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  • C
    Member
    • Aug 2007
    • 900

    I am sorry but I put down that my husband was not circumcised and he was....My fault...Sent it off too fast...

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    • CHANDLERS WISH
      • Mar 2008
      • 22440

      Uneeklyme
      I personally prefer circumcised. Reasons being...
      They are more asthetically pleasing (to me)
      So from your point of view on a visual point of view, a circumcised man is nice to look at, i'm a tad naughty cause i think that when i'm with a partner, they are all are nice to look at amongst other things. But i do appreciate personal choices of course.

      Uneeklyme
      Now, having worked with older men... say 65 plus... there seems to be a certian point where they just dont get in there and clean up as well as they should. We have these men that come through with the my penis is on fire complaint that are uncircumcised. So many of them have infections from poor hygene.
      I personally think a lot of men (Not your's C), are not having much or any sex by that stage as they come from the old school and the wife, tends to turn their marriage into friendship for bowling and playing cards, hehehe, he probably therefore may not, pay as much attention as he used to and probably gave up masterbating as well. Just showers, forgets, a bit like habits formed, habits broken. Just my opinion. But then as that's your profession it is going to stick out in your mind of what you see, as apposed to perhaps the logical reasoning of it?

      UneeklymeI guess we can now wait for your reply and then move on. Just for the record. My first son was circumcised... out of my control. My second is not. My choice.
      That's interesting in as much as you prefer to have your child not circumcised, however, you prefer your partner to be circumcised for visual reasons, but you chose to not to for your son. But, i imagine he will get lots of lessons of cleanliness, especially pertaining to when he is way mature, over 50 Which, i am sure most parents in my days didn't discuss that with their sons, as much as mum's didn't really talk about periods, sex, other than it hurts first time, as the education was different.
      PUT A LITTLE 'LIKE' IN MY SOUL!

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      • jonny
        Senior Member
        • Jun 2008
        • 117

        Originally posted by Uneeklyme
        I guess it wouldnt be so funny if he was laughing at your wang tho.
        LMAO!

        The guy with a fake penis shouldn't be laughing at anyone.

        Mine is all real.


        could you make a point that makes sense relevant to the topic or a relevant point.
        I think I have made sense. And i've said has been very relevant to the topic.

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        • Uneeklyme
          Veteran Member
          • Apr 2008
          • 257

          Originally posted by jonny
          LMAO!
          The guy with a fake penis shouldn't be laughing at anyone.
          Mine is all real.
          His is real. Its his own he was born with. Adding to it doesnt make it fake. Im sure Bobbit is laughing all the way to the bank with his fame and fotune thanks to his "fake" wang.

          Originally posted by CHANDLERS WISH
          I personally think a lot of men (Not your's C), are not having much or any sex by that stage as they come from the old school and the wife, tends to turn their marriage into friendship for bowling and playing cards, hehehe, he probably therefore may not, pay as much attention as he used to and probably gave up masterbating as well. Just showers, forgets, a bit like habits formed, habits broken. Just my opinion. But then as that's your profession it is going to stick out in your mind of what you see, as apposed to perhaps the logical reasoning of it?
          This is true. Some people are immaculate with thier hygiene and some... ohmigosh...nasty. It tends to stick in ones mind to see a man that has not washed properly for whatever reason (many times it's because they just physically can't do it. Arthritis and whatnot) that can't urinate because the foreskin is blocking the meatus and has a seriously nasty smell that makes one gag when the foreskin is finally retracted through the smagma and other discharge from the infection. Not to mention the smell of the urine from the UTI from not being able to urinate properly and the yeast or whatever traveling through the urethra to the bladder. It actually happens much more than one would think. Or the 6 year old that cant urinate because the foreskin has grown over the meatus and has to have it surgically retracted. It takes longer to heal and fear of pain is a pretty strong emotion. An infant does not have this fear, they just know it hurts and respond.

          Originally posted by CHANDLERS WISH
          That's interesting in as much as you prefer to have your child not circumcised, however, you prefer your partner to be circumcised for visual reasons, but you chose to not to for your son. But, i imagine he will get lots of lessons of cleanliness, especially pertaining to when he is way mature, over 50 Which, i am sure most parents in my days didn't discuss that with their sons, as much as mum's didn't really talk about periods, sex, other than it hurts first time, as the education was different.
          I didn't have him circumcised for various reasons but your right, he has been taught how to clean himself and the importance has been stressed. I am very open with my children and even at 8 he knows what circumcision is. He knows the visual difference. He knows he can choose at any time to have a circumcision performed. I understand that he doesn't fully grasp the concept but he will never lack for information. Heck, he even knows about the HPV vaccine my daughter has been offered. He will not be illiterate of these issues. Granted, its all in his 8 year old concept but he recites pretty acurately side effects, pro's, con's and such.
          It's not so much that I prefer my partner to be circumcised (he is right, it is what it is and there is not alot that can be done about it anyway) as I visually prefer circumcision. That's not to say that I don't like uncircumcised tho. It's like having two pairs of jeans in different styles. Like them both but asthetically prefer the color of one over the other if that can make sense. So, in this way of thinking, I might have some strong opinions on certain aspects of circumcision, I really do not care one way or the other if a man is circumcised or not. One reason I went pro on the subject here is to show both sides of the coin. People come here for information as well as advice and opinions.
          Last edited by CHANDLERS WISH; 07-12-2008, 10:41 PM.

