a damddddd...

CW

[shadowrose]

Yup Yup

[QUOTE=CHANDLERS WISH;50656]Shadowrose, I am with you.

It has nothing to do with size, often the guy is actually lengthy but maybe is insecure of width?

I can't see the hang up... It's about what they do before, the positions they know will do it during, and more importantly the feelings a person has for one, any size, width, length is amazing if ther is a soul conneciton that's my thoughts.


AMEN to that!!!! It can be as big as you want but if he doesn't know how to use it it's just decoration.

[Richard S]

I've been debating whether to participate in this thread or not. Back in my 20's I got mixed up with a girl who had a steady BF, broke up with him, got back together, broke up again, one of those situations. She liked me but kept me at arms length. So one night we ended up together, and she spent most of the night trying to subtly cut me down, to re-affirm that her BF was the right man. She also told me she didn't want to cheat, that is, what would it mean for us if all we had was cheating?

I seduced her that night, and I did it by telling an erotic story, and it ended up with her masturbating right in front of me. I was able to make her come, twice, without even touching her. We had a very intimate night together, but we didn't have intercourse, because deep down, I knew she was right, I didn't want to have her if all I could have was cheating. It just wasn't the kind of man I was.

My point is, if I can make a woman come without even touching her, do you think I give a flying f*ck about my penis size?