[calibri~]

I don't think people are gratuitously flattering you something awesome. You really do have a skill for writing these stories

[jen1447]

Okay, I have a couple remarks finally after reading and re-reading ....

I'm really surprised and impressed that the both of you performed as well as you did. Normally it takes anyone (guy or girl) a while to 'open up' on the receiving end, so to speak. You mentioned that she was really getting into it ....was she (trying to dodge the censor here lol) really um getting a lot of penetrative dynamics going? Anal can often result in a sort of bunching up as opposed to smooth sailing ....did you sail smoothly so to speak? Pretty amazing if so. Maybe the Vegas training session helped more than I would have thought.

On her work, it's also really unusual that a woman just takes to it like a duck to water. I know you said you instructed her on form, but usually you can't actually practice a thing in theory - has to be for real to get the mechanics down. But it sounds like she was right on it pretty much from the get-go. No lunging or little mini-grinds that go nowhere? Wow, what a champ. SAGF is my hero.

I have a couple suggestions for the future too. One really good coupling style is with you standing and bent at the waist maybe 45 degrees, and her mounting you from the rear almost like spooning, either grabbing you around the waist and holding you in place as she thrusts or with one hand around your neck in a semi-choke and the other firmly on your chest to sort of control your stability (because you can't do that well around the waist with one arm). You can use a wall as a counterbalance if you find it too unwieldy, which can happen if the guy's a lot bigger than the girl. That method's really good for whispering sweet dirty nothings in your ear while she does you because her head will naturally be right behind yours. The choke method works better on women due to body types for the most part, but I've had some really good results on men with the waist method. I don't usually use a wall unless I want to seem to push him into something just for it's own sake, but I'm pretty good at balance and form after all the practice I've had lol.

Another thing you might try based on comments above is have her play at being a nun and you being a priest. It would tackle some of those fear and apprehension issues you have lol.

Great job making your fantasy an incredible reality SAGF!! (And nice job taking it like a man SumSum.)

btw, I'm pretty sure SAGF's discussion needs could be met here at WHF. If she goes to a 'domme' forum or what have you she may run into some deviant types there, while here at WHF we're all good peeps while still being pretty accomplished at crazy sex.

Oh also - was the Joque not everything I said it would be? That might actually be why she had so much success right off the bat, or at least partly. The harness is more important than the dildo. And btw, you can indeed load dildos while she's wearing it - just practice it a bit, it's not difficult. And if you get some more dildos down the line, you'll want to be able to switch on the fly because taking the thing off to load a larger one will create a down time - that's the last thing you want when she's in heat and needs to do you now.

[Something_Awesome]

I don't think people are gratuitously flattering you something awesome. You really do have a skill for writing these stories

Thanks Calibri

Okay, I have a couple remarks finally after reading and re-reading ....

I'm really surprised and impressed that the both of you performed as well as you did. Normally it takes anyone (guy or girl) a while to 'open up' on the receiving end, so to speak. You mentioned that she was really getting into it ....was she (trying to dodge the censor here lol) really um getting a lot of penetrative dynamics going? Anal can often result in a sort of bunching up as opposed to smooth sailing ....did you sail smoothly so to speak? Pretty amazing if so. Maybe the Vegas training session helped more than I would have thought.

You may have to elaborate. I mean, she was hitting nothing but the walls of my insides in the beginning. While I did not mention this, Her first attempt at penetrating she missed the whole completely.

On her work, it's also really unusual that a woman just takes to it like a duck to water. I know you said you instructed her on form, but usually you can't actually practice a thing in theory - has to be for real to get the mechanics down. But it sounds like she was right on it pretty much from the get-go. No lunging or little mini-grinds that go nowhere? Wow, what a champ. SAGF is my hero.

Honestly, there may have been like 1 or 2 lunges, but that's it. I always taught her to try to isolate the butt muscles when doing the humping motion. Muscle isolation I guess can be hard for some people, but it never was for her. She's also had a personal trainer so she knows all about isolation. Now we did try different motions (especially when she was tired), like where she would stay flush up against my butt and start grinding away in circular motions. Also, the Greek video I stumbled across helped too in the form department!

Now keep in mind, there was never a point where she was doing me from her feet. If she was not laying over me, she was on her knees. She was hammering away when pulling my hair though, and I can't speak to her form when she was hair pulling because 1) I did not think to look in the mirror during hair pulling, and 2) I think it would have been hard to turn my head given the fierceness in her hair pulling. Starting to regret not seeing her pull my hair and hump me in the mirror.

I still need to read the rest of your post Jen, will do so later on.

[Something_Awesome]

Oh, and I forgot to address your comment about "opening up." Keep in mind that in Vegas I had decent success with the Iris, and that was also my first time doing anything pegging-esque. The Iris was definitely more challenging than the Mustang.

When I saw the Mustang at the store I knew I'd take it no problem. It was skinnier than the Iris and did not have big bulges. Honestly, I just made the decision that I was going to take the mustang all the way on the first try and that was it. Where there is a will there's a way (though there really was no discomfort with the Mustang).

I have a couple suggestions for the future too. One really good coupling style is with you standing and bent at the waist maybe 45 degrees, and her mounting you from the rear almost like spooning, either grabbing you around the waist and holding you in place as she thrusts or with one hand around your neck in a semi-choke and the other firmly on your chest to sort of control your stability (because you can't do that well around the waist with one arm). You can use a wall as a counterbalance if you find it too unwieldy, which can happen if the guy's a lot bigger than the girl. That method's really good for whispering sweet dirty nothings in your ear while she does you because her head will naturally be right behind yours. The choke method works better on women due to body types for the most part, but I've had some really good results on men with the waist method. I don't usually use a wall unless I want to seem to push him into something just for it's own sake, but I'm pretty good at balance and form after all the practice I've had lol.

