Basically, I find rolls of flab completely unattractive, as do many men/women I know. I don't think men have any more right to be fat than women. But really, for me, it's about athletic ability. One of the biggest turn-offs for me is a woman who can't climb, who needs their hand holding traversing over anything more complicated than a step. Maybe the reason for this is that if my woman is running away from a tiger with a baby in her arms, you'd want to select a mate that wont trip over in two seconds and be eaten.
I think it's a shame that all society encourage for women these days is shopping and talking, in England so few girls do any sort of physical activity at all - which is unattractive. Just like it's unattractive for a man to be fat and lack muscle mass (c'mon girls, how many of you would choose a few lines of definition on a guy?).
Know what I tell fat men who can't get women? Lose weight and get fit... No reason the opposite shouldn't apply.
In my school we had PE twice a week, which I still think is far too little. One of the most memorable things about PE would be a few fat girls that would cry their eyes out when they were told to get any exercise, watching them fail to pick one leg up higher than their knee.
That's great and fine. I'm not talking about stick thin, as that can be as unhealthy as overweight. People who exercise like mad are also generally boring people, it can be a simple as having a hobby that involves exercise.
Guys in the media are ruggedly handsome, barely an ounce of fat on them and defined muscles all over. This is what women want in general (or a big trick by the media...), however there is no attention on how to get that way... I agree that the size-0 thing is way OTT, but you know why there are so few fat people on tele? Because people would rather look at an attractive person....
I've read many times on this board of women who say things like "I'm a woman and I deserve to have a man who is hot, does this and this, etc" but still seems to resent the fact that men also set themselves standards.
Being overweight is a growing health risk for western society - in fact in England it's being proposed that the National Health Service would not cover people who didn't look after their own bodies, which was essentially smokers and fat people. It can't be healthy if the govenment has to change legislation becuase it simply can't affort to treat all the illnessess that people bring upon themselves.
I know this mega fat guy, who got told by doctors to chew his food before he swallowed it, but it's just a doctor, what does he know. He's bad enough that I have no doubt he'll have serious health risks when he's 35. Anyway, this guy somehow still manages to attract women (I can't see how the sight of him naked wouldn't empty your stomach), and I think in a way that's part of the problem. If women would just not go near him with a bargepole then he'd have an incentive to lose weight, for her and more importantly for his own health.
I think it's a shame that all society encourage for women these days is shopping and talking, in England so few girls do any sort of physical activity at all - which is unattractive. Just like it's unattractive for a man to be fat and lack muscle mass (c'mon girls, how many of you would choose a few lines of definition on a guy?).
Know what I tell fat men who can't get women? Lose weight and get fit... No reason the opposite shouldn't apply.
In my school we had PE twice a week, which I still think is far too little. One of the most memorable things about PE would be a few fat girls that would cry their eyes out when they were told to get any exercise, watching them fail to pick one leg up higher than their knee.
That's great and fine. I'm not talking about stick thin, as that can be as unhealthy as overweight. People who exercise like mad are also generally boring people, it can be a simple as having a hobby that involves exercise.
Guys in the media are ruggedly handsome, barely an ounce of fat on them and defined muscles all over. This is what women want in general (or a big trick by the media...), however there is no attention on how to get that way... I agree that the size-0 thing is way OTT, but you know why there are so few fat people on tele? Because people would rather look at an attractive person....
I've read many times on this board of women who say things like "I'm a woman and I deserve to have a man who is hot, does this and this, etc" but still seems to resent the fact that men also set themselves standards.
Being overweight is a growing health risk for western society - in fact in England it's being proposed that the National Health Service would not cover people who didn't look after their own bodies, which was essentially smokers and fat people. It can't be healthy if the govenment has to change legislation becuase it simply can't affort to treat all the illnessess that people bring upon themselves.
I know this mega fat guy, who got told by doctors to chew his food before he swallowed it, but it's just a doctor, what does he know. He's bad enough that I have no doubt he'll have serious health risks when he's 35. Anyway, this guy somehow still manages to attract women (I can't see how the sight of him naked wouldn't empty your stomach), and I think in a way that's part of the problem. If women would just not go near him with a bargepole then he'd have an incentive to lose weight, for her and more importantly for his own health.
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