[Kels08]

He had a seizure at work today first time it has ever happened got off work early went and got him from the Hospital. He doesn't deserve this happening to him.

[effy2014]

No he does not deserve to have the illness. However, when they get the dose of the meds right (it takes time), he will live a basically normal and healthy life. Please check back in with us and let us know how he is doing.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Kels, you have to be the strong one.

This is a transition as Effy said, it will take time. The good thing is he was diagnosed and is being treated.

Most people have something wrong with them and eventually it rears it's head, some worse than others, he can live with this and be happy.

Be by his side and tell him he's a tough cookie that they will work out the right meds and you are right there beside him, now and forever.

[Euphoric]

Kels,

It may sound like we're beating you up, but actually I think the majority of us wanted you to see the situation from another perspective. Sometimes that's hard to do when you're too close to the situation. I've been there and I'll be the first to say that I've posted asking for my WHF family for help. And, they have never failed to deliver. Not going into details here, but I was knock off my axis and the members here walked with me through that journey, supported me, and yes, helped me see the situation from ALL angles. It was their guidance that helped me pull it together. Stick around, you'll see we're actually pretty nice people, but we also call it like we see it. It's not uncommon for newcomers to post, thinking we know their situation intimately and assume we should know something, but until you've been around a while, we don't and we can only advise according to the limited info. we received. Trust me, you'll like it here.

Euphoric

[Kels08]

I don't feel beaten up.

Boyfriend proposed to me tonight and I said yes. And then he had a seizure =/.

[Kels08]

Now i feel really awful. He wanted to try and do it and midway through he seized. =(

[Echo7]

that's awful for your poor BF. Just keep on being compassionate and understanding and you will get through it together. I hope he can find a meds routine that controls the seizures soon!

[CHANDLERS WISH]

He wanted to try

Stop beating yourself up.

He's scared of losing you, you've made it clear you intend to be there, he hasn't got his medication down pact yet, it's only been a few weeks since he was diagnosed.

Hug him and hug yourself.

[Kels08]

I just cuddled him/held on to him.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Kel, you are obviously hurting as well here.

Why not use this thread to just talk? You are important as well.