Yes, its a given but it does come up. Having the conversation of "ok, so what are your limits?" " Welllll, no kids, animals or scat play of course..." My SO and I have similar thought process as owlhunter. If it sounds interesting lets give it a try. Never know, we might like it and if we do just add it to our activities. If not, at least we have tried it and know we dont like it. No reason to go there again. Not so much different as open minded to suggestion and willing to explore.
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Yes, its a given but it does come up. Having the conversation of "ok, so what are your limits?" " Welllll, no kids, animals or scat play of course..." My SO and I have similar thought process as owlhunter. If it sounds interesting lets give it a try. Never know, we might like it and if we do just add it to our activities. If not, at least we have tried it and know we dont like it. No reason to go there again. Not so much different as open minded to suggestion and willing to explore. -
Since we are talking about non-traditional sexual practices (is that PC enough), that dominance is just fine too, if both partners agree. It is a good idea to discuss limits - since not everyone will agree. Presumably children are out for all couples - since that would be a felony - but age-play might not be. But almost anythign else is something that consenting adults might want to do. There are lots of edgy things that some people might enjoy, and others will find offensive.
I think experimenting is a great idea - as long as you and your partner agree to stop if either is uncomfortable (physically or mentally) with what is going on.Comment
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To me it is about the dumbest thing there is to do...And yes, it does stretch her.....Complete boredom...Try fitting your head in or your foot...When two people get that bored with each other that they have to go to this length, it is bad...They don't belong together...I read where some guy in Pennsylvania put some electrodes in his girlfriends p**** to give her an extra charge...Then he plugged it in...It charged her OK...She died...They were either drunk or high...Comment
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May I ask how YOU know that it stretches her? Neither she nor I have noticed any difference. And we are not bored. If one chooses to eat at a new type of restaurant (Sushi for example) does that mean you are bored with all other restaurants?To me it is about the dumbest thing there is to do...And yes, it does stretch her.....Complete boredom...Try fitting your head in or your foot...When two people get that bored with each other that they have to go to this length, it is bad...They don't belong together...I read where some guy in Pennsylvania put some electrodes in his girlfriends p**** to give her an extra charge...Then he plugged it in...It charged her OK...She died...They were either drunk or high...
We have a sex live that we enjoy. We are not bored. Some things we try we don't enjoy so we don't do them again. I don't enjoy eating liver. I have tried it prepared many ways. don't enjoy it. So? I just don't eat liver.
She pegs (use of strapon by female on male) me as well. We tried it and we both enjoy it. Are we bored? No. Is it a matter of her needing to "dominate" me, no. It's fun and brings pleasure.
Frequently we spend time together and only have "convential" sex (whatever that is). Other times we explore a little. Does having a*n*l sex (do they censor these posts?). Does that mean we are bored with v*** sex. No.
Re: above coments on feet. I'm a toe sucker. Drive my SO completely wild. So crazy she gets. Oops, I guess that shows we are bored. I love to suck toes. Why, becuase it brings great pleasure to her. I can't find a way to feel guilty about that - and I do guilt very well.
Maybe we sould not do that either, will probably cause her shoes to no longer fit.Comment
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