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          • CHANDLERS WISH
            • Mar 2008
            • 22440

            Uneeklyme

            It's like having two pairs of jeans in different styles. Like them both but asthetically prefer the color of one over the other if that can make sense


            I like different jeans. LMAO...


            Uneeklyme
            I really do not care one way or the other if a man is circumcised or not. One reason I went pro on the subject here is to show both sides of the coin. People come here for information as well as advice and opinions.
            And that would be the Nurse in you, but also a very good reason..
            PUT A LITTLE 'LIKE' IN MY SOUL!

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            • jonny
              Senior Member
              • Jun 2008
              • 117

              His is real. Its his own he was born with. Adding to it doesnt make it fake. Im sure Bobbit is laughing all the way to the bank with his fame and fotune thanks to his "fake" wang.
              I highly doubt he has made a ton of money with his fake wang.

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              • LoverofSEX
                Member
                • Jul 2008
                • 24

                I disagree, I am cut at 68 and I sure would NOT waant more sensitivity I go too soon the way it is.....

                It is a proven fact that cut men have less sensitivity.

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                • CHANDLERS WISH
                  • Mar 2008
                  • 22440

                  Originally posted by jonny
                  I highly doubt he has made a ton of money with his fake wang.
                  Actually Jonny, um, he, um has Shirt loads....

                  Originally posted by LoverofSEX
                  I disagree, I am cut at 68 and I sure would NOT waant more sensitivity I go too soon the way it is.....

                  It is a proven fact that cut men have less sensitivity.
                  I noted your other post under my Thread of sex and making love and the difference. Good question, you should actually start a new thread under sex section, so it gets seen more...
                  PUT A LITTLE 'LIKE' IN MY SOUL!

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                  • LoverofSEX
                    Member
                    • Jul 2008
                    • 24

                    [QUOTE=CHANDLERS WISH;44853]
                    I personally think a lot of men (Not your's C), are not having much or any sex by that stage as they come from the old school and the wife, tends to turn their marriage into friendship for bowling and playing cards, hehehe, he probably therefore may not, pay as much attention as he used to and probably gave up masterbating as well.

                    What in the world gave you the idea a 65 year old male is NOT having sex and NOT masturbating anymore..... 68 I will let you know EVERY things is still working both both South, and for, desire for intercourse and masturbation.... Don't sell us old codgers down the river yet.... I haven't shot my last load yet....

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                    • CHANDLERS WISH
                      • Mar 2008
                      • 22440

                      [quote=LoverofSEX;45024]
                      Originally posted by CHANDLERS WISH
                      I personally think a lot of men (Not your's C), are not having much or any sex by that stage as they come from the old school and the wife, tends to turn their marriage into friendship for bowling and playing cards, hehehe, he probably therefore may not, pay as much attention as he used to and probably gave up masterbating as well.

                      What in the world gave you the idea a 65 year old male is NOT having sex and NOT masturbating anymore..... 68 I will let you know EVERY things is still working both both South, and for, desire for intercourse and masturbation.... Don't sell us old codgers down the river yet.... I haven't shot my last load yet....
                      lol... That comment was based on the threader and her replies throughout this thread who sees a lot of problems with men at her work, as she is a Nurse, they are not active like you, they have grown old way too quickly, she states also arthritis as a reason and they don't use or clean enough there and get very ill, so i was just saying, those particular men probably "don't use it"...so to speak....

                      And, therefore, i was suggesting as such, this may be a reason as to why "those men", that she sees have so many problems, no routine as there was when they "were" using it.

                      So, in retrospect, i am not saying ALL, as you note (Not yours C), off course it goes without reason that many men will go on until the cows come home and i hope my future second husband will be like that as well But, lets face it, you have to have friends out there that aren't like you and your wife, don't give signals to each other, the wife gave up along time ago and the men have to suffer, yes, i believe usually it is the woman who turns the relationship into a form of friendship..

                      CW
                      PUT A LITTLE 'LIKE' IN MY SOUL!

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