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So from your point of view on a visual point of view, a circumcised man is nice to look at, i'm a tad naughty cause i think that when i'm with a partner, they are all are nice to look at amongst other things.Uneeklyme
I personally prefer circumcised. Reasons being...
They are more asthetically pleasing (to me)
But i do appreciate personal choices of course.
I personally think a lot of men (Not your's C), are not having much or any sex by that stage as they come from the old school and the wife, tends to turn their marriage into friendship for bowling and playing cards, hehehe, he probably therefore may not, pay as much attention as he used to and probably gave up masterbating as well. Just showers, forgets, a bit like habits formed, habits broken. Just my opinion. But then as that's your profession it is going to stick out in your mind of what you see, as apposed to perhaps the logical reasoning of it?Uneeklyme
Now, having worked with older men... say 65 plus... there seems to be a certian point where they just dont get in there and clean up as well as they should. We have these men that come through with the my penis is on fire complaint that are uncircumcised. So many of them have infections from poor hygene.
That's interesting in as much as you prefer to have your child not circumcised, however, you prefer your partner to be circumcised for visual reasons, but you chose to not to for your son. But, i imagine he will get lots of lessons of cleanliness, especially pertaining to when he is way mature, over 50UneeklymeI guess we can now wait for your reply and then move on. Just for the record. My first son was circumcised... out of my control. My second is not. My choice.
Which, i am sure most parents in my days didn't discuss that with their sons, as much as mum's didn't really talk about periods, sex, other than it hurts first time, as the education was different.
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His is real. Its his own he was born with. Adding to it doesnt make it fake. Im sure Bobbit is laughing all the way to the bank with his fame and fotune thanks to his "fake" wang.
This is true. Some people are immaculate with thier hygiene and some... ohmigosh...nasty. It tends to stick in ones mind to see a man that has not washed properly for whatever reason (many times it's because they just physically can't do it. Arthritis and whatnot) that can't urinate because the foreskin is blocking the meatus and has a seriously nasty smell that makes one gag when the foreskin is finally retracted through the smagma and other discharge from the infection. Not to mention the smell of the urine from the UTI from not being able to urinate properly and the yeast or whatever traveling through the urethra to the bladder. It actually happens much more than one would think. Or the 6 year old that cant urinate because the foreskin has grown over the meatus and has to have it surgically retracted. It takes longer to heal and fear of pain is a pretty strong emotion. An infant does not have this fear, they just know it hurts and respond.I personally think a lot of men (Not your's C), are not having much or any sex by that stage as they come from the old school and the wife, tends to turn their marriage into friendship for bowling and playing cards, hehehe, he probably therefore may not, pay as much attention as he used to and probably gave up masterbating as well. Just showers, forgets, a bit like habits formed, habits broken. Just my opinion. But then as that's your profession it is going to stick out in your mind of what you see, as apposed to perhaps the logical reasoning of it?
I didn't have him circumcised for various reasons but your right, he has been taught how to clean himself and the importance has been stressed. I am very open with my children and even at 8 he knows what circumcision is. He knows the visual difference. He knows he can choose at any time to have a circumcision performed. I understand that he doesn't fully grasp the concept but he will never lack for information. Heck, he even knows about the HPV vaccine my daughter has been offered. He will not be illiterate of these issues. Granted, its all in his 8 year old concept but he recites pretty acurately side effects, pro's, con's and such.That's interesting in as much as you prefer to have your child not circumcised, however, you prefer your partner to be circumcised for visual reasons, but you chose to not to for your son. But, i imagine he will get lots of lessons of cleanliness, especially pertaining to when he is way mature, over 50 Which, i am sure most parents in my days didn't discuss that with their sons, as much as mum's didn't really talk about periods, sex, other than it hurts first time, as the education was different.
It's not so much that I prefer my partner to be circumcised (he is right, it is what it is and there is not alot that can be done about it anyway) as I visually prefer circumcision. That's not to say that I don't like uncircumcised tho. It's like having two pairs of jeans in different styles. Like them both but asthetically prefer the color of one over the other if that can make sense. So, in this way of thinking, I might have some strong opinions on certain aspects of circumcision, I really do not care one way or the other if a man is circumcised or not. One reason I went pro on the subject here is to show both sides of the coin. People come here for information as well as advice and opinions.Last edited by CHANDLERS WISH; 07-12-2008, 10:41 PM.Comment
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Uneeklyme
It's like having two pairs of jeans in different styles. Like them both but asthetically prefer the color of one over the other if that can make sense
I like different jeans. LMAO...
And that would be the Nurse in you, but also a very good reason..Uneeklyme
I really do not care one way or the other if a man is circumcised or not. One reason I went pro on the subject here is to show both sides of the coin. People come here for information as well as advice and opinions.
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I personally think a lot of men (Not your's C), are not having much or any sex by that stage as they come from the old school and the wife, tends to turn their marriage into friendship for bowling and playing cards, hehehe, he probably therefore may not, pay as much attention as he used to and probably gave up masterbating as well.
What in the world gave you the idea a 65 year old male is NOT having sex and NOT masturbating anymore..... 68 I will let you know EVERY things is still working both both South, and for, desire for intercourse and masturbation.... Don't sell us old codgers down the river yet.... I haven't shot my last load yet....Comment
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[quote=LoverofSEX;45024]lol... That comment was based on the threader and her replies throughout this thread who sees a lot of problems with men at her work, as she is a Nurse, they are not active like you, they have grown old way too quickly, she states also arthritis as a reason and they don't use or clean enough there and get very ill, so i was just saying, those particular men probably "don't use it"...so to speak....I personally think a lot of men (Not your's C), are not having much or any sex by that stage as they come from the old school and the wife, tends to turn their marriage into friendship for bowling and playing cards, hehehe, he probably therefore may not, pay as much attention as he used to and probably gave up masterbating as well.
What in the world gave you the idea a 65 year old male is NOT having sex and NOT masturbating anymore..... 68 I will let you know EVERY things is still working both both South, and for, desire for intercourse and masturbation.... Don't sell us old codgers down the river yet.... I haven't shot my last load yet....
And, therefore, i was suggesting as such, this may be a reason as to why "those men", that she sees have so many problems, no routine as there was when they "were" using it.
So, in retrospect, i am not saying ALL, as you note (Not yours C), off course it goes without reason that many men will go on until the cows come home and i hope my future second husband will be like that as well
But, lets face it, you have to have friends out there that aren't like you and your wife, don't give signals to each other, the wife gave up along time ago and the men have to suffer, yes, i believe usually it is the woman who turns the relationship into a form of friendship..
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