[Amber]

Wow, I'm not sure I can just pop another chocolate ball in my mouth and simply just eat it again. I can't describe to you exactly what it tasted like but it seemed like one chocolate ball took me forever to eat. I licked it, I s*cked it, and much much more. It seemed like it took a lifetime to eat but that was quite fine by me. The wine has sipped through me so unfortunately you are not going to get much more out of me. Maybe it is time to pull the big red bow.

[WildChild]

You go girl!

[Amber]

I just ordered from CD Universe again. Not sure why they call it CD, should be DVD but who cares. Scott was actually pretty tame, so I decided I need something a little more involved in it all. I never thought I would have seen the day that I would be buying this kind of stuff. I'm sticking with men solo right now. I'm not sure I'm ready for couples at it just yet. I have a feeling that would just depress me and that is obviously not the kind of reaction I'm looking for.

[Amber]

Maybe this sounds quite petty but I'm looking at this turquois blue baby doll that I know he really liked on me. The undies with Rhinestones are even cute. What do I do with these now? Burn them? Or do I wear them for another guy, just not letting the new guy know I had worn them for an ex. I could wear them when I'm alone but I know that is just going to depress me. At least right now it would.

Tex, would that freak you out if somehow you found out that she was wearing the same skimpy baby doll that she wore with her ex? Or does that kind of thing not phase men?

I have plenty of bra and panty sets that I wore for him also and they were not cheap in cost either.

[Texinator]

You wear those things to feel good about yourself. Guys will find the underwear and lingerie sexy too but it's really for you to feel sexy. So it doesn't really matter whom you wanted to impress with the outfits. Keep them.

[WildChild]

I agree. You are discovering the sexy you. You just enjoy them.

[Texinator]

I'd go so far as to say that even if your ex had bought those things for you then it would be completely within your right to continue wearing them when you're by yourself or even when you're with another guy. They're yours and for you.

[Amber]

Tex, he didn't buy them for me. I bought them myself, wanting to look sexy for him. But they do make me feel sexy.

[Texinator]

I know, I'm just saying all that matters is that you find the clothes sexy and you're free to wear them whenever you want to.

It doesn't matter if they were originally intended to turn on your ex and it shouldn't matter if you wear them in front of another guy in the future.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Amber there was quite a lengthy discussion here about "boots". A guy bought his lady a pair of black boots that he wanted to see in her. They broke up. He expects her to ditch them, buy another pair if she wants, but never wear them. We all disagreed " a gift is a gift" and it's up to her.

Just saying for future references.

You bought them for you, to look sexy. Sure, he was in your life and you wanted to wear them in front of him, but it was your money, your action, your reaction.

So if they make you feel sexy and they sound really sexy, then wear them for you, be that in-front of another man one day or not... Remember, all that you do, is for you, your inner child, the one that wants to come out to play...

CW