[Texinator]

Go make new memories. You can't let your past dictate your future.

[Amber]

My aunt just sent an early Christmas present. It was a tea pot that you boil loose leaf tea in it. The flavor tea that came with it is ginger peach.

I remember hearing somewhere that ginger is a aphrodisiac. Does aphrodisiac really work or is sort of just a myth? I'm not a oyster fan but does anyone else know what kind of food is an aphrodisiac and what kind of effect does it really have on you? I'm wondering if I can have any luck with it.

[Amber]

Well you'll need to be able to tell him what you like. Can't expect him to know if you don't know.

I find it hard to figure out what I do like. I have no clue what to even try on myself. He use to touch me lightly that I got that shiver kind of feeling but that is all I know. He kissed my body a little bit but still. I mean what am I suppose to do, starting kissing my body? Or start licking myself? I find that sort of awkward and strange to do to myself but it may feel pretty good when a guy does it. I just feel clueless on what to try to see if I even like it or not.

[the wench]

if he doesnt turn u on ur with the wrong person....sex isnt all a relationship is about however but if ther isnt any sexual chemistry its not guna work in my opinion....my boyfriend turns me on so much a didnt think it was possible lol.
he makes me laff...smile...feel safe...loved and neva fails 2 make me erm....flood haha...its all i cud possible want....

[Amber]

if he doesnt turn u on ur with the wrong person....sex isnt all a relationship is about however but if ther isnt any sexual chemistry its not guna work in my opinion....my boyfriend turns me on so much a didnt think it was possible lol.
he makes me laff...smile...feel safe...loved and neva fails 2 make me erm....flood haha...its all i cud possible want....

I think you have misunderstood me. I'm trying to get myself aroused for masturbation. Tex, said there is no way for a guy to know what you like if I don't even know myself. So I have to learn myself what I like but I have no clue what to try. I'm new to all of this. Obviously playing with you down below gets women going if they are relaxed but I would think there is more to learn about than that. I guess what kind of forplay do women like is maybe a better question?

[the wench]

I think you have misunderstood me. I'm trying to get myself aroused for masturbation. Tex, said there is no way for a guy to know what you like if I don't even know myself. So I have to learn myself what I like but I have no clue what to try. I'm new to all of this. Obviously playing with you down below gets women going if they are relaxed but I would think there is more to learn about than that. I guess what kind of forplay do women like is maybe a better question?

ahhhh i see....sorry lol.
me and my partner have never had a problem sexually but always keep things fresh so its not just the same thing....best thing weve done is using play dice....its not only a fun way 2 start foreplay but would give u and ur partner a fun way of exploring each other without any uncomfortableness.
if its jst 4 ur own pleasure than i would suggest a candlelit bath 4 1 relax urself..get in a sexual kind of mood and do wat u feel is natural at the tym....nipples r an extreme arousal point(spesh wen wet!) so maybe start ther and work ur way down...or even jst watch porn...see wat they do and copy...see if u lyk wat ur feeling...hope ive helped this tym round lol

[Amber]

Thanks for the advise Wench.

[Amber]

One of the women I have been making friends with lately is now on my facebook. She is also friends with my ex. She is not a very close friend to him but she has spent time with him at events before. He, along with a hundred other people, are on her facebook account. I obviously took my ex off my facebook account the day he broke up with me. There was no way I could take looking at it after that.

Well, today, my friend posted something on her facebook wall and my ex responded to it. Now it was just an innocent post he made but all the same when I saw it, it made my heart race twice as fast. And now the tears are starting to threaten again. And I think I'm going to loose fighting them.

I actually did pretty good yesterday and I told myself I finally made 24hours without crying. First time since early October when all of this mess had started. And now this is bothering me. I'm not sure exactly why. At least I'm telling myself I shouldn't let it bother me!!!!! He is not flirting with her. It is nothing like that but I don't know why I'm feeling like this. I think a little of it might have to do with the fact that his post showed he cares. As a friend but still. She said she was having problems and they were causing her to loose sleep. He made a comment back saying I hope today is a better day. Maybe a little of it was the surprise of just seeing it.

Some may argue that he has broken up with you. He is allow to flirt with another. Sorry but I don't see it that way. He said he broke up with me because he couldn't see himself in a relationship any, any, any time soon. Well if he was telling me the truth, then that should mean that he is not going to be flirting with women any time soon either!! But then as I said before, his post was completely innocent. But if he was flirting, then it would be quite safe to call him a b*stard!!! Because that would prove all he told me was one very big fat lie!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I don't know. Maybe I am jealous. That he can say something like that to her meanwhile he is hurting me so much and he doesn't even give a d*mn!! I guess since he is the one doing the hurting, he is not suppose to care what he is doing to me. Even after those two emails I sent him three weeks ago about the stupid chemistry thought. He refused to respond. Instead he chose to just run. And don't worry. Those two emails I sent him three weeks ago were the last emails I have sent him. And no I'm not stupid enough to send him any more. I'm not an extreme sucker for punishment but the way I'm going, I guess I'm pretty close.

I don't know what it is. All I do know is here comes the tears. I guess I'm not meant to get through more than a day without crying.

I had originally blocked my ex, then I took off the block. We are no longer friends but I can see his posts if we have a mutual friend as he could see mine. Maybe I should block him again but then I guess maybe stuff like this will only make me stronger.

[the wench]

dont block him agen...be the stronger 1...even tho its killing u now it will get beta in time (cliche i no...but it wil).
maybe he did that commy so u would see it? he would see uve become friends afta all!
hope u start 2 feel beta soon xxxx

[Texinator]

Amber, don't take his comments to seriously. Even if they were flirtatious it doesn't meant that he lied to you and wants to be in a relationship. Flirting is often nothing more than just some fun. For example, I sometimes flirt here on WH but it's just to goof around. I'm not interested at all in a romantic online relationship.