[Stillness]

Is it likely that your wife never had much larger than you?

I never asked. We please each other. That's enough.

[lizzardb63]

Is it likely that your wife never had much larger than you? If the biggest she's had was let's say, 2" bigger than you are, that's not likely to even register much in her mind. But if she's had significantly larger she probably does remember that experience. I still don't doubt she doesn't care about your size though. Women are weird creatures.

You're so stuck on, the bigger the penis the better the sex, which really isn't the case. Besides, you make it sound like it's just a comparison. What I (me personally) compare is how nice a man treats me, how he makes me feel, and the passion, not the size of his penis.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Is it likely that your wife never had much larger than you? If the biggest she's had was let's say, 2" bigger than you are, that's not likely to even register much in her mind. But if she's had significantly larger she probably does remember that experience. I still don't doubt she doesn't care about your size though. Women are weird creatures.

I actually took a few steps back after marriage in my early-mid twenties and tried a penis extension technique. It lasted all of a few days because my wife simply does not care (not enough, if at all). Plus, I got bored and felt stupid. I was stupid. Later on and on multiple occasions she has defended me from my own stupidity by genuinely letting me know how much she appreciates what I do and what I am sexually.

So I'd like to take all the credit, but a lot of it is the power of a good woman. That may be the thing that some of these fellas need.

I'm not trying to be rude Obelisk but you have to, I think, take yourself out of the equation. Stillness clearly stated that he even tried (when he was younger) a strap on and his wife, did not care for it at all and loves his love making, then and now.

If every woman is stating that it's technique, it's love, it's intimacy, it's bonding and they don't care then why wouldn't you concede to that and realise that.

I mean heck, I'm 50 so you can imagine how many penises I've had... Yep, not something you like the thought of. I've had small, medium, medium, large... medium... We really don't give a shirt....

Maybe a teenager experimenting might... at first. But, even she would/will come to the conclusion it's more about love and bonding and learning each others bodies, that is the best sex any of us have and will ever have.

[Obelisk]

I mean heck, I'm 50 so you can imagine how many penises I've had... Yep, not something you like the thought of.

You're right, I don't like the thought of that. Even if I was large, I'd still be uncomfortable with a woman that has had many partners.

Anyway it seems the penile exercises are helping. I'm starting to see results, so I'm feeling hopeful I can reach the # I want to be.

And I don't know what I will do about finding women that haven't been around the block so much. Maybe I should just give up and start doing the same thing myself. Penis size definitely won't matter with women that I only sleep with once or twice.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

lols..

Make sure you don't "use" them, then.............

For the record, I was married for 7, being with my fiancé for 4, engaged before that for 4 and first boyfriend and I were on and off for 17 years, throw in a couple of I don't care and I think that's normal for a 50 year old...

Remember, people's past is exactly that. It's what you bring to the table for their present that creates a future , long future.

[Stillness]

Stillness clearly stated that he even tried (when he was younger) a strap on and his wife

Haha, no. I messed around with a technique to extend my penis. Mine is the only phallus allowed in my bedroom.

[Obelisk]

lols..

Make sure you don't "use" them, then.............

For the record, I was married for 7, being with my fiancé for 4, engaged before that for 4 and first boyfriend and I were on and off for 17 years, throw in a couple of I don't care and I think that's normal for a 50 year old...

Remember, people's past is exactly that. It's what you bring to the table for their present that creates a future , long future.

Chandler's Wish, you made it sound like you've been with over 30 guys lol.

It sounds like you've been with maybe 6 or 7? I think definitely the circumstances could cause a person who wants to try a match for themselves to have that many partners in a 30 year timespan.

Has there been a lot of size disparity in those men you have been with?

And no, I don't want to "use" women. I never did. I still don't. I rather not have anyone, which is the way I may end up in the end anyway.

Haha, no. I messed around with a technique to extend my penis. Mine is the only phallus allowed in my bedroom.

I've been doing some stretching and already seeing some results. I'm actually excited that I may reach my size goal eventually. If it works why the heck not?

[Stillness]

If it works why the heck not?

What you do with your stuff is for you to decide. For me, whatever successes I had romantically, spiritually, careerwise, with friends and life in general had nothing to do with my penis size. That's not the measure of a man in my book - not the man I wanted to be. I looked in the mirror at the person holding his penis in his hand, obsessing over the size of it and it wasn't what I wanted for myself. Like I said, I felt stupid.

Everybody lives in slightly different worlds of their own making. Who we attract and spend time with is a reflection of ourselves. My wife is a lot like me. Like just about everyone with eyes, I appreciate beauty, but I'm not very hung up on physical things and neither is she. And even if I was, bigger is not necessarily better. You are more concerned with size, so it may be that you attract size queens. I don't know. Penis size could matter more in your world. I can only do what I know works for me. I wish you the best.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Haha, no. I messed around with a technique to extend my penis. Mine is the only phallus allowed in my bedroom.

Haha. The visualisation Sorry about that Stillness, I need more sleep maybe read it wrong P

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Chandler's Wish, you made it sound like you've been with over 30 guys lol.

It sounds like you've been with maybe 6 or 7? I think definitely the circumstances could cause a person who wants to try a match for themselves to have that many partners in a 30 year timespan.

Has there been a lot of size disparity in those men you have been with?

And no, I don't want to "use" women. I never did. I still don't. I rather not have anyone, which is the way I may end up in the end anyway.



I've been doing some stretching and already seeing some results. I'm actually excited that I may reach my size goal eventually. If it works why the heck not?

I did that deliberately to gage how you would react Not being mean, just you know.. I mean a lot of guys not you, obviously have done the 30 - 100 by 30... I don't judge.

Honestly? I think I am a good example anyway. At 50. Honestly? Most around the same as you all talk about the average ... But, there are so many selfish lovers which is what others have been trying to state on this thread and many more.. That being, in and out and over and done with, not much before, not much during and obviously nothing after..

Or, nothing at all before but expect that I did..

I've said this before .. The best orgasm I ever had (before) was on one of those occasions, pfttt don't car. And, he was small. But, the foreplay drove me mad that I shocked the shirt out of him and myself.

That is why I can honestly state, without a doubt due to age, and experience of a little more than 7, that it is all about understanding "that" woman's body and women and not anything to do with size, believe it or not, we can make guys realise but not if they have it set in their mind..

Once you have something set into your mind, no one can change it.