[Texinator]

anyone here have a foot difference with their SO?

Always do. Like I said, I've never dated anyone above 5'6", meaning there has always been at least a foot difference, sometimes even a foot and a half. It's not an advantage and it doesn't make things better in any way.

[LanaBear]

It's good. Very good. But my jealousy doesn't help things very much, that's for sure. When I'm with her, I often think about her with them and it really gets to me. It makes me think differently of her.

So, essentially, you are saying you can't love her unconditionally. If that is the case, you are better off saving you both a lot of heartache and breaking it off. This is so incredibly unfair to your girlfriend.

Go find another girlfriend whose ex's fit into the stereotypical "mold" that you approve of.

[Ashlee T.]

I do. Once again, as I responded the last time and the time before, I'm 5'3'', my boyfriend is 6'3''. I'm the tough one. I'm the dominant one. He doesn't dwarf me. My personality dwarfs him at times.

Aside from that, what do you and your gf like to do together? What is it about her that you love? And does she realize the extent of this problem you have? My thoughts, if she had ex boyfriends who were all 5'4'', you'd fixate on that too. "Short guys must have thicker penises..." "What is it about short guys she likes? Does she like to dominate them? She must be a control freak!".

[Guest]

I do. Once again, as I responded the last time and the time before, I'm 5'3'', my boyfriend is 6'3''. I'm the tough one. I'm the dominant one. He doesn't dwarf me. My personality dwarfs him at times.

Aside from that, what do you and your gf like to do together? What is it about her that you love? And does she realize the extent of this problem you have? My thoughts, if she had ex boyfriends who were all 5'4'', you'd fixate on that too. "Short guys must have thicker penises..." "What is it about short guys she likes? Does she like to dominate them? She must be a control freak!".

You are probably right.

[WildChild]

You are probably right.

So how about breaking this pattern? Every time these thoughts start, say, "Thank you for sharing" and let them go. Don't dwell. Don't get upset about thinking it. Just tell your brain, "thank you for sharing, we aren't going there anymore" and let it go.

[Guest]

So how about breaking this pattern? Every time these thoughts start, say, "Thank you for sharing" and let them go. Don't dwell. Don't get upset about thinking it. Just tell your brain, "thank you for sharing, we aren't going there anymore" and let it go.

I guess my question is this. If her last boyfriend was 6ft 2 and I'm 5ft 10, would she notice a big difference? I'm still taller than her, just not as much. Do you think the difference between me and him is pronounced? Something that she'd feel when we kiss or hug etc. I mean maybe at her height (5ft 4.5) , 4 inches isn't much of a deal? If I knew that, I guess I could put this to rest. Almost every guy is taller than her. She may not even notice that much I guess.

[Texinator]

It doesn't matter. Even if she notices, she's not going to care. If she were as obsessed about height, she wouldn't be dating you. Let it go.

[Ashlee T.]

I guess my question is this. If her last boyfriend was 6ft 2 and I'm 5ft 10, would she notice a big difference?

If I knew that, I guess I could put this to rest.

But see, you're lying to yourself. IF knowing that would put this to rest for you, then it would've been put to rest 3-4 posts ago. You've posted these same questions in the past, and we've answered them over and over to try to reassure you. We want you to post here.......but you get answers and that's not good enough because you're not getting the answer you want. I think what you truly want is someone to say "Omg, that's a HUGE difference in height. Wow, he must've had a monster wang! " But you're NOT going to hear that, because it's not reality. You can come back every 6 mths for the next ten years and post this same question and you will continue to get the same answers.

If what you said is true, then the pages and pages of responses you've received on this post, along with the numerous responses you've gotten on your other ones, should put this issue to rest in your mind then........right?

[Guest]

But see, you're lying to yourself. IF knowing that would put this to rest for you, then it would've been put to rest 3-4 posts ago. You've posted these same questions in the past, and we've answered them over and over to try to reassure you. We want you to post here.......but you get answers and that's not good enough because you're not getting the answer you want. I think what you truly want is someone to say "Omg, that's a HUGE difference in height. Wow, he must've had a monster wang! " But you're NOT going to hear that, because it's not reality. You can come back every 6 mths for the next ten years and post this same question and you will continue to get the same answers.

If what you said is true, then the pages and pages of responses you've received on this post, along with the numerous responses you've gotten on your other ones, should put this issue to rest in your mind then........right?

No one has said that the difference betwen 6ft 2 and 5ft 10 would not be a noticeable one. That's all I'm asking. Nothing more. Nothing less. The penis thing is old news. Not a concern anymore.

[WildChild]

If she cares for you then she likes your height.
Period
That is all there is
End of story