Where did I mention anything about playing with trust?
Nothing I have said is contradicted by CW's. Dancintx's or Alicat's comments so far as I can see. If you read my first post again, you'll see I clearly say male chastity being "forced" is impossible. It is always a choice - people who claim otherwise are talking rot.
And while it's true a chastity belt will stop a man from masturbating, I don't see that's a reason for using one.
It seems to me you've made your mind up about what male chastity "must" be and you're refusing to accept anything which challenges that view. Posters like PJC are typical of the online community, to be sure, but they do not represent the majority of people who actually play the game.
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Where did I mention anything about playing with trust?
What you don't know, and there's really no reason you should, is male chastity is more often driven by the man, not the woman. It's almost always the man who brings the subject up and has the task of trying to get his wife or girlfriend to play the game.
There are dominant women out there, I suppose, who try to force this on men, but I have yet to meet one. I occasionally get comments on the blog from them and sometimes even personal messages, but their claims and stories just don't ring true. They're fantasists playing a part for the benefit of sad, lonely men out there who need a little titillation (I get those men, too, unfortunately).
How is it important whether I'm in a minority or not? I don't understand how that's relevant. Would you explain?
No. I wouldn't personally, because the mutually agreed (as in entirely consensual) rules of the game (because it is just a game) say I don't have to.
Moreover, you're confusing sex with orgasm. They are not the same thing.
Control in what respect specifically, Thomas?
Male chastity is something you do with a man, with his consent, not to him.
Sarah.
Nothing I have said is contradicted by CW's. Dancintx's or Alicat's comments so far as I can see. If you read my first post again, you'll see I clearly say male chastity being "forced" is impossible. It is always a choice - people who claim otherwise are talking rot.
And while it's true a chastity belt will stop a man from masturbating, I don't see that's a reason for using one.
It seems to me you've made your mind up about what male chastity "must" be and you're refusing to accept anything which challenges that view. Posters like PJC are typical of the online community, to be sure, but they do not represent the majority of people who actually play the game.
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If you can't trust your guy, get rid.
What you don't know, and there's really no reason you should, is male chastity is more often driven by the man, not the woman. It's almost always the man who brings the subject up and has the task of trying to get his wife or girlfriend to play the game.
There are dominant women out there, I suppose, who try to force this on men, but I have yet to meet one. I occasionally get comments on the blog from them and sometimes even personal messages, but their claims and stories just don't ring true. They're fantasists playing a part for the benefit of sad, lonely men out there who need a little titillation (I get those men, too, unfortunately).
I like only to climax with my partner, but sometimes she just doesn't feel like it. What would I do, always be frustrated??? You do what you want but you'll find yourself in a minority.
Anyway, I don't think you addressed the question as to how often your partner needs sex. Are you saying you'd unlock the device every time he needs satisfaction? Even if that were every day?
Moreover, you're confusing sex with orgasm. They are not the same thing.
Hmm methinks not. I can't help feeling the important word in all this is control.
Male chastity is something you do with a man, with his consent, not to him.
Sarah.
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