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    The New Beginning...

    To those who have helped or tried to help, Thank You!
    Things here have been turning a little more positive. She has read all of my posts here and still doesn't want a divorce, so I'm obviously very happy about that. Early this morning she woke up as did I for the 2:30 bathroom rush, being a gentleman I Always let her go first. But when I came back to bed, she was naked. I was startled at first thinking that we were physically apart. Long story short, no we didn't make love. She told me to take off my underwear, but I told her that I wanted to see how far things went first and wanted to move slowly on her schedule. We kissed like lovers again, we snuggled like teenagers. OMG, this is the first time in a long time that These feelings have come around like this. She and I laid there kissing like we were doing it for the first time. I loved every second of it, and wish it hadn't ended. I could be like that with her for hours upon hours. I told her how much I loved her and how great it felt to be that close again. When it stopped, I thanked her for sharing that precious time with me. I think she got tingly as she puts it. I know I could have bored a hole into solid granite after the first few seconds. But, I told her that I want to wait until she is completely and totally ready before we do anything because I want her to fully enjoy it. I think I might have a better outlook on things today.
  • spurzzz
    Veteran Member
    • Mar 2011
    • 246

    Top man Mark, top man!

    You come across as a true gentleman to the word and have a really good heart. Your woman is lucky to have you and I wish you guys the very best.

    Try and not be too nice in the bedroom all the time though. Sometimes we men need to be exciting lovers and make the sparks flow. I think she knows you love her, now take those pants off and show her what you think of her!!!!!

    Sometimes in life we must seize the moment and grab opportunity by the hair. Sitting back waiting for "perfect" moments is often a long road to unhappiness. We must choose and make our own roads in life at times. Know your road, what you want and work hard at creating the happiness and fulfillments you both want in the relationship.

    Wish you all the best.
    I am going to tell you what you don't want to hear!
    Advice is what we ask for when we already know the answer but wish we didn't

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    • Guest

      WildChild and Chandler's Wish, there may be hope for me yet!

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      • Guest

        Aaaawwwwwmmmmmmmmmm- I just got a text, BIG GRIN on my face!!! I have a feeling that this is just the beginning of something very DELICIOUSLY teasing!!! Ooohhhh, Me Likey!!!!!

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        • ItsASecret
          APRIL 2011 POSTER OF THE MONTH
          • Apr 2009
          • 3721

          Good for you Mark! See you know how to tell her that it that closeness you desire. Keep going at her pace and you will likely get more of these snuggle fests haha. It may not happen everyday but even if it is a little it can put a little pep in your step knowing that she is open to it and she did it all by herself by her own free will.
          There are those who believe that dictionaries should not merely reflect the times but also protect English from the mindless assaults of the trendy.

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          • Guest

            I love snuggles and right now, it's great. If she wants more, I'll be all the more grateful if it's on her timetable. This is quite exciting!!

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            • Guest

              "Take it slow, make it last, take it easy, not too fast"

              Sounds like things are starting to come around. That's terrific!

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              • Guest

                Seeker_Advice, I plan on going at her speed for as long as it takes.

                I just got off the phone with my attorney about my arm that got kind of mangled at work a few years back. The insurance company offered to settle since they don't want it to go to trial. They offered a lot more than I could have hoped for. I'm keeping this as low key as I can, but first thing is to take my son and wife out to dinner at a Nice place to eat. A dozen red roses for her and a new game system for him. He has never had one and he's 11. I've got to get a used plow and disc to plant our garden with, nothing new for me. The rest is her's to do with as she see's fit, poor Lady has put up with me all these years and she deserves to be pampered like my Princess should be. It's not a lot of money to some, but I could buy a KIA outright with it. My wife and son deserves to have a nice treat.

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                • WildChild
                  Banned
                  • Sep 2008
                  • 14142

                  This is all exciting Mark! Now keep the good thoughts and good energy going!

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                  • ltsang
                    Member
                    • Jan 2010
                    • 94

                    Hi Buddy. Great Job. I still need to work on mine. We do have sex, but my ended to quickly.

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                    Last edited by CHANDLERS WISH; 05-07-2011, 04:18 PM. Reason: too much information

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