That sounds great but I'm having trouble imagining this working. I am thinking she would not be able to reach the "entrance" if we are both on our feet. I could be imagining our proportions wrong though. We have an 11 inch height difference.

Another thing you might try based on comments above is have her play at being a nun and you being a priest. It would tackle some of those fear and apprehension issues you have lol.

Lol, I'll pass. She'd make a great nun though.

btw, I'm pretty sure SAGF's discussion needs could be met here at WHF. If she goes to a 'domme' forum or what have you she may run into some deviant types there, while here at WHF we're all good peeps while still being pretty accomplished at crazy sex.

I'd have way too much explaining to do if I went this route lol. She'd probably kill me if she found out a face was put to her "pee" incident.

Oh also - was the Joque not everything I said it would be? That might actually be why she had so much success right off the bat, or at least partly. The harness is more important than the dildo. And btw, you can indeed load dildos while she's wearing it - just practice it a bit, it's not difficult. And if you get some more dildos down the line, you'll want to be able to switch on the fly because taking the thing off to load a larger one will create a down time - that's the last thing you want when she's in heat and needs to do you now.

Yeah, the Joque is pretty sweet. My worry was sturdiness at the base of the dildo once installed. That did not appear to be an issue. Good looking out on the recommendation. On par with the Iris recommendation IMO.

As for going for a bigger size, not sure that's in the plans for the near future. It's more about the experience for us and her being able to finally penetrate a dude as opposed to me getting my bum split in half

[jen1447]

You may have to elaborate. I mean, she was hitting nothing but the walls of my insides in the beginning. While I did not mention this, Her first attempt at penetrating she missed the whole completely.

Okay, that issue aside ....put it this way (jeez it almost seems like you're messing with me here ) - when it was working right, did you take as much as she gave, and did it go in similar to how a penis or toy goes into a vagina normally? (Think lack of impediments, no hangups, etc.)

That sounds great but I'm having trouble imagining this working. I am thinking she would not be able to reach the "entrance" if we are both on our feet. I could be imagining our proportions wrong though. We have an 11 inch height difference.

You'll have to widen you stance to even out the elevation.

I'd have way too much explaining to do if I went this route lol. She'd probably kill me if she found out a face was put to her "pee" incident.

I've already forgotten what that was. (See what I did there? )

She was hammering away when pulling my hair though,

Pretty vivid image. Jen approved. Did she make the slap-slap-slap sounds?

[jns]

That sounds great but I'm having trouble imagining this working. I am thinking she would not be able to reach the "entrance" if we are both on our feet. I could be imagining our proportions wrong though. We have an 11 inch height difference.

jen's widening stance for height difference works for some but not all. My wife and I have a 20 inch height difference, so accommodations have to be made. I sometimes see women shorter than their men but with a higher butt line: they have significantly longer legs. Anyhow, to accommodate, find something of the right height that can make up the difference. Maybe the edge of the bathtub. Maybe a step on the stairs. Maybe a short stool for working in the kitchen. The only real requirements are that it is the right height and that it is sturdy enough to not fall over during the games.

[Motorguy]

jen's widening stance for height difference works for some but not all. My wife and I have a 20 inch height difference, so accommodations have to be made. I sometimes see women shorter than their men but with a higher butt line: they have significantly longer legs. Anyhow, to accommodate, find something of the right height that can make up the difference. Maybe the edge of the bathtub. Maybe a step on the stairs. Maybe a short stool for working in the kitchen. The only real requirements are that it is the right height and that it is sturdy enough to not fall over during the games.

Wow that's a lot of height difference there JNS how tall are you and your wife.

[Something_Awesome]

Okay, that issue aside ....put it this way (jeez it almost seems like you're messing with me here ) - when it was working right, did you take as much as she gave, and did it go in similar to how a penis or toy goes into a vagina normally? (Think lack of impediments, no hangups, etc.)

It's hard to say because of my lack of experience (nothing prior to compare it to). But I did not feel much friction, if that's the right word? I could feel when I needed more lube, and then I'd start feeling some friction/resistance. Honestly though, as long as I relaxed my butt, it was smooth. I did not feel like I was loose though. I remember telling myself during the whole thing that the Mustang felt like the perfect size, which is why I don't want to get a second dildo. I was extremely impressed with how my GF knew I was not relaxing the butthole. I thought her reminding me was pretty hot.

To straight out answer your question, I would not say it was as smooth as a penis going into a vagina, but I did feel comfortable (unless the water-based lube dried out). I'll have to pay more attention to the sensations next time. For me, it's less about the feeling of penetration and more about the act itself, feeling my GF's momentum, and a couple other things that's hard to explain.

I've already forgotten what that was. (See what I did there? )

LOL, thanks, but I'm probably going to have to pass on bringing her here.

Pretty vivid image. Jen approved. Did she make the slap-slap-slap sounds?

There was some noise sometimes, but nothing pronounced; nothing close to that loud slap/smack type noise. She's good, but still new, so there is room for her to polish her skills.

My wife and I have a 20 inch height difference, so accommodations have to be made.

Looks like you have a typo in your post, jns.

[jns]

Wow that's a lot of height difference there JNS how tall are you and your wife.

6'3" and 4'7".

[Something_Awesome]

Are you attracted to shorties or she ended up being someone you were attracted to who happened to also be short?