[sillypanda13]

Your thread has been a huge help with something my boyfriend and I have only began discussing! Unlike your story though, it is my boyfriend that is interested in the idea oh him receiving the penetration. He is definitely more experimental than myself, but has had a good record of helping me try new and exciting things in the bedroom that I have enjoyed quite a bit. I dont have a lot of experience with sexual intercourse, and am actually quite surprised at how much I enjoy and look forward to our sex life. But lately I have had a few concerns. We are very open with one and other, and he has talked for a while now that he is interested in warming me up into butt play. I have began to warm up to him playing with mine, but yesterday our discussion went in a way I did not expect. Like I said, we are very open with one an other, and I know he has tried a few things that he has enjoyed in the past. Some such as, his butt being played with. He even admitted to me that he has a personal toy he uses when pleasuring himself. He caught me off guard (I admit, I probably should have kind of expected it to come up sometime) when he admitted to me that he would really enjoy it if I felt comfortable enough with playing with his butt area.. (not quite sure how to refer to that area without sounding un-lady like.) He even took it a step further and admitted that he would find it very sexy if I would "F" him with some kind of strap on or any other item, much like your harness and dildo. I told him I would keep an open mind and would definitely put some thought into it.. Im not quite sure how I feel about it. I want to pleasure him, and I want to help him with his fantasies, but at the same time, Im just not quite sure how such things should be done to bring him actual pleasure, while also pleasuring myself.. Do you or anyone else have any kind of advise?

[Something_Awesome]

Sorry for the late response (hopefully clicking "like" got your attention), but I am not sure I could give a lot of advice. Part of the reason why is because I still don't like the feeling of being penetrated. I mean, if my GF and I split it's not like I'd try to stimulate my anus when I am alone as a form of masturbation or anything like that. Your BF though probably has a really good idea of what he likes, so he should be able to guide with what feels good and what doesn't.

Now I do not recall if it was alluded to in this thread, but Jen mentioned somewhere that a lot of females that engage in this act tend to "lunge." First, that won't look sexy when you're humping your guy. Second, it'd probably tire you out faster. You want to isolate your humps/thrusts to your glutes (and maybe hams). You may have to practice, but my GF nailed it pretty quickly.

Also, Jen recommended the Joque harness. It is definitely an awesome harness! You never know Panda, you may ending up enjoying it a lot more than he does. The role reversal could be a huge turn on for you.

[BigRed]

I have never once in my life considered pegging as I viewed it as very homosexual however I am obsessed with analinguis and finger play... Since joining this forum I have been thinking about pegging more and more and just looked up videos online and am definitely becoming intrigued.

I know bringing up pegging to my wife would freak her out... I myself am pretty freaked out right now... Any advice for someone like me how I can slowly work my way into pegging? I want to experiment with smaller toys first to see how bad it hurts. God what have you guys done to me?

[Something_Awesome]

I say show her a video and see how she responds. I showed my GF a video and that was that. There is no way she'd turn back from pegging either. In our case though, pegging is more about her pleasure. I like it too, but not for the penetration.

[BigRed]

Does the penetration feel good? Or is it just all about the kinkiness of the act? I don't think my wife will be into it

[Something_Awesome]

The kinkiness. Gf makes it real kinky too. I mean, she's taken it to levels I am not going to post about lol. You never know though, you're wife may like it! She probably won't even really know until she actually tries it.

Edit: if you guys do it, I say don't do heavy moaning at first lol. It may freak her out . Me though, I don't really moan or anything. I am pretty silent but I will make a sound here or there at the right moments, when I know it will excite her.