[mr.mansview]

I just emailed him, saying I'm not available and left it at that. I told him to have fun. I have a feeling this date is never going to happen. I guess it depends on the guy. Some guys I can keep up with, others I can't. It really sucks!

amber when this radio station thing is over for him, text or e-mail him and tell him something personal came up and would he please ask you out again

[Amber]

Forgive me Allie, I don't want you to think I was ignoring you. You slipped in ahead of me while I was writing my message.

The only reason why I really don't want to tell him this time around is because I sent the email already. He asked me if I was available for tomorrow, if not we will talk another time. So I emailed back and said no, I'm sorry i'm not available. I know I should have fessed up but since I already sent the email, I don't want to make it any worse by emailing him back and stating all of it.

But the problem is, he suggested to go to one of the singles events, which I'm fine with and there really is nothing that great happening this week. So I really don't have any ideas to offer him. So I figure I might as well sit tight and see what he comes up next with. Trust me, like I said in that other post, the next event will probably be physical and then I will have to put my foot down. He is already aware there is a physical problem with me. I just don't think he is aware of how much I can't do. And it is not something I will be able to keep secret. Not with a guy like this one.

[Amber]

Doc, the conversation is not completely dead yet because the guy actually told me that he bought a car tonight. So I asked him about it. I don't know if he was joking or what. So I expect he will answer to that. And he did give the option that if tomorrow wasn't good for me, we could do another night. So I don't think he is gone just yet.

[Amber]

I seem to recall a department store once that had a waiting section with a TV that was tuned to a sports show. I have seen that thing more commonly at tire shops and sometimes at auto repair places.

I guess you need to find those big department stores who are selling about thirty TVs. Sit down on one of the model couches and watch each teammate on a different TV. LOL Sounds cool to me!!

[Amber]

Thinking about something. I have mentioned before on here that my nipples are not sensitive. I can feel it when I touch it but I get no sensations at all there. I'm guessing there are nerves there just like down below. Down below my nerves do work but for some reason not in the nipples of my breast.

Two questions. One, for a woman to having sensations in the breast, is like the clitoris that you have to touch it for a while and be turned on. Or is it just sensitive to the touch automatically.

And second, I can't help but wonder. My sex therapist said before that there are nerves in your lips. Could it be possible that something is wrong in the nerves of my lips, just like my nipples. Because I have never felt anything kissing guys so far. If so this really suck that i would never feel anything kissing a guy. I can feel my tongue on my lips just like i can feel if you touch my nipples, I can feel that touch. There is just no wonderful feeling from them.

[Allie602]

Amber my nipples are very sensitive. My lips no. Kissing is pleasant because being held is pleasant but I get no sexual sensation.

I wonder if the sensitivity will develope if you allow yourself to feel the sensitivity of brest by relaxing into. Do you explore your body? I didn't used to but now i caress my body with a light touch with my eyes closed and relaxed, room dark no distractions with light oil or body cream on my skin and no guilt no shame.

I just discovered that my butt checks are sensitive erotically when caressed lightly and slowly. Sometimes you have to find the right touch soft light then increase preside slow or moderate. I find that it's a mind set if I allow myself to feel when I am relaxed, trying different touched and not making a big effect just feeling. Then I find the right touch that feels erotic. Men have it right they explore their bodies women usually don't.

[kristalyn_04]

Every woman's sexual responses are different. Some women don't like their anus played with, even though there is sensation there they just don't get pleasure from it, and others go crazy over it. My college roommate said she hated it when her boyfriend would try to touch her nipples because she doesn't like the feeling, but many women love it and get them aroused. For me, my nipples are quite responsive when stimulated and it feels good, but my areoles have hardly any sensation at all and I can barely feel it when its touched. We're all different, which is why it's good to explore and find out what you like.

[Amber]

Allie, over the past few months, I have tried exploring my body. Even when relaxed, there are no sensations at all when my nipples are touched, rubbed, or anything. It feels like touching rubber. I know I'm being touched but no sensations. I guess there are places that feel nice like my shoulders and my neck but the only place I get sensations is my clitoris. Well, at least so far as I have found.

Every guy I kissed so far, I haven't felt anything from it. Now I don't know if that is a mindset or even the stupid chemistry thing of it all. I say stupid because I have had arguments with my ex-boyfriend about that exactly. Because I never felt anything when he kissed me. :-(

Allie, so when you kiss, you don't get the firework or wonderful sensations so many people say that they get when they kiss a guy? I wonder if I will ever feel those feelings.

kristalyn, you areoles have a little bit of sensation? I ask because I always touch my nipples. I don't think I have tried around the nipples. I'm guessing I won't feel it there, since the nipples have no sensations. But I guess I can try there tonight. I find myself wanting to try now but since I'm in public, I think I'll refrain from that. LOL

[Texinator]

I find myself wanting to try now

Yes! YES! Woohoo!

but since I'm in public, I think I'll refrain from that.

Aaawww... sigh.

Amber, emotional feelings do have something to do with it. I have very sensitive lips, but if I were to just walk up to a stranger and kissed them on the lips, there would be no spark or anything, because there is no emotional connection.

[Amber]

Amber, emotional feelings do have something to do with it. I have very sensitive lips, but if I were to just walk up to a stranger and kissed them on the lips, there would be no spark or anything, because there is no emotional connection.

But I never really thought of it before until recently. The nipples are not that way, are they? I don't need emotional feelings to have sensations in those, do I?