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  • Mes T
    Veteran Member
    • Oct 2009
    • 2678

    Heh. Good question.

    I met my current boyfriend at our morning bus stop, so as I progressively became more shy around him, I started dressing better, smiling, laughing, looking at him then at the ground, etc. And being very attentive to what he was saying.

    A few days later he asked if I had plans that weekend and asked if I wanted to grab some food or a drink or something. Very smooth.

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    • Texinator
      Veteran Member
      • Sep 2009
      • 5556

      Aw, cute.

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      • ThexMrs
        Veteran Member
        • Feb 2009
        • 3335

        Originally posted by baja
        Nice, that is such a classic move but it always works on me...

        Lol, yep... I get complimented on my lips a lot so I like to draw attention to them if I really like you. The only downside to that is that you can also give off the impression that you just want sex.

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        • Lynne Ro
          Junior Member
          • Jan 2010
          • 2

          Most of the time, I ask him stuff about himself, what he does, where he lives, what he's studying....You know the whole thing. I touch him gently, hug him constantly, pay special attention to what he says or does, laugh about the silly things he says (even if they're not funny), ask about a particular subject that he shows interest in, etc.

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          • SecretlySad
            Senior Member
            • Nov 2009
            • 166

            It has been a long time since I have been single, but I am a very sexual flirt. I bite my lip, lean over (cleavage), rub my skin, lick my lips etc.

            It seems kind of whorish but I just liked doing it back in the day hehe

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            • stressed
              Veteran Member
              • Jun 2009
              • 1914

              I don't think there's a plan actually. The best is being yourself and the rest comes naturally without having to think too much about it. I always let the men show a sign first, like CW said, and then build on that if I'm interested.

              Although, I've found it's more difficult to show a man that I am NOT interested instead of the opposite...

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              • the wench
                Veteran Member
                • Dec 2009
                • 239

                i just feel nervous and giggle.....alot! dont really act much diff 2 what i would normally though

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                • WildChild
                  Banned
                  • Sep 2008
                  • 14142

                  So our Gentleman Ghost must be busy lately.

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                  • stressed
                    Veteran Member
                    • Jun 2009
                    • 1914

                    Originally posted by Tex
                    How do you make a move if you're terrified? I guess you'd have to pray that he picks up on one of your signals? Which isn't always the best idea, cause some of us can be very dense when it comes to understanding hints.
                    You leave him a note or a text, or just basically do it from a distance and see if he gets it or not.

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                    • Trina Bean
                      Junior Member
                      • Jan 2010
                      • 9

                      When i flirt i smile and giggle a lot and i do a lot of touching on the arm and acting shy

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